WHY do women wear sexually appealing clothes but don't want men to?

[dom r]

So why do all women and transwomen only want to see themselves wearing extremely sexual clothing but don't want to see men wearing the same?

Honestly i'm just going to reveal the truth here. Its only acceptable for girls(18 and over),women(18 and over) and men for girls or women to wear very sexually appealing clothing revealing all their bodily curves and butt, but not when men wear it.

Through the many centuries and today ITS GIRLS AND WOMEN THEMSELVES that want to wear and see other girls and women wearing short cut dresses, mini-skirts, pantyhose, short shorts, dresses so thin you can see the panty seams on their jiggly butts, 1 piece swimsuits where female crotch and lower butt cheeks stick out, and those new very thin black sweat hose-like pants called leggings or tights where every possible intricate sexual curve is revealed. All these girls and women only LUST and want to see themselves and other females wearing the same extremely sexual clolthing but if a man wears it all of a sudden to ALL girls, women and men he looks GROSS, ugly, disgusting, unappealing and unsexually attractive.(hairy legs and the smell of man sweat certainly isn't sexually appealing in a mini-skirt and women know this but I thought they were heterosexual?).

Why is this? If in fact girls and women were only sexually attractive to men as they claim they are then THEY SHOULD find men to be extremely HOT and sexually appealing wearing those extreme sexual articles of clothing including speedos and with hairy legs and hairy chest, BUT NO, ITS THE COMPLETE OPPOSITE, they find men to look (and smell) DISGUSTING and UNSEXUALLY APPEALING when wearing such revealing clothes and ONLY FIND THEMSELVES to be sexually attractive and appealing to all the senses including their noses(yeppers, da sweet smell of female cum mixed with perfume, mmmmmmmm that'll make me cum too), and what do you think that makes all girls and women?(think about it), in fact women want men to COVER UP IN SUITS and not show any bodily curve.(because men don't have any curves except for hairy boney legs, hairy chests,arms and stomach).

Can you imagine if it was they other way around? What if it was all MEN who dressed in extremely revealing and sexual clothing and found it DISGUSTING when women wore this? You know what it would make all men if they thought this way, it would make them all GAY. So what do you think it makes all girls and women who only think they look sexually attractive and hot when wearing such sexually appealing clothing but not men?(in which I agree girls,women and transwomen only do when wearing such, but im heterosexual and suppose to think that way but not heterosexual women). Think about it. What does it make them? What is that word? It begins with an L.

[Shyla Wild]

Dressing provocative is a way to feel sexy and powerful. Men think about sex every 7 seconds according to studies. Controlling sex means you control everything

You seem to maybe miss the point....

I will answer this with a story from when I use to bartend. One busy Saturday night, this guy comes up to the bar and he looks upset. I ask him what's wrong. He tells me he is amazed the amount of lesbians in a singles bar.

Just because we are dressed to have sex, you must come to the realization that we not only have the right to be selective, but you must accept that not all women will select you.

Sorry...

PS: Instead of wanting to bang everything that moves, step back and admire the beauty.

[dom r]

Dressing provocative is a way to feel sexy and powerful.

One busy Saturday night, this guy comes up to the bar and he looks upset. I ask him what's wrong. He tells me he is amazed the amount of lesbians in a singles bar.

Just because we are dressed to have sex, you must come to the realization that we not only have the right to be selective, but you must accept that not all women will select you.

EXACTLY, women and girls are dressed to have sex with each other for orgasm only, no pregnancy, thats why they're so interested in wearing such revealing and super thin clothing to show off their butts, legs or crotch to every female they see anywhere and everywhere and all of the time but certainly don't want to see a man showing off his crotch or ass in revealing or thin clothing, we unsexies must cover up for women and girls.

Over a decade ago I used to sometimes go to a dance club/bar with my cousin and it was just all about the girls lusting over other women's butts and legs in tight short dresses that its guaranteed they will take home with extreme ease with less than 5 words spoken to each other, when 2 women or girls first meet they act like they've known each other for 10 years when its only been like 10 minutes. Thats really what they keep an eye on(like us guys) women's and girl's sensuous bodies in sexually revealing clothing and now they wear extremely thin leggings to show off their hairless butts because they know their female cum flows there for such an arousing mix(thats why they and me stare so much), they (and me) certainly would not stare at men's asses in pants, its always about how hot the girls/women are to other girls/women in bars and everywhere. Women and girls know whats sexually appealing and arousing in a tight dress or short shorts, its other girls and women, they all think this way but think complete opposite if its a man wearing pants or the same revealing sexual clothes as if we are not sexual but a hairy body and hair on the face. (thats why i bought the flash n go hair removal device, better than not, and im chubby and almost have tits, ha).

[Franklinzed]

The answer to these type of questions is almost always socialization.

Women (especially in western cultures) have been raised to find short, revealing clothing on other women appealing but not with men.

I'm sure if you watch enough documentaries on cultures around the world, you'll find that in some societies it is indeed the opposite. Men braid their hair, and dress skimpy to attract women. That's how you know it's socialization and not some fundamental differences between the sexes. Men and women just aren't that different.

This also means that it will probably change from time to time. Maybe in a 100 years from now it will be fashionable for men to wear spandex and other revealing shit and you were just born in the wrong era.

[dom r]

The answer to these type of questions is almost always socialization.

Women (especially in western cultures) have been raised to find short, revealing clothing on other women appealing but not with men.

I'm sure if you watch enough documentaries on cultures around the world, you'll find that in some societies it is indeed the opposite. Men braid their hair, and dress skimpy to attract women. That's how you know it's socialization and not some fundamental differences between the sexes. Men and women just aren't that different.

This also means that it will probably change from time to time. Maybe in a 100 years from now it will be fashionable for men to wear spandex and other revealing shit and you were just born in the wrong era.

So that means almost all women in USA and Canada are L but in those other societies they are heterosexual? Some women will say "men look sexy in a suit but not in a short cut dress", or, "men look sexy in long swim trunks but not in a speedo". I don't believe they believe that because theres nothing sexy about a man in a suit or in long trunks, they(and me) are just finding men to be UNSEXY when they wear revealing clothing that shows their masculine hairy body and crotch but they don't find themselves or other women to be unsexy in such, in fact they find themselves or other women to be lustful and arousing to the senses when wearing such but not the men. Imagine if all men thought "wow guys in short cuts are so hot but women wearing the same are not". This is EXACTLY how almost all women and girls feel and think when a woman or girl shows her body in a short cut or leggings that only they are hot but not the men. Women and girls shouldn't think that way if they were truly heterosexual as they (falsely) claim which I have just proven most like 99.0034% are not.(ok I just threw in that .0034, ha).....I dont care if women love cock in 69, if they don't find it hot and lustful for men to show their hairy masculine bodies in very revealing clothing/ultra thin leggings but only find themselves to be hot wearing such then THEY ARE ALL as I say.....far more lezzie than heterosexual.

Maby in 100 years half of men will be trans, equally as sexually appealing as the other women.

[TSFantasia]

I don't think your observations are accurate at all. Women in general dress to attract men and women know that men like to see a woman's curves, cleavage, butt and legs accentuated or exposed in the clothes they wear especially in bars & clubs. Women like attractive fit men with chiselled abs and pecs and smooth to moderately hair bodies. If you don't think that is true go see women react at male stripper/Chippendale shows.

Unattractive and overweight men or women will not be seen as attractive in bikinis/speedos, skimpy or body clinging clothing.

Most women play up the lesbian act for the benefit of men who seem so turned on by the concept! Not realizing that eliminates them from the equation or at least doubles the competition for a woman's affection and interest. If men reacted to any signs of lesbianism as women and men do to any signs of bisexuality or homosexuality in men then the only lesbianism you would see displayed would be in gay clubs.
While men are usually hyper-sexual all the time most women are at their peak sexual interest during ovulation stage and of course very little interest during menstruation.

As for speedos on guys it just simple is not the current fashion for men's bathing suits and usually it's the men, who are way past the stage of looking good in one that are wearing one on the beach!

[Shyla Wild]

I wonder? Did wearing provocative clothes "Help" or "Hinder" their chances?

[drdrdr]

i wonder? Did wearing provocative clothes "help" or "hinder" their chances?

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yikes!

[xoxJanexox]

yikes!

Do you know how arrogant is this?!

[dom r]

I wonder? Did wearing provocative clothes "Help" or "Hinder" their chances?

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im laughing, hahahaha.

But my point still stands. And sorry to repeat myself, but if girls or women are heterosexual as they claim, they would lust men in hairy legs and body showing off their asses and crotch in speedos, leggings, short cuts and other revealing clothes in dance clubs or bars but they just lust themselves and other women wearing such and im talking about every single female out there. Men should do a test while its being video recorded in a dance club and they should wear short shorts, speedos or leggings and dance in an extremely sexual way including wiggling their asses and crotches or bending down in front of women and girls just to see their reaction. This would prove my point. I even saw a tv commercial of a girl watching a bearded man in tights dancing and she looked bored and grossed out, had it been a woman in tights all of a sudden she would be hot.

[Shyla Wild]

im laughing, hahahaha.

But my point still stands. And sorry to repeat myself, but if girls or women are heterosexual as they claim, they would lust men in hairy legs and body showing off their asses and crotch in speedos, leggings, short cuts and other revealing clothes in dance clubs or bars but they just lust themselves and other women wearing such and im talking about every single female out there.

See the bold part? That is the first error in your argument. You forget 1 thing. Over 7 billion people on the planet, and not one of them are the same. Even twins have differences in walk, mannerisms, and interests.

The reason we wear provocative clothing? Everyone has a different reason....some of those reason will be the same. Men have preferences in women, and women have their preferences they like. Each is also different. I don't like hairy guys. I don't like guys in speedos (Makes me think of Quebecers in Florida).

I like my guys in a suit, well groomed, and smart.

[TSFantasia]

im laughing, hahahaha.

But my point still stands. And sorry to repeat myself, but if girls or women are heterosexual as they claim, they would lust men in hairy legs and body showing off their asses and crotch in speedos, leggings, short cuts and other revealing clothes in dance clubs or bars but they just lust themselves and other women wearing such and im talking about every single female out there. Men should do a test while its being video recorded in a dance club and they should wear short shorts, speedos or leggings and dance in an extremely sexual way including wiggling their asses and crotches or bending down in front of women and girls just to see their reaction. This would prove my point. I even saw a tv commercial of a girl watching a bearded man in tights dancing and she looked bored and grossed out, had it been a woman in tights all of a sudden she would be hot.

Men in general are attracted to feminine looking and acting women and women to masculine looking and acting men. Men flaunt their bodies through tight t-shirts that accentuate their chests, shoulders, and muscular arms. Low riding jeans, shorts, swimsuits that show off their abs if shirtless and their tight muscular butts and developed legs. If your expecting women or trans women to find men physically or sexually attractive dressed and acting effeminately that's not going to happen at least not with the majority of women.

There is big difference in brain chemistry and what are turn ons for either sex, obviously men are testosterone driven and very visual in their arousal women are estrogen driven and respond more to the romantic side of love. Women attract men by using mens visual arousal cues to their advantage in dressing provocatively. Men who succeed well with women appeal to womens emotional side first and show confidence and personality and can communicate well (even if they are just bullshitters). Looks and body are important but many women will go for less in that department when a man treats them properly.

Most women at clubs have BFs or husbands and just enjoying a girls night out and feigning or playing up the lesbian angle is just another way to fend off unwanted advances from men they have no intention going home with as they already have a man to go home to.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9v8hcAezkk

[dom r]

Yes its true that women like hairless and muscular chests on men but they lust themselves and other women far more in short cuts and leggings.Heres that ASC commercial of a bearded man in black tights dancing and showing off his ass and crotch as a young woman is sitting in the window looking totally bored and disgusted. And thats how all girls and women(and me) view men wearing black tights or leggings because men are not pretty and sensuous and women know this. Even if that guy was thinner and muscular women will still find him a turn off in tights that reveal his crotch and butt because women and girls only want to see theirs and other female butts and crotches in tights and leggings, not a man's. That makes all females gay. I never heard of a man bending down for a woman but females do that for females all the time. Had it been an equally chubby woman in tights or those new type of leggings so thin they look like pantyhose, a young man or girl(18 years and over) sitting in the window would be ready to fock her. See the difference.





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[drdrdr]

Do you know how arrogant is this?!

No I don`t know as I was joking just like the person who put the picture up was, but I`m sure you are going to tell me how arrogant I am! haha

[xoxJanexox]

No I don`t know as I was joking just like the person who put the picture up was, but I`m sure you are going to tell me how arrogant I am! haha

Fair enough!