Can most first timers take it?

[fischer07]

Hi!

I've been doing as much research as possible and I'm pretty sure I'm ready for my first time! I would like to experience being on the bottom so I've been practicing with a plug. But I would love to hear from ladies who are experienced with first timers. If you are rather large, can most first timers take it or do most of them make you stop?

I keep hearing that Lucy and Lola are fantastic for women but they have rather large ones and that's a little intimidating for a newbie!

Again, I'd love to hear from the ladies. Even if you have a large one, are you able to ease a newbie into it or is it best to seek out a lady with a slightly more manageable surprise!

Thank you!

[brendan888]

Get a dildo or plug use it in the shower or bath warm up a bit

[Telvin]

From my experience with both Lucy and Lola I would recommend Lola for a first timer. Trying to write this so I don't offend anyone, but if I do, I apologize in advance.

First off, I was not a first timer with either, but I have probably only bottomed for a T-Girl a half a dozen times before at most, and not with anyone as large as them. I have done the prescribed using increasing bigger items to work up to it.

I found Lucy to be more aggressive and caused me a lot of pain and, well, to bleed. Maybe I was not able to accommodate her with the position we tried. Maybe I was just too nervous.

Lola on the other hand, was not as aggressive, which made it easier to relax, and I hardly felt any pain at all, in fact got quite pleasurable as we went.

I hope this helps.

[merelypink]

make sure to use lots of lube!!

[Raging Bob]

Go big or go home!!

...and if that doesn't work out well....

Go to hospital!!

[Alexis]

Experience is key..

Hi!

I've been doing as much research as possible and I'm pretty sure I'm ready for my first time! I would like to experience being on the bottom so I've been practicing with a plug. But I would love to hear from ladies who are experienced with first timers. If you are rather large, can most first timers take it or do most of them make you stop?

I keep hearing that Lucy and Lola are fantastic for women but they have rather large ones and that's a little intimidating for a newbie!

Again, I'd love to hear from the ladies. Even if you have a large one, are you able to ease a newbie into it or is it best to seek out a lady with a slightly more manageable surprise!

Thank you!

Well you seem to like the sensation of being penetrated..

That in mind.. someone who is experienced at fucking tight little holes would take their time getting it in..

My dick is huge.. 8"+ on a tape measure.. as big or bigger than Lola which is bigger than Lucy from what I have heard..

If the person doing the fucking goes slow and easy not sticking it in right away it will cause you to dilate and open up..

I rarely have any issues getting it in.. maybe 1 in 10 just can't relax tho..

And that's with no warm up..

I think the key to making your first experience the best it can be is finding the right person that's genuine..

Secondly.. make sure your ass is clean..

[Ray]

Hey Alexis, I agree with what you said about Lucy and Lola and would like to add that Lucy is thicker than Lola and Lola is quite a bit longer. My question to you is, how do you know that you are as big or bigger than Lola? I am not trying to start a controversy here, just curious.

[anat89]

Yes you can take it. My first time was like 4 years ago with Monique or Monika, don't know what she goes by these days.
https://www.shemalecanada.com/escort/tsmonique/
at any rate, she's pretty big, at the very least it is 8, thick(and a really pretty cock, and well the rest of her was too, but you're interested in the cock). She was very patient and explained to me how to take it, then bent me over and slowly put it all the way in. It hurt a wee bit at the beginning. But she was very gentle...at first.

At any rate, moral of the story. Big dicks aren't a problem if the girl know what she's doing, and most of them probably do. So don't worry about it....much.

Random thought does the beautiful Suzy take first timers? I wonder how that would work.

[fischer07]

Wow! Thank you for the fantastic information everyone! This must be a concern for many first timers so your input, experience and tips are invaluable! I hope to hear from more of you so that we can all profit from the wealth of knowledge!

Thank you Alexis, that was the kind if information/statistic I was looking for from an experienced provider! Your comments are putting me at ease a lot!

Cheers!

[Alexis]

Simple..

Hey Alexis, I agree with what you said about Lucy and Lola and would like to add that Lucy is thicker than Lola and Lola is quite a bit longer. My question to you is, how do you know that you are as big or bigger than Lola? I am not trying to start a controversy here, just curious.

Quite simply by a few overlapping clients..

Several guys have a thing for tgirls with big dicks and thus seek them out..

I had 2 guys tell me mine is a bit bigger and one that said it's the same.. 2 guys in Toronto and one in Vancouver..

Various clients have given me inside information and I consider these 3 credible as all 3 post here from time to time including reviews..

If you can recall sizes then grab a tape measure and look at 8-8.5" and see how big that is.. that's my size for real and as advertised..

and a full 2" in diameter or 5.9-6" in girth.. sometimes more..

As I mentioned.. with a petite frame it will seem bigger optically..

I'm not petite.. 6' 155lbs.. 38D-29-37.. size 5-6 tall..

[Ray]

Thanks Alexis, that's pretty much what I thought.

[TSFantasia]

Wow! Thank you for the fantastic information everyone! This must be a concern for many first timers so your input, experience and tips are invaluable! I hope to hear from more of you so that we can all profit from the wealth of knowledge!

Thank you Alexis, that was the kind if information/statistic I was looking for from an experienced provider! Your comments are putting me at ease a lot!

Cheers!

When a guy tells me he is a first timer or a virgin I am assuming they are just referring to first-timer or virgin in having a real T-Girl penetrate them. Not that they haven't used dildos and vibrators on themselves before. If you want to actually enjoy the experience as opposed to it being a teeth and butt clenching painful experience then using toys previously is a good idea. Also if you have used toys 5-6 inches and you go see someone 8+ you are going to be in for another surprise. As there is another sphincter inner muscle that will be penetrated. I had been using various objects for anal stimulation since I was 13 yrs old. The first time I was with a guy that was over 7 inches and he thrust all the way in I almost "thrust" my head through the headboard as an instant reaction to this inner sphincter muscle being penetrated.
So go slow and insist on anyone over 6.5 inches doing the same. Above all use an anal douche before hand! Your SP will be grateful

[SteveMcG]

What's the most discreet way to clean your bum out before you go to get buggered?

[Ray]

Discreet, LOL.

[TSFantasia]

What's the most discreet way to clean your bum out before you go to get buggered?

Go to a drugstore and buy a feminine kit like Summers Eve or Life Brands (whatever) in the feminine napkins,tampons aisle
They are just a small squeezable bottle with about a 3inch insertable end. Give the cashier that dumb wife/gf is on her rag and won't leave the house eyeroll look , and she will give you the Oh I understand look..Lol.

Then all you need is a bathroom with a toilet and a sink you can fill or run lukewarm water. Take a dump if you feel the need to then just start filling, inserting, squeezing, and squirting until you squirt clean. Some guys suggest doing this in a shower...eeeeewwww gross standing in a puddle of your own feces. Dummy up guys Fantasia is setting you straight! Repeat after me, "squeezable feminine douche bottle (like $3) , toilet, sink with running water. Fill, insert, squeeze, squirt...repeat....repeat...repeat!" Ideally if you have a long vibrator/toy to insert after to make sure the coast is clear, even better.

Then toss the douche or if your cheap stash it for next time.