Does being black hurt my chances?

[DevAero]

Hey guys, I'm new here and this is my first post. I'm a 19 y/o black guy and in love in Transgirls, but I was wondering if being black would automatically shut me down from dating and sex. I don't act black, and some call me an oreo meaning I act like a white person (if that matters).

I mean not harm by this post if I offended anyone I'm sorry, but I don't know where else to ask. I'm spending the summer in NYC so any tips on dating and hooking up there would be great.

Thank for any answers and advice you guys can give me.

[vancouverman]

Hey guys, I'm new here and this is my first post. I'm a 19 y/o black guy and in love in Transgirls, but I was wondering if being black would automatically shut me down from dating and sex. I don't act black, and some call me an oreo meaning I act like a white person (if that matters).

I mean not harm by this post if I offended anyone I'm sorry, but I don't know where else to ask. I'm spending the summer in NYC so any tips on dating and hooking up there would be great.

Thank for any answers and advice you guys can give me.

I am a little confused what leads you to think that you will be shut out from sex? People have racial preferences, but there is a whole buffet of human beings who will love your skin color or not care either way. This isn't 1950s mississippi.

[Mark Hermetic]

worry not, I'm sure

Hey guys, I'm new here and this is my first post. I'm a 19 y/o black guy and in love in Transgirls, but I was wondering if being black would automatically shut me down from dating and sex. I don't act black, and some call me an oreo meaning I act like a white person (if that matters).

I mean not harm by this post if I offended anyone I'm sorry, but I don't know where else to ask. I'm spending the summer in NYC so any tips on dating and hooking up there would be great.

Thank for any answers and advice you guys can give me.

Hey man, welcome to the forum. I'm pretty new here myself. I would say you haven't a thing to worry about. With everything from gender norms to identity itself being broken down in our postmodern post structuralist world. I think Vancouver man is right in that people have preferences for what they're into. Some have yellow fever, others don't.. right? I would ignore the comment about 1950's Mississippi though, I would say although it was ,meant in a perfectly harmless manner, it was of decidedly bad taste.

Wanna know a suggestion I have for you? if you are "in love" as you say with T-girls ( I know the feeling) perhaps you're best bet would be to try out the world a bit first, before getting into a relationship. If you are new to the whole experience, you have to remember that the person you might be dating or trying to date could very well be quite experienced. All I'm saying is that two hearts are involved in relationships. So, My advice would be to try with one of the many fine SP's in New York first... see how you feel ... masturbatory pictures and videos are very different from the real and very special world... . I'm sure some of the lady's here could direct you.. or check the review forms. If you were in Toronto, I'd know just who to send you too.

You do know what I'm talking about here right? 300 roses should probably do you right I shouldn't think, though I don't really know the going rate in NY.

cheers,

-Mark

[rider014]

Color doesn't matter

Hey guys, I'm new here and this is my first post. I'm a 19 y/o black guy and in love in Transgirls, but I was wondering if being black would automatically shut me down from dating and sex. I don't act black, and some call me an oreo meaning I act like a white person (if that matters).

I mean not harm by this post if I offended anyone I'm sorry, but I don't know where else to ask. I'm spending the summer in NYC so any tips on dating and hooking up there would be great.

Thank for any answers and advice you guys can give me.

Welcome as well. The only thing I see as maybe being a concern is that you're 19. I remember back when I was that age $300-$400 expendable dollars would have been a serious issue for me. That being said, I don't know your financial situation and I won't speculate either. A lot of these professionals expect a mature demeanor from clients as well so if you decide to take the plunge so to speak, be very aware of your manners as well as I don't know a whole lot of mature 19 year olds.
Cheers

[Tia Phoenixx]

Hey guys, I'm new here and this is my first post. I'm a 19 y/o black guy and in love in Transgirls, but I was wondering if being black would automatically shut me down from dating and sex. I don't act black, and some call me an oreo meaning I act like a white person (if that matters).

I mean not harm by this post if I offended anyone I'm sorry, but I don't know where else to ask. I'm spending the summer in NYC so any tips on dating and hooking up there would be great.

Thank for any answers and advice you guys can give me.

I love black boy, chocolate boy, white, yellow even red boy lol and oh...19 is a perfect age to fuck

welcome on board. As a matter of fact, i'm waiting for somebody your age right now, gosh...it takes forever...he must take a subway or bus LOL

[vancouverman]

Why is referencing 1950's Mississippi bad taste?

The guy is worried the city is full of racists who don't want to be physically involved with a black man . That sounds like the racist deep south and to me, he is over reacting and worrying about something that isn't an issue in NYC other than for a small group of people.

[DevAero]

Welcome as well. The only thing I see as maybe being a concern is that you're 19. I remember back when I was that age $300-$400 expendable dollars would have been a serious issue for me. That being said, I don't know your financial situation and I won't speculate either. A lot of these professionals expect a mature demeanor from clients as well so if you decide to take the plunge so to speak, be very aware of your manners as well as I don't know a whole lot of mature 19 year olds.
Cheers

Thanks for the advice. I wasn't really looking for escorts or anything like that because I've always taught to never pay for sex.

[DevAero]

I love black boy, chocolate boy, white, yellow even red boy lol and oh...19 is a perfect age to fuck

welcome on board. As a matter of fact, i'm waiting for somebody your age right now, gosh...it takes forever...he must take a subway or bus LOL

Haha thanks, I like your work btw.

[DevAero]

Why is referencing 1950's Mississippi bad taste?

The guy is worried the city is full of racists who don't want to be physically involved with a black man . That sounds like the racist deep south and to me, he is over reacting and worrying about something that isn't an issue in NYC other than for a small group of people.

I got what you were saying. Being from GA I definitely understand where you're coming from.

[Tia Phoenixx]

Haha thanks, I like your work btw.

with pleasure my boy.

good night, and be proud with your background. Mommy is going to bed now...

[xoxJanexox]

Hey guys, I'm new here and this is my first post. I'm a 19 y/o black guy and in love in Transgirls, but I was wondering if being black would automatically shut me down from dating and sex. I don't act black, and some call me an oreo meaning I act like a white person (if that matters).
I mean not harm by this post if I offended anyone I'm sorry, but I don't know where else to ask. I'm spending the summer in NYC so any tips on dating and hooking up there would be great.

Thank for any answers and advice you guys can give me.

Please read about Malcom X and Martin Luther King and you would hate acting like anything but a black man!

Black people are great ones and have owned their honors through out history. If someone can't see beyond your skin, they are simple blind.

Raise your head young boy and be proud of who you are! What really matters is who you truly are as a human being!

[TSFantasia]

Hey guys, I'm new here and this is my first post. I'm a 19 y/o black guy and in love in Transgirls, but I was wondering if being black would automatically shut me down from dating and sex. I don't act black, and some call me an oreo meaning I act like a white person (if that matters).

I mean not harm by this post if I offended anyone I'm sorry, but I don't know where else to ask. I'm spending the summer in NYC so any tips on dating and hooking up there would be great.

Thank for any answers and advice you guys can give me.

If you are looking for dating try the TS specific dating sites like TS Dating or Google what sites are in your area.
You will probably have to pay for a membership to properly communicate other than the free winks and flirts that
they allow and that most girls will ignore or not take seriously anyways. Put some thought and detail into your profile
and a few nice pics of yourself (not your dick) always helps DO NOT select options like "Just wanna fuck, secret sex, etc",
even if you are open to one night stands and booty calls, as this will keep the girls who are wanting a dating relationship away
and will attract the webcammers and escorts who are working the site.

Best of luck to you

[Mark Hermetic]

yup

that's pretty sound advice....

[Franklinzed]

"Oreo", " don't act black" and "never pay for sex"?

That made me laugh but I'll cut you some slack you're just 19 and still running off rigid social scripts handed down to you. But I can relate as I've been in the same situation.

My advice is stop believing its a handicap because that will become a self fulfilling prophecy that compromises your confidence - in the dating game, confidence is everything. Like other posters said some will just not be into it but from my experience, it's all about how you carry yourself. It's cliched I know but real life is a giant cliche.

Also the never pay for sex rule applies more to GG who are literally everywhere and you can afford to burn through a few to learn the rules. Tgirls on the other hand are rare and sometimes if you want that elusive experience you gotta be prepared to fork over $$$. You can still pursue them to date of course, but you'll learn a lot from a session or two with a well rated SP



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[vancouverman]

"Oreo", " don't act black" and "never pay for sex"?

That made me laugh but I'll cut you some slack you're just 19 and still running off rigid social scripts handed down to you. But I can relate as I've been in the same situation.

My advice is stop believing its a handicap because that will become a self fulfilling prophecy that compromises your confidence - in the dating game, confidence is everything. Like other posters said some will just not be into it but from my experience, it's all about how you carry yourself. It's cliched I know but real life is a giant cliche.

Also the never pay for sex rule applies more to GG who are literally everywhere and you can afford to burn through a few to learn the rules. Tgirls on the other hand are rare and sometimes if you want that elusive experience you gotta be prepared to fork over $$$. You can still pursue them to date of course, but you'll learn a lot from a session or two with a well rated SP



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I still chuckle at young men who say they will never pay for sex. Most hot girls out there at the clubs want you to buy them drinks, some women will want you to take them out for dinners, and many will want you to take them out many times before becoming sexual. We all pay for it in some way, even if you wish to turn a blind eye to it.