Fat guys?

[BritishSarcasm]

Hi, I'm a fat guy.

I'm not a 300lb giant, but noticeably overweight. I'm straight, but find that the local community for hookups in Vancouver seems to largely revolve around slim, fit guys. That's fine, I just don't fit that mould.

I've had bad experiences with seeing an escort before that was obviously turned off, and led to a pretty crappy experience. not the norm, but happens.

As I've never seen a TS girl, and it's been on my list for a while, I thought I'd open a little discussion on the topic!

[rider014]

Welcome

Hi, I'm a fat guy.

I'm not a 300lb giant, but noticeably overweight. I'm straight, but find that the local community for hookups in Vancouver seems to largely revolve around slim, fit guys. That's fine, I just don't fit that mould.

I've had bad experiences with seeing an escort before that was obviously turned off, and led to a pretty crappy experience. not the norm, but happens.

As I've never seen a TS girl, and it's been on my list for a while, I thought I'd open a little discussion on the topic!

May I suggest going to page 12 in the thread archive. There is a thread there called " Old fat gross clients" it received a lot of responses and opinions and maybe it may have answers to your questions.

[Alexis]

Bigger guys are great..

Hi, I'm a fat guy.

I'm not a 300lb giant, but noticeably overweight. I'm straight, but find that the local community for hookups in Vancouver seems to largely revolve around slim, fit guys. That's fine, I just don't fit that mould.

I've had bad experiences with seeing an escort before that was obviously turned off, and led to a pretty crappy experience. not the norm, but happens.

As I've never seen a TS girl, and it's been on my list for a while, I thought I'd open a little discussion on the topic!

I have no issues at all with people that have some extra padding..

Of course the local dating scene is looking for those that are HWP (height weight proportionate). Dating a TS is also a long shot as there are very few out there and those that date are rarely single..

It depends to on what you're looking for.. If you have your sights set on those with athletic and toned bodies then reputable a service provider might be a lot easier to attain..

It's human nature for some to be judgmental.. don't ever let it discourage you..

Show up looking good, smelling good (don't OD on the cologne), fresh breath and freshly showered..

Telling a girl on the phone that you're a bit on the heavy side might save you a bad experience too..

If a girl says no I don't see overweight guys then you know you don't want to go see her either..

My heaviest client is 365lbs.. he's also 6'9" mind you and not really very fat.. just really big.. and very proportionate.. lol..

Made me feel like a little girl.. I'm 6' 150lbs..

[brendan888]

I have no issues at all with people that have some extra padding..

Of course the local dating scene is looking for those that are HWP (height weight proportionate). Dating a TS is also a long shot as there are very few out there and those that date are rarely single..

It depends to on what you're looking for.. If you have your sights set on those with athletic and toned bodies then reputable a service provider might be a lot easier to attain..

It's human nature for some to be judgmental.. don't ever let it discourage you..

Show up looking good, smelling good (don't OD on the cologne), fresh breath and freshly showered..

Telling a girl on the phone that you're a bit on the heavy side might save you a bad experience too..

If a girl says no I don't see overweight guys then you know you don't want to go see her either..

My heaviest client is 365lbs.. he's also 6'9" mind you and not really very fat.. just really big.. and very proportionate.. lol..

Made me feel like a little girl.. I'm 6' 150lbs..

Good on you Alexis great attitude the big fella probably treats you like a princess too.

[vancouverman]

Hi, I'm a fat guy.

I'm not a 300lb giant, but noticeably overweight. I'm straight, but find that the local community for hookups in Vancouver seems to largely revolve around slim, fit guys. That's fine, I just don't fit that mould.

I've had bad experiences with seeing an escort before that was obviously turned off, and led to a pretty crappy experience. not the norm, but happens.

As I've never seen a TS girl, and it's been on my list for a while, I thought I'd open a little discussion on the topic!

Hi, I am in the same boat. I am probably about 15 pounds over weight, but also don't have a sexy face. If you want "free" TS action via say craigslist for example, you are not going to get much. Almost every single one of the ads there are looking for the following "lean, muscular, huge dick, under 35" or a combination of those four. Just the way it is. But on the other side, most of them are cross dressers or really not that great looking anyways themselves!

That is what TS girls want in the hookup arena. An escort may say on here she loves a guy with padding, but at the end of if that is coupled with paying. You won't be getting Tgirls asking you home for free at the bar. You have to have a certain look.

So, best bet is to just see escorts. The good ones are 8/10 to 10/10 and will treat you better and never make fun of your weight or anything like that. I have had some bad escort experiences too; but they were all ones I saw before reading reviews here. If you stick with girls that have good reviews on this board, you can really have a good run at it.

[cameeindos]

Depends IMO. for hookups, i think looks are a natural factor, but then it depends. the "passable" 9s/10s may judge you for being fat, but then the average 6/7 may not...just as with GG hookup sites, looks matter..it's human nature..

But for escorts? Whilst there are some judgmental ones out there, I think most and even the 9s/10s "passable" escorts won't judge you for being fat, or necessarily give you a shitty service. I think many escorts whether TS or GG for that matter know the score, for them it's just sex for money and of course there's no expectation that the client will be hot. The motivation for all escorts is unique of course, but then it's just money at the end of the day and a means to an end and more clients means more revenue.

I agree with Alexis that as long as you're clean, don't stink of BO/poo lol.., don't reek of alcohol and no dick cheese lol... most won't give a shit, and would be happy to let you fuck them or them fuck you for money.

So if you stick with escorts, for the most part you won't have many issues. The good/reputable ones generally don't discriminate, as said it's just a job. For dating, well it's like with GG dating, some women don't mind and even dig fat guys and TSs are no different.

[dom r]

I dont know, there are some shemales that instead of taking hormones they have face,butt,hips and tits of fat relocations by injections of their own fat by a doctor especially on the face where the fat is relocated to those areas so they look real female without ball shrinkage. Maby I should do that and i'll suck myself too.

But yes, I don't do with men but I think non-muscular chubby(me and i have tits really) or fat guys that shave their bodily hairs are a bit more feminine looking(with a long hair wig on straight cut over eyes?) than those muscular short haired slim men, especially if fat guys were to have fat relocation injections to their face ta look like a shemale. Would that make fat or manly looking men into real shemales if they looked exactly like a woman if they had fat relocation injections to their body and face without any hormones? I think so. I mean we are just skin face and body, to look like a woman would mean they are, who cares if they have a cockoe. Only the straight ones would care.