In love with a T-Girl

[Gypsy1955]

Ahhh, Love.... The most complicated word in the English language. With so many meanings to everyone, it makes it nearly impossible for anyone outside of yourself to really know what you are feeling. If you honestly answer the questions that have been asked by previous posters on this thread, you and only you will know what to do. To me it seems that you are living in two separate worlds, reality and fantasy. When these two worlds collide( my next thread topic) you will have to deal with the repercussions, good and bad. If you can keep them separate, you can have the best of both worlds. The confusion of love? Only you can answer that. Good luck

I think if I could arrange a visit with my dream girl, SuzyHung, I'd be cured. But the 5000 km distance between us keeps getting in the way.

[Guest]

fly

Take a plane.

[Gypsy1955]

"I Am Not A Cheapskate!"

Take a plane.

Thanks Babe, I live in the Yukon Territory...very expensive to get out of here. A return flight to Toronto would cost me in the vicinity of 5 to 8 visits to a beautiful tgirl. Then hotels and other expenses...another few visits. Even to Calgary would cost at least 2 visits. Wouldn't you prefer to see the girls get paid rather than Air Canada? I just sit, bide my time until the right time comes. Patience is a virtue!

[TSFantasia]

The topic of the thread is love with a tgirl escort.
We are not talking about any old TS or any girls born with a vagina.

There is a difference, one is betrayal, the other is business.

Yes I get that point and what is yours? All TSs who are escorts are liars, cheaters, users and will break your heart?

My point is one experience does not define all women, TSs or those who are escorts.

[Gypsy1955]

Yes I get that point and what is yours? All TSs who are escorts are liars, cheaters, users and will break your heart?

My point is one experience does not define all women, TSs or those who are escorts.

Last time my friend and I were together (non-sexual, we're friends) we went driving around and she spent money on me, not that I needed it...I don't, but it was very nice. I'm sure that if I needed a cash loan she would help me and she doesn't ask me for anything. She tells me to stop fooling around and stay loyal to my wife, who incidentally is beautiful and would do anything for me. Well, almost anything. Do I trust my ts friend...absolutely!

[rider014]

Livin' on the edge!

Last time my friend and I were together (non-sexual, we're friends) we went driving around and she spent money on me, not that I needed it...I don't, but it was very nice. I'm sure that if I needed a cash loan she would help me and she doesn't ask me for anything. She tells me to stop fooling around and stay loyal to my wife, who incidentally is beautiful and would do anything for me. Well, almost anything. Do I trust my ts friend...absolutely!

Your "friend's" comment says it all... She doesn't love you the way you love her....shit happens! Be careful, as I'm guessing the wife has no knowledge of this other person and if you continue to spend so much time with her(even non sexual) you could end up losing both Women aren't very forgiving at the best of times!

[Guest]

I am sure you are not a not cheapskate, Gypsy.

Hello gentlemen,

I don't mean any disrespect towards TsFantasia or her comment but i just want to completely exclude myself from her comment when she states all TSs, expecially the ones who escort, are all liars, cheaters, users, and will break your heart.
I don't agree with that as far as I AM concerned and how i work, anyway.

A few gentlemen have reviewed me several years ago and wrote something like, they can't believe i am an escort because i am so nice.
Anyway, i just want to detach myself from that comment she made.
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Moving along:

Hi Gypsy,
Yes, that is quite a ways away and the airfare would be pretty costly, indeed.

Why don't you sell that place you have, or maybe better, rent it out to somebody on a two or three lease or something like that, and take up residence in a city somewhere.
Just think of all the fun you could have.
When you have had your fun go back to the YT when the lease expires.
Just a suggestion.

Babe,
xoxo

[Gypsy1955]

Love, lies, cheaters

Fantasia finished her comment with a "?" Indicating it was a question, not a comment she supports. She is saying that "not" all tg's are liars, cheaters, and so on. Fantasia is in fact saying tg are no different from anybody else.

Babe, your advise is very sound. The plan is to sell house and move out of the Yukon to the big city of Edmonton. However, never to return to the Yukon.

[Guest]

Love, lies, cheaters - response.

Hi Gypsy,

Again, i mean no disrespect, whatsoever, towards TsFantasia.

I only responded to what i saw in a quote.
I was reading this post and saw that quote.
http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showth...960#post433960

It was from that quote were i THOUGHT i saw what Fantasia said.
This is a good example why i am against the unnecessary usage of that darned quote button.
It's really over used!!
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I just edited this message INTO this post.
AND I JUST RECHECKED that link showing that post with the mentioned quote, and it's clear that i've misread it all.
Geez, don't i feel awkward, now.

AWWK AWWWK AWWK AWWWKward!
(Sorry folks)


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A city boy (at heart) like you, has no business (i think) to be sooooo way up in the great white north, sweety.
What are you, some sort of a bear hunter (or whatever animal prowls up there?
Even Edmonton, i think, is still kind of far up north compared to other Canadian cities closer the the USA border.

Edmonton is almost between Fort Mac and Calgary.

Babe,
xoxo

[Gypsy1955]

We've all been in awwwkward situations!

Nothing to worry about. Little fact: 8 bears for every human in the Yukon

Edmonton gives me work, work gives me money, money gives me pension. I sit on my ass while in Yukon, in summer I ride motorcycle on its 3 highways.

I like to live close to big city but not in big city. But I always have fun telling people to watch out for my small town eastern Irish charm

[F100]

I dated a T-Girl in Montreal for almost two years. Yes, she was an escort. No, I did not care what she did for work. We cared for each other very deeply. I met some of her family and she met some of mine. Sometimes people in a relationship drift apart. We are still friends, and are still there for each other.

[Guest]

It is better to have loved than ....

"I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all."

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h649I7ETaHI

Hi F100,

Welcome to the forum. This might seem like a mean post. It isn't.
I don't have a mean bone in my body. So i really hope this does not scare you away or make you angry or whatever.

I mean not to diminish the loving two year relationship you had with that TS escort, BUT personally, i could never accept a "boyfriend" in my life who would/could be willing to accept me having the kind of passionate GFE sex i always have with other men, even if it's only for money.
I love my guys, and they love me, and years later, out of the blue, i hear from many of the ones who have moved on, telling me that they will never forget our intimate loving afternoons and evenings and how they still think of me when they are screwing their wives or GFs and/or when they are in the shower with a bar of soap.

I have lots of offers from men (who've never met me) to be my boyfriend.
All i can think of to that sort of offer is, "Yea, right. Be my boyfriend until you've had your fill of all the hot free sex you can get, and then make up some excuse as to why you can't see me anymore. And then my heart is broke and i feel alone and used - cold and bitter."
No thanks. I tell those guys.

I can just imagine me and my boyfriend sitting there watching a movie, and the phone rings, and i have to tell my boyfriend, "Oh hunny, you have to leave now because that guy, you know who i mean, the good looking tall guy with lots of money who loves to suck me off and touch my legs and screw my bum bun wants to come over again and do it with me. Sorry."

Nah, that's not for me. If/when i ever get a boyfriend, i will be done with escorting because i could never put a man who loves me through that torture. I COULDN'T handle being THAT person putting a nice guy through that - geez, my heart would break for him.

And then when there are arguments, i have to hear what a big, dick-sucking, buns-up-and-kneeling, money hungry, bitch-slut-whore, garbage tramp, i am --- AND IT WOULD BE 100% TRUE. Well, all except the "garbage" part, because i am not garbage and neither are the fine gentlemen who meet with me. But you know what i mean.
I have enough trouble remembering names when i hear the voice on the phone as it is.
Imagine, my boyfriend calls me on the phone and says "Hi, Baby!", and i have to ask, "Uhmm, who's speaking, please?

And what kind of self respecting guy puts up with all of that whoring around, anyway!?

For me, i could never date an escort. I am far too possessive and i get attached very quickly to loving people with whom i'm in a LOVING relationship where trust, honesty, and monogamy is expected.
It would only be for mutual good sex encounters if i did, and i would not "love" that person but rather only love the sex with that person because i would know he/she is risking falling in love with another by having sexual encounters with others (even if only for money).
I don't know if i sound like a normal person or just like a normal escort.

May i ask you WHY you're no longer with her? What happened? Why only two years if things were going so great? How do people in a deep love, "drift apart"?

Maybe you should create a thread to explain/discuss/debate the benefits and pitfalls of dating a TS escort, with forum members. I think it could be a popular thread.
I am certain that many of the men in this forum would love to hear and learn what the risks and benefits are. What kind of arguments could be screamed back and forth in such a relationship.

Geez, you are almost like a hero, in here. You've boldly gone where few men have gone before.

(I tot i taw a Staw Twek teem)


Most Sincerely,
Babe,
xoxo











I did! I did! I did taw a Staw Tweek teem.)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GiiUOcfv58M

[Gypsy1955]

Babe, your article really hit home and begs me to ask myself WTF were you thinking How could I have a partner, or fall in love with a person who's had sex with hundreds of people, maybe thousands! They were all shapes and sizes, colours, young and old, gay, straight or bi, fat, stinky gross old men. And undoubtably she enjoys some of it at least! How/Why could that happen? Well, it happened...why, my only explanation is that I feel that I wanted to save her from the lifestyle that she's chosen. She is worth saving! I felt I was ready to leave my wife for her. What stopped me? Maybe trying to explain to my large family (8 brothers), my son, my friends, questioning my own sexuality (100% straight, ooh yeah baby.) What I can say is that I felt was helpless, anxious, panicked, scared, frustrated and more. If I text her and didn't get a reply within a reasonable time I'd freak that she was fucking someone or sucking their cocks. It was not fun!!!

Same as you, apologizing beforehand in your article, how do you question this without sounding judgemental or being offensive, to explain this without sounding me me me. I still love this girl, we're very good friends but in the end I stayed where I was, where I belong. It was definitely the right decision. My escort friend, She's a very good person who deserves a better life. She's trapped in that body until she can afford what she really wants. What else can one say! All I can offer is my friendship and moral support.

[Guest]

Am i in trouble?

Hi Grizzly Gypsy Adams,

So what are you saying?? I've helped you? Confused you? Ruined a legitimate fantasy?
(what a stinker I AM, then?)

You will never visit an escort EVER again?
Maybe i should shut up, if that's the case.
I think i might be in trouble now.

Look sweety, you've married that sweet gal of yours for better or worse and all of that. Keep her. She's given you children and years and years of whatever it is she has given you which made you stay with her.
This fantasy tranny of yours is so much younger, it's doomed from the start.

It was a bedroom love affair. Maybe she's just being nice to you hoping you leave her something in your will, AND YOU CERTAINLY COULD and maybe even SHOULD IF you love her that much. However, technically, you paid for every session with her, so really, you don't owe her anything.

Keep the old gal, SHE LOVES YOU and has put up with you for so long.
You think she's running around with a young Chippendale's stud chatting on some forum about how she wants to leave you for Chip ?
She will comfort you in your older age.

Look familiar? Could all of your grandkids be this many?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1MmxeQAFyU

Just PAY to screw our tranny asses, lick us, kiss us, and love us - AS a FANTASY, sir- that's it, that's all. Then go home to the home-cooked meals afterwards (well, i can cook TOO, but i am kind of like a rabbit.)

You need to be reminded of this - by ME?

C'meer and put your dick in my mouth and don't say a word, and i will make you feel all better.

F*ck me! Fu*k me! Fuc* me!
Babe,
xoxo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrk_lb2J8Cg

[TSFantasia]

Babe, your article really hit home and begs me to ask myself WTF were you thinking How could I have a partner, or fall in love with a person who's had sex with hundreds of people, maybe thousands! They were all shapes and sizes, colours, young and old, gay, straight or bi, fat, stinky gross old men. And undoubtably she enjoys some of it at least! How/Why could that happen? Well, it happened...why, my only explanation is that I feel that I wanted to save her from the lifestyle that she's chosen. She is worth saving! I felt I was ready to leave my wife for her. What stopped me? Maybe trying to explain to my large family (8 brothers), my son, my friends, questioning my own sexuality (100% straight, ooh yeah baby.) What I can say is that I felt was helpless, anxious, panicked, scared, frustrated and more. If I text her and didn't get a reply within a reasonable time I'd freak that she was fucking someone or sucking their cocks. It was not fun!!!

Same as you, apologizing beforehand in your article, how do you question this without sounding judgemental or being offensive, to explain this without sounding me me me. I still love this girl, we're very good friends but in the end I stayed where I was, where I belong. It was definitely the right decision. My escort friend, She's a very good person who deserves a better life. She's trapped in that body until she can afford what she really wants. What else can one say! All I can offer is my friendship and moral support.

Everyone is different in their emotional makeup and in how they view extra-curricular activity in a relationship. There are escorts (GG ones anyways) who are married and who are in committed relationship. Men in general can have sex with others without immediate emotional attachment and usually don't view their indiscretions as being as severe as their GFs or wives do. It's like "I eat your home cooking 95% of the time. What's wrong with grabbing a hamburger at a fast food outlet once in awhile?" Don't try that analogy with your wife/gf it will NOT work...lol.

There are couples who have an open relationship or are involved in a "swinging" lifestyle. They may love each other deeply and are secure enough in each others commitment to allow for the extra-marital activities as long as they are up front and honest about it and have the others permission for a "hall pass". Others keep it to only playing together as a couple when the add other sexual partners.

An escort's emotional and mental makeup should be that of someone who can keep their emotions separate from her sexual activities with clients. Escorts can limit their services to not allow DFK if they find this too personally intimate or effects them emotionally. They can also limit their time and availability and require clients to give them sufficient notice for appts. If I'm with someone, on a date, or even out with friends then my response is "I'm not available please try again later or tomorrow". Yes we will miss on the "are you avail for an apt RIGHT NOW?" requests. But guys learn to give you proper notice if they want to see you. Most guys contact me a day to several days in advance to arrange an appt on a certain day and time. I don't require this but usually at least 2 hrs unless I'm already ready because I recently finished an appt.

"LOVE WILL FIND AWAY!" This may not have been in the cards for you because you were already married and your other circumstances. But if you were unattached it would have been an easier decision to make and course to pursue to at least see where it led.
And if a guy is that kind of guy even if a girl has not escorted in years those nasty names that Babe mentioned will come up during arguments and fights! Hell men call their gfs/wives those names just over past BFs and their sexual activity past during fights and arguments!