WTF I'm a Gay Perv For Loving T-Girls but Your Sexy for Wanting to be a Dike!

[Bulldog70]

'Cept at this point in our social continuum, bi-sexual means males attracted to males or masculinity, in addition to females/femininity. Most tgirl admirers don't fall into this category. I know this has been covered a lot on this forum, so I won't harp on about it.

What's interesting to note is that like 8 years ago, in the shemale section of a porntube site, they'd have gay ads on the side. At the time those sites also incorrectly assumed that liking tgirls intersected with gay sex. This has all but stopped you're more likely to find typical hetero sex ads in those sections these days.
It's ironic that the porn industry with its sleazy reputation has figured this out before more mainstream liberal minded people

Even with the misinformation aside, ggs do have a reason to feel somewhat threatened by their men being interested in tgirls. When my GF found my TS stash years ago, the first thing she said was "I can't compete with that" lol. But I think that underscores what's really happening in these scenarios

To me it all comes down to experimentation we all "try" lots of things for a thrill, to check something off our "bucket list" , to answer a dare, etc. Going to a country for a vacation doesn't make me a citizen unless I choose to live there and take out citizenship papers. Trying out skydiving or rock climbing doesn't make me a skydiver or a mountain climber unless I choose to focus on that activity and become an experienced pro at it. I can try out ethnic cuisine and love or hate it and not want to eat there again. Or love it and then want to puke when I find out what I just ate!

I view t-girl or other bisexual experiences this way. You try it and either you enjoy it and want to repeat or you decide it's not for you. A few encounters or experiences doesn't make me anything different or define me. As my main interest has always been beautiful sexy women and I can view a lot of beautiful t-girls/shemales this way so I don't feel it conflicts with my basic sexuality preferences or orientation.

[Franklinzed]

To me it all comes down to experimentation we all "try" lots of things for a thrill, to check something off our "bucket list" , to answer a dare, etc. Going to a country for a vacation doesn't make me a citizen unless I choose to live there and take out citizenship papers. Trying out skydiving or rock climbing doesn't make me a skydiver or a mountain climber unless I choose to focus on that activity and become an experienced pro at it. I can try out ethnic cuisine and love or hate it and not want to eat there again. Or love it and then want to puke when I find out what I just ate!

I view t-girl or other bisexual experiences this way. You try it and either you enjoy it and want to repeat or you decide it's not for you. A few encounters or experiences doesn't make me anything different or define me. As my main interest has always been beautiful sexy women and I can view a lot of beautiful t-girls/shemales this way so I don't feel it conflicts with my basic sexuality preferences or orientation.

Well we can certainly agree that being attracted to Tgirls is not incongruent with being attracted to beautiful sexy women. At least as per our own definitions of our sexuality

[Hockeydude89]

I COMPLETELY agree. I made the mistake of telling my girl in the very beginning of our relationship, that I am attracted to T-Girls. She has never been able to understand, and I don't blame her for finding it difficult. But what bothers me is that there is no room for conversation with her about it, without the conversation turning awkward, and her starting to seem....depressed? I guess that's the best word for it. On the other hand, I'm totally open to listening to her talk about her past experiences with other girls, and her bisexuality and what not. At one point she admitted to me that she had lesbian porn, and told me flat out that if I wanted, I could have porn involving T-girls and she would not mind. That completely changed when I actually went out and started buying said Tranny porn. She got depressed, and started getting pissy with me, then eventually told me she regretted telling me I could do such a thing, and asked me to get rid of it....but she wasn't willing to get rid of her collection, and so I refused to get rid of mine unless she did the same....I actually WON that battle lol sort of, if you consider the fact that I had to stick to my end of the deal once she did get rid of hers.

Now we don't even discuss it anymore. I would love to be able to be open with her about it, but the truth is I know it had an impact on our relationship. For a while, we weren't even having sex anymore, because she claimed it was "awkward." That's starting to finally change and we've been more active lately. I keep my mouth shut about my interests now though, for fear that things well go back to being "awkward" if I talk about it with her lol. But like I said, if SHE wants to talk to ME about HER experiences with other women, I'm 100% open to listening, and things go great....until I start talking about how I like girls with dicks.

[Raging Bob]

I COMPLETELY agree. I made the mistake of telling my girl in the very beginning of our relationship, that I am attracted to T-Girls. She has never been able to understand, and I don't blame her for finding it difficult. But what bothers me is that there is no room for conversation with her about it, without the conversation turning awkward, and her starting to seem....depressed? I guess that's the best word for it. On the other hand, I'm totally open to listening to her talk about her past experiences with other girls, and her bisexuality and what not. At one point she admitted to me that she had lesbian porn, and told me flat out that if I wanted, I could have porn involving T-girls and she would not mind. That completely changed when I actually went out and started buying said Tranny porn. She got depressed, and started getting pissy with me, then eventually told me she regretted telling me I could do such a thing, and asked me to get rid of it....but she wasn't willing to get rid of her collection, and so I refused to get rid of mine unless she did the same....I actually WON that battle lol sort of, if you consider the fact that I had to stick to my end of the deal once she did get rid of hers.

Now we don't even discuss it anymore. I would love to be able to be open with her about it, but the truth is I know it had an impact on our relationship. For a while, we weren't even having sex anymore, because she claimed it was "awkward." That's starting to finally change and we've been more active lately. I keep my mouth shut about my interests now though, for fear that things well go back to being "awkward" if I talk about it with her lol. But like I said, if SHE wants to talk to ME about HER experiences with other women, I'm 100% open to listening, and things go great....until I start talking about how I like girls with dicks.

Based on what you've said, doesn't sound like you two are "really" a match. Maybe something to think about.

My $0.02

[TSFantasia]

Cause and Effect

Men have created this monster by constantly drooling over the thought of two women together and lesbian sex scenes. Women know this is a turn on to men and an acceptable type of sexual experimentation. However, the flip side is that more women will choose other women over men both for relationships and sexual partners leaving the men still drooling but high and dry and having to take things into their own hands while they jerk off to more lesbian porn!

[drdrdr]

I really don't care who or what people call me as I was once married so of course I`ve been called a lot worst than gay