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Hi, I'm a first time poster. I decided to post this after a recent encounter I had a with a ts escort on a trip to NYC, where we were very safe for the most part, but there were some 'miscellaneous' moves, if you will, thrown in there, that I have done before with girls and tgirls, but I have never been absolutely sure about their safety, especially when combined...a lot are considered low-risk in std resource sites that I have checked, but I'm still not sure, and wanted to ask here--of course it's better to be 100% sure beforehand but it's a bit complicated....anyway here's the deal...
First of all, I DID use a condom even for when I got a bj and for when i penetrated her. So far so good. I did not blow her or get penetrated.
But, throughout the session there was extended, EXTENDED dfk. At the beginning, our dicks came into contact briefly, before there was any fluid or anything. Later on, I was fingering her ass, she was jacking me off (before the condom went on and later when I jacked off onto her chest). And, while I was penetrating her, she came on my stomach, then I continued to fuck her and kiss her more in that position. Then after that, she wiped the cum away, and washed her hands, but I did not wash mine (I do not think my hands ever came into contact with her cum) And then later on, I jacked off onto her chest as I mentioned. It is important to mention that I always fingered her ass with my left hand, my right hand was what I used on myself and sometimes for stroking well her before she came, but you'll tell me whether I'm just naive in thinking that this gives a significant measure of protection.
OK! So there's the play by play...I'm gonna get tested very soon, should have a few days ago. Have not noticed any symptoms or anything, but I've been thinking about it. I guess a lot of my question boils down to the french kissing and penis contact, first of all, and also whether some 'low-risk' activities like fingering can become high risk when combined with other things, or through a series of touches that includes me jacking off at the end. Also, I can't be 100% sure that none of her cum never ended up touching my right/jacking hand, I mean I could have touched my stomach with it by mistake, I don't know. Or is it just not that easy for most std's (both the bad ones and the really bad ones) to transfer this easily?
Yikes, sorry about the length, I just wanted to make sure the details were in there. And perhaps any info on this will be informative to others too I hope. Yeah, I'm kind of paranoid sometimes in general, but for this it's probably good to be at least a bit paranoid.
First of all, I DID use a condom even for when I got a bj and for when i penetrated her. So far so good. I did not blow her or get penetrated.
But, throughout the session there was extended, EXTENDED dfk. At the beginning, our dicks came into contact briefly, before there was any fluid or anything. Later on, I was fingering her ass, she was jacking me off (before the condom went on and later when I jacked off onto her chest). And, while I was penetrating her, she came on my stomach, then I continued to fuck her and kiss her more in that position. Then after that, she wiped the cum away, and washed her hands, but I did not wash mine (I do not think my hands ever came into contact with her cum) And then later on, I jacked off onto her chest as I mentioned. It is important to mention that I always fingered her ass with my left hand, my right hand was what I used on myself and sometimes for stroking well her before she came, but you'll tell me whether I'm just naive in thinking that this gives a significant measure of protection.
OK! So there's the play by play...I'm gonna get tested very soon, should have a few days ago. Have not noticed any symptoms or anything, but I've been thinking about it. I guess a lot of my question boils down to the french kissing and penis contact, first of all, and also whether some 'low-risk' activities like fingering can become high risk when combined with other things, or through a series of touches that includes me jacking off at the end. Also, I can't be 100% sure that none of her cum never ended up touching my right/jacking hand, I mean I could have touched my stomach with it by mistake, I don't know. Or is it just not that easy for most std's (both the bad ones and the really bad ones) to transfer this easily?
Yikes, sorry about the length, I just wanted to make sure the details were in there. And perhaps any info on this will be informative to others too I hope. Yeah, I'm kind of paranoid sometimes in general, but for this it's probably good to be at least a bit paranoid.
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