Things Not Always As They Appear!

[TSFantasia]

Ever get seen in a compromising situation where things were not as they appeared to be?

What efforts did you go to to clear up the "misunderstanding"? Did you feel it was a threat to your job or relationship?

Did that person believe your explanation or did their attitude towards you change from that point on?

Bringing it to the T-Girl experience what would you do if you bumped into a friend, relative, or coworkers coming out
of a T-Girl "massage" parlour or T-Girl bar? If you took out an attractive passable T-Girl to a restaurant, bar or club
and the girls at the next table and your date all go to the bathroom at the same time and when they come back they are
all looking at you and your date whispering to each other and giggling. Would you be saying "Check please!" and making a
beeline for the door or just carry on with your date?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmGRJWxLqiE

[vancouverman]

Ever get seen in a compromising situation where things were not as they appeared to be?

What efforts did you go to to clear up the "misunderstanding"? Did you feel it was a threat to your job or relationship?

Did that person believe your explanation or did their attitude towards you change from that point on?

Bringing it to the T-Girl experience what would you do if you bumped into a friend, relative, or coworkers coming out
of a T-Girl "massage" parlour or T-Girl bar? If you took out an attractive passable T-Girl to a restaurant, bar or club
and the girls at the next table and your date all go to the bathroom at the same time and when they come back they are
all looking at you and your date whispering to each other and giggling. Would you be saying "Check please!" and making a
beeline for the door or just carry on with your date?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmGRJWxLqiE

who gives a fuck what some judgemental chicks at the next table think.... they will find something to gossip about, whether it is the cock on your date or the clothes you are wearing or "he/she can do better" because one of you is better looking than the other.

[TSFantasia]

who gives a fuck what some judgemental chicks at the next table think.... they will find something to gossip about, whether it is the cock on your date or the clothes you are wearing or "he/she can do better" because one of you is better looking than the other.

I've not had an issue with that most times I see girls in bathrooms at clubs or restaurants we just smile at each other in the mirror or compliment one another's shoes or outfit...lol.

If I have anyone staring at me from another table or in a line at the grocery store or Walmart I will just smile at them and they usually smile back. If they are giving me dirty looks I just stare them down until they look away

The most nervous guy I ever went on a date with was supposedly a big T-girl lover/admirer said he's been to Thailand numerous times and dated a TS who was an escort in Vancouver when he lived there. He had pics on his IPhone to back these stories up. So I found it strange that he was so nervous guess he was on the "down low" here lol.

[merelypink]

I'd carry on with the date I don't care what others think

[TSFantasia]

Well my most hilarious and simultaneously embarrassing moment that was "not as it appeared to be" and I had to explain my way out of? I was hired as a technical rep right out of college by a Toronto based company. A few years in I and other techs were brought into Toronto for a big project going on there. I was there for about 2 weeks and we were put up in nice two bedroom suites in Markham sharing with one other tech. My manager (asst.regional manager) invited few of us out for dinner and drinks with a few guys from the office and two office girls. We bounced around a few close by pubs after that. The girls seemed very flirtatious were both early 20's, pretty and showing generous amounts of cleavage I was living a totally heterosexual life and this was several years before I transitioned. I had my eye on the pretty slim blonde one all night. I think at one point I leaned over and asked my manager and roommate tech, who had worked for the company for several years if these girls were the office sluts lol. My roommate tech reminded me of that remark everytime he saw me or talk to me after that! He was from Vancouver.

Anyways we all ended up back at our suite (my manager, roommate, and the two girls) with a case of beer and all eventually crashed . Roommate in his room, the girls on the couches, and my manager and I in my room (there were two single beds). Sometime during the night I was dreaming about the blonde girl and in my dream we started making out. As I kissed her cheek I suddenly felt whiskers!! My manager jumped up and said "What are you doing!?" at which time I woke kneeling at the side of his bed!! I mumbled something like "Oops sorry I was dreaming" and fell back into my bed.

I woke up several hours later to the alarm clock. My manager was gone and the girls were too not sure when he left, probably 2 mins after I fell back asleep ..lol I wasn't sure what to do as it seemed hilarious and mortifyingly embarrassing at the same time. I finally text him as I was headed out to my service call "So I guess I owe you an explanation or at least some flowers for last night! Lol call me when you have time" He called in about 5 mins and I told him that I was dreaming about making out with the blonde chick and must have been sleep walking too.
He said, "Yeah you had a glazed shock look on your face so I realized you weren't even awake." We both laughed about it and as funny as it was both agreed wasn't a good story to share with coworkers . I didn't sense anything changed in his attitude so he was satisfied with my explanation.

But I think he heard through the grapevine that I had transitioned several years later so probably made him wonder
Also the blonde girl that I asked if she was the office slut? Oh yeah he was just starting to date her and they were still on the down low about it they later married! Gee I wonder why I never got that promotion? Lmao

[Bulldog70]

Well my most hilarious and simultaneously embarrassing moment that was "not as it appeared to be" and I had to explain my way out of? I was hired as a technical rep right out of college by a Toronto based company. A few years in I and other techs were brought into Toronto for a big project going on there. I was there for about 2 weeks and we were put up in nice two bedroom suites in Markham sharing with one other tech. My manager (asst.regional manager) invited few of us out for dinner and drinks with a few guys from the office and two office girls. We bounced around a few close by pubs after that. The girls seemed very flirtatious were both early 20's, pretty and showing generous amounts of cleavage I was living a totally heterosexual life and this was several years before I transitioned. I had my eye on the pretty slim blonde one all night. I think at one point I leaned over and asked my manager and roommate tech, who had worked for the company for several years if these girls were the office sluts lol. My roommate tech reminded me of that remark everytime he saw me or talk to me after that! He was from Vancouver.

Anyways we all ended up back at our suite (my manager, roommate, and the two girls) with a case of beer and all eventually crashed . Roommate in his room, the girls on the couches, and my manager and I in my room (there were two single beds). Sometime during the night I was dreaming about the blonde girl and in my dream we started making out. As I kissed her cheek I suddenly felt whiskers!! My manager jumped up and said "What are you doing!?" at which time I woke kneeling at the side of his bed!! I mumbled something like "Oops sorry I was dreaming" and fell back into my bed.

I woke up several hours later to the alarm clock. My manager was gone and the girls were too not sure when he left, probably 2 mins after I fell back asleep ..lol I wasn't sure what to do as it seemed hilarious and mortifyingly embarrassing at the same time. I finally text him as I was headed out to my service call "So I guess I owe you an explanation or at least some flowers for last night! Lol call me when you have time" He called in about 5 mins and I told him that I was dreaming about making out with the blonde chick and must have been sleep walking too.
He said, "Yeah you had a glazed shock look on your face so I realized you weren't even awake." We both laughed about it and as funny as it was both agreed wasn't a good story to share with coworkers . I didn't sense anything changed in his attitude so he was satisfied with my explanation.

But I think he heard through the grapevine that I had transitioned several years later so probably made him wonder
Also the blonde girl that I asked if she was the office slut? Oh yeah he was just starting to date her and they were still on the down low about it they later married! Gee I wonder why I never got that promotion? Lmao

That's hilarious Fantasia great story! I can't see any guy refusing your advances the way you look now and somehow I'm having a hard time picturing you as the "cable guy" !

Mine are too many to mention. Let's just say that company Christmas parties and wedding dance/receptions with open bars are NOT a good idea for me. I had to explain my way out of too many drunken make out sessions with co-workers or bridesmaids (hell even 2nd cousins) in
coatrooms! My now ex stopped believing my "But honey I thought I was making out with you!" excuses after the 4th or 5th time..haha