I Have a question and opinion.

[redzone14]

My question is: Do all Transgender women want to have a sex change at some point?....or are their some who want to keep their parts?...

my opinion is: I would gladly date a TS no problem and have. but at the end of the day, having the penis is still very important to me. Like i love women and everything feminine, but that is a big source of the beauty for me. The idea of something so delicate and feminine with a, for a lack of a better word.. cock, is what really does it for me physically speaking. Im not knocking anyone for their choices or changes by any means. Merely my opinion and i'm sure a lot of gentleman who love Trans women feel the same in regards to keeping the part. but again... i'm not attacking anyone who does want to change, All the power to you. please enlighten me.

[TSFantasia]

My question is: Do all Transgender women want to have a sex change at some point?....or are their some who want to keep their parts?...

my opinion is: I would gladly date a TS no problem and have. but at the end of the day, having the penis is still very important to me. Like i love women and everything feminine, but that is a big source of the beauty for me. The idea of something so delicate and feminine with a, for a lack of a better word.. cock, is what really does it for me physically speaking. Im not knocking anyone for their choices or changes by any means. Merely my opinion and i'm sure a lot of gentleman who love Trans women feel the same in regards to keeping the part. but again... i'm not attacking anyone who does want to change, All the power to you. please enlighten me.

Hi Redzone there is a wide variety of choices and goals amongst trans women and I'm going to make that distinction that though trans women are under the transgender umbrella that term has a pretty broad definition. Transgender includes trans men (FtM) and trans women (MtF), intersexed, gender fluid, and even fetish crossdressers and transvestites- those who live their life as a man but dress as a woman privately.
For trans women the categories are pre-op just meaning not having undergone SRS/GRS yet though they may have undergone other feminizing surgeries (breast implants, facial feminization, body sculpting procedures). Post-Op of course meaning those who have undergone SRS/GRS. And Non-OP those who choose only HRT without any other feminizing surgeries or SRS/GRS.

Some transwomen are happy to remain pre-op living their life as a woman and still using their male genitalia for sexual pleasure. Some cannot stand their male genitalia they cannot look at themselves in the mirror without disgust and even becoming nauseated. They do not allow their intimate partners to touch, suck, or look at their genitals during sex. You will not find any of these women in escorting or porn!

But for even those who are ok with their male genitalia for "the time being" there is usually at least the initial goal to have SRS/GRS done at some point to complete their transition. However, the reality of life happens. Being a T-Girl escort and porn star can be a very lucrative career and the outlook for maintaining the same success as a post-op T-Girl fairly dismal! So why cut off your nose to spite your face? Or don't chop off the part that feeds you .

And what you say does have its influence on her decision also. Does she have a "loving partner" who loves her and accepts and treats her as a "woman" (with no ifs, ands, or buts about it) not a hyphenated woman...or are those interested in her just a series of "tranny chasers" whose ONLY interest in her is her male genitals? If a man really loves HER he will enjoy her penis pre-op and will support her emotionally and remain in love with HER if she decides to go through with SRS/GRS.
If you and others are such a man please step forward to the plate as there are many trans women, who will quickly give you their heart and soul! And yes you will have to dodge the web-cammers, escorts, and users who also use every site to ply their trade just like the sincere trans women seeking "real" relationships have to dodge all the "tranny chasers" and booty call boys looking for their quick tranny fetish fix !

[redzone14]

Hi Redzone there is a wide variety of choices and goals amongst trans women and I'm going to make that distinction that though trans women are under the transgender umbrella that term has a pretty broad definition. Transgender includes trans men (FtM) and trans women (MtF), intersexed, gender fluid, and even fetish crossdressers and transvestites- those who live their life as a man but dress as a woman privately.
For trans women the categories are pre-op just meaning not having undergone SRS/GRS yet though they may have undergone other feminizing surgeries (breast implants, facial feminization, body sculpting procedures). Post-Op of course meaning those who have undergone SRS/GRS. And Non-OP those who choose only HRT without any other feminizing surgeries or SRS/GRS.

Some transwomen are happy to remain pre-op living their life as a woman and still using their male genitalia for sexual pleasure. Some cannot stand their male genitalia they cannot look at themselves in the mirror without disgust and even becoming nauseated. They do not allow their intimate partners to touch, suck, or look at their genitals during sex. You will not find any of these women in escorting or porn!

But for even those who are ok with their male genitalia for "the time being" there is usually at least the initial goal to have SRS/GRS done at some point to complete their transition. However, the reality of life happens. Being a T-Girl escort and porn star can be a very lucrative career and the outlook for maintaining the same success as a post-op T-Girl fairly dismal! So why cut off your nose to spite your face? Or don't chop off the part that feeds you .

And what you say does have its influence on her decision also. Does she have a "loving partner" who loves her and accepts and treats her as a "woman" (with no ifs, ands, or buts about it) not a hyphenated woman...or are those interested in her just a series of "tranny chasers" whose ONLY interest in her is her male genitals? If a man really loves HER he will enjoy her penis pre-op and will support her emotionally and remain in love with HER if she decides to go through with SRS/GRS.
If you and others are such a man please step forward to the plate as there are many trans women, who will quickly give you their heart and soul! And yes you will have to dodge the web-cammers, escorts, and users who also use every site to ply their trade just like the sincere trans women seeking "real" relationships have to dodge all the "tranny chasers" and booty call boys looking for their quick tranny fetish fix !

Thank you for taking the time to respond Fantasia... It means a lot. and I understand what you meant about loving the soul not the vehicle. I guess i'm sort of Shallow in that sense. But we all have our wants/needs. Some conflict with others. All the best for the New Year.

[TSFantasia]

Thank you for taking the time to respond Fantasia... It means a lot. and I understand what you meant about loving the soul not the vehicle. I guess i'm sort of Shallow in that sense. But we all have our wants/needs. Some conflict with others. All the best for the New Year.

Well I'm sure there is much more opportunity and selection for TS dating in your area. So good luck with finding someone that is like-minded .

[Crystalsopen]

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I don't think that makes you anymore shallow, than most people. It is very unusual for anyone to pick a partner not based on physical characteristics. As long as you are honest it does not make you a bad person or a bad choice of partners.

Thank you for taking the time to respond Fantasia... It means a lot. and I understand what you meant about loving the soul not the vehicle. I guess i'm sort of Shallow in that sense. But we all have our wants/needs. Some conflict with others. All the best for the New Year.

[redzone14]

I don't think that makes you anymore shallow, than most people. It is very unusual for anyone to pick a partner not based on physical characteristics. As long as you are honest it does not make you a bad person or a bad choice of partners.

Yea i guess you're right.. its a shame, but natural i suppose!