Straight?

[vancouverman]

I think that several of us are in a sexual no mans land , none of the labels fit , we are not straight , bi or gay.

"None of the labels fit" is where we all should be. A much better way to embrace your sexuality.

[toban]

How true!

I like the labels
Sexually schizophrenic
Sexually Bi-Polar
Sexually Maniac
Sexually Depressing

seriously....it's so much easier to find a sexually insanity then to try to fit into some impossible label.

I think that several of us are in a sexual no mans land , none of the labels fit , we are not straight , bi or gay.

True, and just like shoehorning yourself into shoes of the wrong size which you know will inevitably end up causing pain & grief, so will trying to shoehorn yourself to fit into a lifestyle that isn?t ?you? will similarly cause other forms of pain & grief.

[cameeindos]

a grey area...

[Shyla Wild]

a grey area...

like getting DirectTV in Canada

[cameeindos]

what about Rogers? lol.. i only know Sky in the UK......top notch i reckon lol

to answer the question better, well it's a spectrum.

say if a man or woman is married but in uni had a lesbian/gay relationship, are they straight or gay? if you like anybody who looks like, acts like a woman, then you're straight...no matter if she has a cock....

what about men who have sex with men (imho a dopey label..but that's a tangent)? maybe you, me, everybody else here is 95% straight but 5% gay who knows? One rule of thumb i reckon is would you get turned on by a GM's cock? would you want him to fuck you? or suck your dick? or you fuck him? if just the thought of these make you retch or cringe, then you're not gay. but if the thought of a TS doing these makes you feel excited or makes you hard...then no lol.

[berrisfueller]

"None of the labels fit" is where we all should be. A much better way to embrace your sexuality.

Interesting that it took 13 pages to arrive at this conclusion. I completely relate to the idea that the labels "straight", "bi-sexual" and "gay" are inadequate and outdated and I take exception to someone telling me which one applies to me. Personally, I'm in a long term heterosexual relationship, but I also have friendships with benefits, casual sex and paid sex on the side, mostly with GG, but also occasionally with TG. I've considered myself "straight" all my life. My attraction is towards females and femininity. I have absolutely zero attraction towards males and masculinity. However, in recent years I've come to a place where femininity transcends genitalia. Conversely, I don't have any attraction toward a man with a pussy. I enjoy sex and it doesn't matter whether the girl I'm with has a pussy or a penis. If I met a girl in a bar, I would not matter to me what's hiding inside her panties. Jerking myself doesn't make me gay, nor do I think pleasuring a girl's penis makes me gay. I don't think a GG playing with my ass or doing me with a strap-on makes me gay, nor does it make me gay if a TG does the same, except using her penis instead of a strap-on. I reject the idea that a male who is attracted to TG women is "confused" or "pretending". It may not be anyone else's business, but I know what I'm attracted to. There is no confusion or pretending whatsoever.

[crispycp2000]

Personally I see bisexuality as covering a wide array of possibilities; including transgender ladies, crossdressers and those just starting their transition, femboys (feminine guys/twinks). In practice, whatever tickles my fancy - and hopefully the same for everybody else.

Concerning berrisfueller above "... in a long term heterosexual relationship, but I also have friendships with benefits, casual sex and paid sex on the side, mostly with GG, but also occasionally with TG." the best label for him is Happy Pervert!

[marcpaulleb]

Ok at the risk of being jumped on

And not in a good way. Do most transgendered m2f see themselves as women? If yes then how can their clients be gay? Or since you have a cock and see guys does that make you gay. I could see bi maybe but despite some posts saying for instance if your a bottom and you end up in prison you'll be after cock all the time is crap. I and I'm sure the 69.99% of us guys here have ZERO attraction to dudes or their cocks, other then our own of course. I see going down on a gg is no different then going down on a tg its all about what gives you pleasure. After going through and reading all kinds of posts here on this forum on this subject I've decided I don't really care what other people say. In Thailand they are recognizing and protecting the rights of trans-people very enlightened I think. So go have fun guys and forget the labels.

[Zeus101159]

I am, sexually Bisexual

But emotionally straight. How's that for confusing?
I've never looked at a man on the street in a sexual way but women will make me look with lust. But I like cock on occasion. I know and accept that about myself. The fact I can get both needs addressed in one person is fantastic. The only reason I've never pursued a TS/TG romantically is that, from what I've seen or read, they want rid of their male genitalia. Not all for sure, but most. One of the attributes which attracts me. I liken it to a guy who is a boob man having his S.O. lose them to a mastectomy. He'll still love the person, but that which was his initial attraction will b gone.
I've spent much time reading and thinking about it and I know, and like myself. I have a good sens e of self I think. May b wrong

[idleflow]

Is it possible to be straight and still enjoy being with transgender escorts? I have no attraction to men

Quite simply. Yes.

[RumRunner45]

Newbie here- I am probably the straightest guy here,however more than just curiosity brought me here.
My point is I look at a hot guy and he's built great,big nice cock but it does nothing for me,in fact it's a huge turn off. I honestly don't care for porn because I don't like to see some dude hound-pounding some chick.
I like to see sensual women solo touching themselves slowly and gently.

But when I see a sexy,delicate and feminine girl in heels or stockings or both and she's got this glistening hot,hard cock then that suddenly changes the game plan.
I just became aware of this a few years back when looking around different sites. Being that I love women that are soft,feminine with delicate features it surprises me that I could be so attracted to all this and the cock is just the added bonus.(that's a joke waiting to happen)
Maybe it's the "taboo" part of it,it seems so wrong in my heart but my mind says damn that's hot.

This is my third post since I just joined today. I have so many questions so much say but I need to look around and find the right places to ask my questions and make my comments.

[Tim49]

I have read the replies to this thread several times .It seems that there is no clear answer to the question .It depends on varying points of view and personal preferences.

[cameeindos]

there cannot be a definite answer. but look at it this way, if you see a genetic woman and like her boobs or curves or arse or face/hair, and you see a TS woman and like the same stuff, it's the same part of the brain that turns a man on. so in that sense it's not gay. some may say it is totally gay since the TS woman has a cock, others wouldn't. for the most part, many men into TS women like the blend of womanly look/cock and get turned on by the womanliness (breasts/body/curves) so it's not gay in that sense.

[toban]

Predominantly Tim, it does depend mostly upon what you yourself believe!

I have read the replies to this thread several times .It seems that there is no clear answer to the question .It depends on varying points of view and personal preferences.

Primarily, I have to agree with cameeindios’ post(just above) on this.

Prior to becoming involved with trans girls I had suddenly lost my wife of many years After many monogamous years I’d found myself single again and gradually become very active again within the female scene (escorts included) and at that time, pretty much preoccupied with the female clitoris and its’ manipulation to achieve orgasm for her. I had no idea back then I was unaware of the transworld, that there were such escorts with whopping big clits such as we in this forum know all too well - clits that do not require a search to locate!

What I find most interesting about this is that somewhat later on, as I began to get to know trans girls in person back then, I found I was as fixated on their whoppers as I had been with the GG‘s little clits! For me then, the big deal was still focused upon that sensuous organ, whether it be large or semi-microscopic!

In that a male body form, whether or not it features a penis, does not turn my crank whatsoever and in that I am still overly excited by the feminine body form I therefore honestly believe I MUST be considered “STRAIGHT“.

So yes, you must be the judge of your own convictions!