escort bottoming...

[cameeindos]

when topping, do escorts look down on guys who moan a lot when getting it? just forestalling angst posts saying clients "aren't proper men"... because having a prostate cannot be helped...

[Shyla Wild]

when topping, do escorts look down on guys who moan a lot when getting it? just forestalling angst posts saying clients "aren't proper men"... because having a prostate cannot be helped...

If they don't then let's ask this question instead...."If you are an escort, and it's your job to provide sexual pleasure, and you don't enjoy seeing your partner enjoy what you are doing to them, then why the fuck are you escorting?"

McDonalds is always hiring....

[cameeindos]

If they don't then let's ask this question instead...."If you are an escort, and it's your job to provide sexual pleasure, and you don't enjoy seeing your partner enjoy what you are doing to them, then why the fuck are you escorting?"

McDonalds is always hiring....

difference between a client and a lover though..lol..

was just being facetious, since some escorts reckon it's not manly to see a client moan whilst fucking him, but then for me i can't help it, and can't be bothered if they get offended or even laugh to themselves, i paid my money, got fucked good, and after the session go about my way. it's not affecting/hurting me if a near stranger gets pissed off like that..

[VanessaBell]

I don't see why somebody would look down on a client for enjoying their services. Like, for myself, I'd never top somebody in an actual relationship anyway, so I'm not going to apply my personal preferences onto what is essentially a business transaction. I'd just be happy that I was doing my job effectively.

[Alexis]

when topping, do escorts look down on guys who moan a lot when getting it? just forestalling angst posts saying clients "aren't proper men"... because having a prostate cannot be helped...

Hmm.. I prefer someone who's enjoying it rather than someone who's not.. Face down, ass up, good slut.. Just try to be quiet while I fuck you..

Please scream into the pillow..

If they don't then let's ask this question instead...."If you are an escort, and it's your job to provide sexual pleasure, and you don't enjoy seeing your partner enjoy what you are doing to them, then why the fuck are you escorting?"

McDonalds is always hiring....

LMAO! Was nice to meet you when you were here..

[bottomguyusually]

Hmm.. I prefer someone who's enjoying it rather than someone who's not.. Face down, ass up, good slut.. Just try to be quiet while I fuck you..

Please scream into the pillow..

Enjoy yes, I am sure you do, but isn't also nice to just to give a little pain, especially when it starts, you know, the good kind

I for one love the feeling when I top a GG or TG and I get the feeling it is a little too much, but it feels fucking great.

[aguyoutthere1]

Damn, now you have me wondering what a loser I must look like. The moaning takes me awhile. It usually proceeds with, "Go real slow",,,,,"slower",,,,, "ARGGHHHGH"......"TAKE IT OUT, TAKE IT OUT".... "Now please go slow"....

Once it is in and I'm past that point of pain without pleasure, I turn into a dirty little slut saying all the things that every pornstar I loved ever says. All the things I wish girls would say with me, but never do.

I don't often bottom if the girl is too "BIG", as I seem to remember that initial pain too much, and I also lose my boner or any chance of cumming once I feel that pain. I'm usually afraid of size with girls like Shyla and Alexis, but I may have passed a turning point, Lola went balls deep on me, and I was able to stay hard and cum after. (It take take the usual "pull it out" mentioned above.


KC

[TSFantasia]

when topping, do escorts look down on guys who moan a lot when getting it? just forestalling angst posts saying clients "aren't proper men"... because having a prostate cannot be helped...

Uh huh you go girlfriend !Let your man fuck your bitch ass good make you moan good and loud!
Nothing like a forced feminization session to bring out the woman in you

[Shyla Wild]

Gender Identity and sexual preference are 2 completely different things. Gay men have tops and bottoms without having to express feminine gender roles. In fact, in many of these gay couple, the more masculine man is often the bottom. Men that bottom and are not gay encounter much backlash from people. Why? To attack their egos and masculinity? Here's a little test. Most men attracted to trans-women MTF, and GG's have no attraction to masculine men. But what if they had a pussy? Would suddenly men start flocking to these muscle men with pussies? The answer is no. Femininity is what brings most men here. I am a moderator on another board where a FTM was introduced to a very cold welcome. http://f.shemalemontreal.ca/index.php?topic=8316.0

Here is something I posted in the Past concerning The Harm of Shaming men:

http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showthread.php?224601-Shaming-Men-Attracted-to-Trans-Women-amp-Its-Harmful-Effects&highlight=shaming

Here is a 2 part interview by Peter Berton with Sunshine, Kylie Storm, and Myself in the second part that explains much of this attraction:

http://sexlifecanada.ca/canada/national-sexlife-journal/understanding-dynamics-tgirl-attraction-part-one

http://www.sexlifecanada.ca/canada/national-sexlife-journal/understanding-dynamics-tgirl-attraction-part-two

Pleasure is pleasure, no need to put down what others like. Some men like to bottom, others like to top. I'm not here to judge....If it's not my thing, I just look the other way and move on.

So for you Guys that bottom, only to get shamed....I bring you this:

[wantitss63]

Femininity is what brings most men here.......

Bingo! I have learned that I enjoy a good, cock - though I am not at all attracted to men. This may sound like a contradiction, but I doubt I'm alone in this somehow........

[TSFantasia]

I like ducks

I like ducks
McDonald's doesn't serve duck burgers so I will have to work at a Chinese restaurant, but I hate Chinese food! But I love chop suey, fried rice, egg rolls, egg foo yung,chow mein, chicken balls, wonton soup, sweet & sour spare ribs, etc. and especially BBQed DUCK

[xoxJanexox]

when topping, do escorts look down on guys who moan a lot when getting it? just forestalling angst posts saying clients "aren't proper men"... because having a prostate cannot be helped...

You will find this attitude with some of the older generations of t-girls/others. If we were to follow their logic then how cis man with a pair of implants is supposed to be a woman! So judgment can go both ways!

For them it is how they feel which define them, so if they feel they are women, then they must be women, fair enough, but for others, what they feel is not as important, because those historical antiques are willing to fit people into little boxes of their choice and label.

Nature is diverse and there is a lot more to being a man or a woman apart for being a top or bottom.

[vancouverman]

I am interested to know why it is assumed that because a man enjoys anal stimulation that he wants to be a sissy? I do it in an escort session because it feels good; I have no ambitions to be called a woman or a sissy. Is this just something that is so common that it is assumed by the provider?

I actually have had issue with this in a session where, when I asked for my turn on the anal train, the provider just assumed I wanted to be treated like a female submissive sissy and started talking that way, and we had an awkward exchange when I was trying to explain it was just simply the sexual feeling of it, nothing more complex than that.

[cameeindos]

Uh huh you go girlfriend !Let your man fuck your bitch ass good make you moan good and loud!
Nothing like a forced feminization session to bring out the woman in you

er....we all know your views on this....we need to hear them again? lol..

You think men bottoming is weird...OK....nothing we haven't read before...

[TSFantasia]

er....we all know your views on this....we need to hear them again? lol..

You think men bottoming is weird...OK....nothing we haven't read before...

No I know men bottoming is very common I'm just suggesting one context in which it happens.