Straight?

[toban]

Help me to understand whether I am - Straight, Gay, Bisexual or Lesbian?

If TG girls are females as they insist, then:

I can?t agree that if simply by liking what is between a TG girl?s legs I must be designated as Gay, Bisexual etc.. I have great difficulty with accepting such designations based solely upon "what is between the legs". Would it not have been better if it were based upon "what is between the ears!"

My quandary is, that since I like to eat pussy too, (I'm a muff-diver from way back) and by using the same reasoning as used above i.e. because I like DATY, and love to taste what is between a GG?s legs then is there a danger that I might also be designated as Lesbian?

This name calling confuses me and I think Jim S has so far, offered the best solution to this predicament!

I agree, gay, straight, bisexual, they're all just words....why can't people just like what they like.

[Alexis]

This name calling confuses me and I think Jim S has so far, offered the best solution to this predicament!

OK.. so.. tell us then.. are you a cock sucker? Or maybe you're an ass fucker?

Wait!.. I know! You're a cock sucking pussy fucker!!

Oh wait.. that's me.. lol..

Those are labels for examples and not insults..

cock sucking pussy ass licking mother fuckers..

[rider014]

Ahhh brains you say!!

If TG girls are females as they insist, then:

I can?t agree that if simply by liking what is between a TG girl?s legs I must be designated as Gay, Bisexual etc.. I have great difficulty with accepting such designations based solely upon "what is between the legs". Would it not have been better if it were based upon "what is between the ears!"

My quandary is, that since I like to eat pussy too, (I'm a muff-diver from way back) and by using the same reasoning as used above i.e. because I like DATY, and love to taste what is between a GG?s legs then is there a danger that I might also be designated as Lesbian?

This name calling confuses me and I think Jim S has so far, offered the best solution to this predicament!

Just how many twenty something "people" in general can have an intellectual conversation with someone?

[greep]

I like shemales and I'M STRAIGHT. I would never suck a guys cock. Nothing reinforced this more than when I downloaded grindr (I'd heard there were some tgirls on it). Anyways I looked at hundreds of guys and got dozens of texts from guys, and guess what? I wasn't interested or attracted to any of them. I removed the app after 2 days.

And I am NOT 'bi' also, as I only like one gender -WOMEN, and it doesn't matter if they have a cock or a pussy, if they are hot, I'm attracted.

[Shyla Wild]

Why is it then that most, not all, ads, and banner ads, put an emphasis on what is between the legs? I know, too many commas. Who cares, it's Monday!

There is a huge difference between sexual identity and TS escorts marketing.

[Tim49]

Well the ads are all about what the guys want..

10% of men are gay.. 20% are bi.. 69.99% are confused and 0.01% are totally straight..

I cater to those in the 69.99% area.. lol..

I'm not into men that have sex with men..

If you come to see me because I have a dick.. you're not really all that straight..

If you come and see me to use me like your own little anal whore.. well then you're pretty straight..

Gay, straight, bi.. to many labels.. either you're a cocksucker or you aren't.. lol..

I am among the 69.99%

[dom r]

Just because you get off on cock doesnt mean youre gay or bi. What about almost every single male in the world masturbating and getting off on the feel and sight of their big hard cock in their hands, ALL OF THEM desire to suck it if they only could reach. Are they gay? No, but they are in fact lusting cock but it is their own and not another males, see the difference. Every single male will get a major hard on if they were watching shemale porn of a shemale blowing her own load. They are lusting cock on dvd are they gay? No, because its a woman. And lusting a cock on a girl or woman in person also doesnt make you gay. Lusting cock on A MAN or being attracted to a man DOES. See the difference?(if ya can actually SEE the difference than ya must be gay since theres a naked man in front of yoo with his cock).

[rider014]

There is a huge difference between sexual identity and TS escorts marketing.

But of course there is. I would like to assume that a t-girls personal preferences would be to be seen and treated as as a woman, which would also include her "sexual identity". Then there is the escort marketing end of the equation where cock drooling drones show next to no support for your true desires by hiring the cock that is attached to the person.
Just my .01% thought

[toban]

To clarify

Just how many twenty something "people" in general can have an intellectual conversation with someone?

By suggesting that what was “between the ears” was more important than what was “between the legs” I was not primarily concerned with intellect, though that is always an admirable quality for anyone’s partner to possess but what I would be most concerned about would be the girl’s attitude and how she views her femininity, her sexuality and how she conducts herself as a female. That kind of stuff comes from between the ears as well!

[rider014]

By suggesting that what was ?between the ears? was more important than what was ?between the legs? I was not primarily concerned with intellect, though that is always an admirable quality for anyone?s partner to possess but what I would be most concerned about would be the girl?s attitude and how she views her femininity, her sexuality and how she conducts herself as a female. That kind of stuff comes from between the ears as well!

A quality that is admired by some such as you and I, however, a quality of a mature nature that is highly unlikely amongst the younger SPs.

[Alexis]

Amen!

There is a huge difference between sexual identity and TS escorts marketing.

This is soooo true.. There's sooo many TG escorts that are only in it for the $$$.. no other reason at all..

Many don't spend all that much time in the industry either and are just here till they go for surgery.. so they don't give a rats ass about regular clients..

Often times girls respond to what the market wants most.. cock.. the bigger the better.. hence the marketing focus on it..

And yet this is what most girls want the least amount of focus on.. so it causes some issues for some people and they get resentful of their dick and the people that want it.. I like mine.. so I'm keeping it.. I like having it worshiped and played with.. yet even tho I am versatile I do prefer to be the one getting fucked when I'm with a man..

Imagining a young TS.. she's looking forward to her bottom surgery and finally being a girl.. then she gets another text message.. "Hey baby! I love your hard cock!" it can't be easy dealing with that regularly..

If there was no tribute involved by the men who desire to worship me there would be less men and more women at my feet.. Currently the line of men without tribute is about 10 years long for those with less than 10" on a tape measure.. the line for those with tributes is much shorter and appointments can usually be made within 24 hours..

[VanessaBell]

Is it possible to be straight and still enjoy being with transgender escorts? I have no attraction to men

Never understood why people are so touchy about this stuff, but sure, I've always seen it that way at least. You wouldn't go to the same person if she had more hair and muscles than a lumberjack, or have sex with the manliest man that ever manned just because he has a vagina. Like, unless you're somehow sexually attracted to chromosomes, at the end of the day, if you're straight, you're seeing someone because you perceive them as being feminine, regardless of what parts they may have. Anything else is just people and their insecurities.

[Tim49]

Never understood why people are so touchy about this stuff, but sure, I've always seen it that way at least. You wouldn't go to the same person if she had more hair and muscles than a lumberjack, or have sex with the manliest man that ever manned just because he has a vagina. Like, unless you're somehow sexually attracted to chromosomes, at the end of the day, if you're straight, you're seeing someone because you perceive them as being feminine, regardless of what parts they may have. Anything else is just people and their insecurities.

Thanks VanessaBell , you wrote how I feel perfectly and I quote: you're seeing someone because you perceive them as being feminine regardless of what parts they may have.

[TSFantasia]

Labels Don't Matter? Or Do They?

Its funny how people who are into fashion, cars, jewelry,wines, fine dining, etc etc are all about the BRAND NAME labels as they are proud of what they wear, what they drive, where they live, dine, what they listen to. Then we come to this subject and all of a sudden everyone fudges on the "labels" and circles the wagons to defend the "straight hetero" image to the last bullet of twisted logic.
The Gay/Lesbian community has advanced so far because of the "gay pride" events and attitudes and lobbying for better rights and protection. The trans community is 20 yrs back partly because of this don't ask don't tell attitude amongst the guys who actually want to be with T-girls/trans women but only if they can keep it hush-hush.

The truth of the matter is the majority (not all) of the clients and guys interested in "trannies" or T-girls are totally confused about what this desire makes them and are embarrassed to admit that it may make them not completely 100% straight hetero in the eyes of friends, coworkers and family. And while you may be able to sell other "t-girl enthusiasts/clients" on your ideas of how you rationalize seeing transsexuals as a straight hetero activity you know that the rest of the people you know aren't buying it.

If guys are willing to pay premium dollar to see T-girl escorts because they see them as so feminine and female then why don't they continue to see them after they are post-op and have a pussy to fuck? Seeing they are so straight and pussy should be a greater turn on than cock right? Oh and don't even bother with the inferior surgical vagina excuses!

As I've said a 100 times before guys would be better to come out of their self denial closets and be themselves let everyone know about who they like and prefer to see, date, have sex with get over the initial reaction and like everyone else find out it's really not that big of an issue in most people's minds once they actually do. Example NBA & NFL players who recently came out. I'm sure these locker rooms were full of the usual macho homophobic jokes and ribbing but once these players actually came out the atmosphere changes and there are hugs, handshakes, words of encouragement and support from sometimes the most outwardly verbose guys.

But I know this is a brick wall with most here and will fall on deaf ears and I can continue to be entertained and chuckle over posts like this and the wild twisted logic and explanations that guys give for making their transsexual encounters a "straight hetero" event.

[eastcoastprincess]

There is a huge difference between sexual identity and TS escorts marketing.

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