A Mesasage for LouReed

[just4you]

So what brought you to this site Lou
How did you get to know about this site

You must have something for TS's to be here!!!

The freak is not the shemales, it's YOU that can't accept the fact that you are totally aroused by those gorgeous shemale and don't know how do deal about it. On top of that, I know that you are a married man and now your realizing that soon you will be cheating on your wife with a shemaleIt pisses you off but it's reality... so just relax and take a deep breath and accept the fack that you are not alone, there's thousands and thousand of people that have come to realise that T-Girls are pure girls with a little extra...

Here, have a beer and enjoy life as it cums...

Cheers

[tgfuser]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

IMO, this scene reads like an angry wife/girlfriend who has just found out her husband/boyfriend likes to suck cock.

I find it hard to believe that use lou reed registered last november, with over 2 days spent online here, decides to spread this hate now. Besides, the comments read like they were written by a woman, a very angry woman.

/btw... Lou Reed of Velvet Underground, known for his controversial writings wrote Sister Ray to which he describes as a scene of total debauchery and decay with a TV smack dealer (Sister RAy) who her and her other drag queen friends take a bunch of sailors, shoot them up with smack, then have this wild orgy only to end with the police showing up...

//a great artist but im still a joy division fan1!

[LouReed]

what brought me here?

So what brought you to this site Lou
How did you get to know about this site

You must have something for TS's to be here!!!

The freak is not the shemales, it's YOU that can't accept the fact that you are totally aroused by those gorgeous shemale and don't know how do deal about it. On top of that, I know that you are a married man and now your realizing that soon you will be cheating on your wife with a shemaleIt pisses you off but it's reality... so just relax and take a deep breath and accept the fack that you are not alone, there's thousands and thousand of people that have come to realise that T-Girls are pure girls with a little extra...

Here, have a beer and enjoy life as it cums...

what brought me here? I tell you who I am, I am LouReed's 9 months pregnant wife, I am about to give birth to a baby in 10 days and just found out my decent and moral hubby's special taste! what do you think how I feel as a pregnant woman who is going to be in labour any time? this man who had a thing for tranny for years and it ruined his first marriage and he found me again and promised and lied and lied and that is how he got me. Now he is doing the same thing to ruin his life again, he had gone through a painful and costly divorce and I am carrying his 3rd baby! can you see how smart this man is? what am I angry aobut is not about people's life style, as long as you do not ruin others. those tranny chasers, why the f**k do you marry a good girl and destroy her faith in family and love and trust? this is what I am angry about! my husband is a sick man, i just got to know this now. do you guys know how much he laughs at those formerly men but now women? do you know how he decribes that people looking for hookers? he says the hooker has to pay him tons of money and he has to wear a whole body condom and when saying that, he is shivering and to show he much he is disgusted and he often says how disgusting must is be to suck a man's dick? let's me tell you all sick men here, if you armarried and you are a low life hanging out here to check out those trannies, i beliebve the noraml moral standards for our society have to agree with me. Married people who go out to cheat of any kinds need professional help, not the people who are against the cheating! I am utterly sickened by your group of people!

Cheers

[just4you]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

OK, now we're getting somewhere...and I honestly sympatize with you now.
You should of came out from the start with your story.

So your husband is cheating on you, is there a difference between him cheating on you with another woman, a men or a shemale?
Would you of reacted differently and accepted if he would of cheated with a woman

Why treat shemales, T-Girls or trannies in the way you did?
If he would of cheated with a hooker (female) would you of gone on a their website to bash at all of them and their customers?

Cheating is loving somebody else, if your husband cheats on you and that your sex life is still awsome, where's the problem?
If he cheats and don't have sex with you anymore than you and him have a problem to look at...

BTW I'm not married...and I'm single...Yes I do see shemales on occasions and yes I do date generic females as well...
Thats my thing and no one will take that away from me and it's my choice...

We're in 2006, yes SEX is a big thing now, well it's always been but now it's just so much more in the open...

I understand your frustration, but it should be directed towards your husband and nobody else...we including shemales and friends don't deserve the bashing you did....and if you would of never found out about your husband and that your life with him was the most awsome relationship ever, where would the problem be Do you know that most married men that plays golf every weekend is much more than for the love of golfing, it gives them some time away (5 to 6 hours) from the home and wife... that could be considered as cheating then...

I wish you all the best and a healthy baby

[gshaw99]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

I still don't see why you have to bash shemales, husbands also cheat with females or other men. nobody put a gun to his head, he made his own choice to cheat. i feel bad for your situation, but don't come here and get all righteous.

[ShelbyWylde]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

The thing with husbands is you can choose wisely or poorly.
After all the bashing youve been givin' out please dont tell me you need a shemale to instruct you on how to keep or get rid of your man !

shame on you

[konabuds]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

well mrs. lou reed, how can you come here and judge us all? we are not your husband, we are not you, everyone has a different want, need, lifestyle. there are some decent people that come into this site, there are some decent people that meet and fullfill there needs and pleasures smartly. there are some people that develop friendships. does that make us "those people" "you people" bad?

good luck with your third baby

[CrimsonShadows]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

There are many issues here. And I am glad that we have the opportunity to discuss this situation on this open forum.

First I wish to extend my sincerest of sympathies for the current situation that you are face with now. There is no greater betrayal than one by the person you are closest to, especially if you have made a life long commit to that person. You are facing no less then the complete shattering of your world.

You are assuredly angry, and in great emotional pain. But at the root of it you are feeling a measure of shame for your beloved and yourself… feeling like you have some how failed to keep him “straight” as it were. This anger toward the object of your husband’s affections is very common, as is the need to lash out and harm as you yourself have been harmed. These are feelings that those of us that know hurt have dealt with and eventually made peace with.

The fact of the matter is this passion for a transgendered mate is not socially accepted today. It would be fair to say that it is far less accepted than gay or lesbian. While I am a young man and have had the opportunity to explore freely in our rapidly opening culture, most ahead of me are far more established in their lives. They already have families and careers and a circle of conservative friends. Likely even before they even knew that this was a choice for them. In most cases unless they are to start over completely, they only have the choice to explore their desires in an underground and confidential manner. Just like Galileo was force to recant his beliefs that the Earth revolved around the Sun most of my betters have no real choice but to live the lie. And they do so with every intention of NOT hurting these that they are closest it to.

In the end I can not condemn nor applaud, it simply is what sociality has forced it to be. Everyone approaches with the best of intentions but in the end no one escapes from the gravity of this social inequity.

I hope you find some solace from these words. And gain the strength to move past this pain. Time may heal all wounds, but we should all strive to not forget the lessons those scars leave behind. If you do not want other women to suffer as you have, than you need to become a champion for transgendered people. For only through social acceptance can people live true to their affection and themselves. Until that day most will continue to live the life of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

[curious]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

hi yu, what we have is the pain of betrayel to the very core of family life, very sad there are children involved and a new one on the way, teach them to be human and good luck Curious

[LouReed]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

There are many issues here. And I am glad that we have the opportunity to discuss this situation on this open forum.

First I wish to extend my sincerest of sympathies for the current situation that you are face with now. There is no greater betrayal than one by the person you are closest to, especially if you have made a life long commit to that person. You are facing no less then the complete shattering of your world.

You are assuredly angry, and in great emotional pain. But at the root of it you are feeling a measure of shame for your beloved and yourself… feeling like you have some how failed to keep him “straight” as it were. This anger toward the object of your husband’s affections is very common, as is the need to lash out and harm as you yourself have been harmed. These are feelings that those of us that know hurt have dealt with and eventually made peace with.

The fact of the matter is this passion for a transgendered mate is not socially accepted today. It would be fair to say that it is far less accepted than gay or lesbian. While I am a young man and have had the opportunity to explore freely in our rapidly opening culture, most ahead of me are far more established in their lives. They already have families and careers and a circle of conservative friends. Likely even before they even knew that this was a choice for them. In most cases unless they are to start over completely, they only have the choice to explore their desires in an underground and confidential manner. Just like Galileo was force to recant his beliefs that the Earth revolved around the Sun most of my betters have no real choice but to live the lie. And they do so with every intention of NOT hurting these that they are closest it to.

In the end I can not condemn nor applaud, it simply is what sociality has forced it to be. Everyone approaches with the best of intentions but in the end no one escapes from the gravity of this social inequity.

I hope you find some solace from these words. And gain the strength to move past this pain. Time may heal all wounds, but we should all strive to not forget the lessons those scars leave behind. If you do not want other women to suffer as you have, than you need to become a champion for transgendered people. For only through social acceptance can people live true to their affection and themselves. Until that day most will continue to live the life of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

I know probably t people are the most marginalized in our soceity today and that is why most of them can not keep a regular job and as far as I know, so often they make a living by working as sex workers. Not being socially accepted can not justify the cheating behavour because after all, cheating men also need to repect themselves and they do that by lying to themselves too. In my husband'case, he knew what he was somehow attracted to trans years ago and that is how he ruined his first marriage, his ex wife divorced him right after his second child was born and his life was in hell for a long time because there are children involved. Exploring opportunities is fine, but knowingly what you are into and still trying to make your own life and other life like in hell is not acceptable. He has already been divorced once, he was a free man to explore and live a life style that he wants, but many men just like him, choose not to!I fully repect your people who have this special needs and interests, as a guy here says that he dates both trans and women, what i want to say is how many of you when dating a woman, can tell her about your other part of pleasure? if it is agreeable with the woman, then it is consented adult matter that is no one's business. I believe my cheating husband represents most of your secret pleasure seekers here, whom I can only call cowards! you want to be morally and socially accepted by the soceity yet want to get it all, that is greed and sickness. It is like a slut who is doing prostitions for fun yet still shy about her pleasure and needs to go to church to show people and to fool herself she is a virtue lady not a slut. Just like my husband ( it makes me sick even to call a such man my husband! ) He cares so much about his public image, he brings up about the prostituion issues and trans issues, he actually laughs at those trans freaks that how freaky they act overly "womanly" yet you can still see traces of men on them, What i am agnry about is he spent a great deal of effort to get me, he calls me the love of his life, we had great great sex that I believe he was not faking, the kind of sex that neither of us can be foolish enough to give up. last night we stayed up all night to talk, he does not want to give up our marriage but being fooled and cheated so much, how can I still have faith in him? how can we still have the kind of sex as before? I would be totally turned off whenever he touches me because that makes me think what he wants is a man's cock not me. eventhough , i have no evidence that he is less attracted to me physically. He was almost in tears and tells me how much he loves our sex life and how unwilling he would let it go. But life can never be the same again, there is a hole on the shirt and no matter how you try to repair it, it is not the same shirt anymore. with a baby due in about 10 days, what choice do I have other than being heartbroken and extremly angry? One thing I can be very sure is that our great sex life is gone forever. I would never be the same again. As foolish as he is to lose his first wife, now he is losing something that he says he can not afford to lose. It is not all about he is into trans, it is also about he is wondering here which is all about prostitutions. As shocked and heartbroken as I was, my life has been in hell since I know this moral man has been wondering on this discussion borad which 99% is about paid sex and hookers six months after we got married last year. You think there is one hell in this world, no there is a worse hell and yet another worse hell, that is how I feel day by day now. I resent that fact that I have been fooled and I resent the fact it is disrepectful to my unborn child, my very first baby's father is a cheater and liar. The reason I posted my bleeding wounds here is tell those who are still doing the same thing to gain some basic respect for yourself and your family. If you are already married yet found out you belong to a different team, it is never to late to be honest. You have no rights to ruin and hurt an inocent person especially when children are involved in the name of exploring yourself. I belive that would not be considered decent and acceptable by any standards. My advice for those who are still " happily married" and yet looking for fun in the secret garden, if you are happy about what you have, be grateful do not act stupid. When good things are gone, they are gone forever, while you are seeking a 10 minutes of pleasure, you have to deal with life long pain and yes you are a low life, like it or not.

[ShelbyWylde]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

"LouReed" you obviously have no idea how many of your comments are so offensive to transsexuals.
Sorry for your luck. Marrying a man that already was in one failed relationship should have been warning enough and yet you still took the chance.
Did you not inquire as to why the previous relationship failed.
You have a internal family problem and you need to face the fact that you are as much part of the problem and the solution. Thats why so many relationships fail. Me Me Me its the all about me attitude that has become so sickening in the "mainstream" society today. What ever happened to sharing and mutal compromise ? What happened to being interested in what makes your partner happy ?
You talk about a husband and a child on the way. Those are things so many transsexuals can only dream of. You know nothing of a transsexuals life.
Don't come here pointing a judgemental self richeous finger at transsexuals or married men for that matter.
Take ownership of your own mess and either resolve and deal with it or dump him.

You are a perfect example of why I can't stand being around genetic females
Sugar and spice and everything evil

[Batman]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

Curious,
Well said man.

[hyadude2003]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

There are many issues here. And I am glad that we have the opportunity to discuss this situation on this open forum.

First I wish to extend my sincerest of sympathies for the current situation that you are face with now. There is no greater betrayal than one by the person you are closest to, especially if you have made a life long commit to that person. You are facing no less then the complete shattering of your world.

You are assuredly angry, and in great emotional pain. But at the root of it you are feeling a measure of shame for your beloved and yourself… feeling like you have some how failed to keep him “straight” as it were. This anger toward the object of your husband’s affections is very common, as is the need to lash out and harm as you yourself have been harmed. These are feelings that those of us that know hurt have dealt with and eventually made peace with.

The fact of the matter is this passion for a transgendered mate is not socially accepted today. It would be fair to say that it is far less accepted than gay or lesbian. While I am a young man and have had the opportunity to explore freely in our rapidly opening culture, most ahead of me are far more established in their lives. They already have families and careers and a circle of conservative friends. Likely even before they even knew that this was a choice for them. In most cases unless they are to start over completely, they only have the choice to explore their desires in an underground and confidential manner. Just like Galileo was force to recant his beliefs that the Earth revolved around the Sun most of my betters have no real choice but to live the lie. And they do so with every intention of NOT hurting these that they are closest it to.

In the end I can not condemn nor applaud, it simply is what sociality has forced it to be. Everyone approaches with the best of intentions but in the end no one escapes from the gravity of this social inequity.

I hope you find some solace from these words. And gain the strength to move past this pain. Time may heal all wounds, but we should all strive to not forget the lessons those scars leave behind. If you do not want other women to suffer as you have, than you need to become a champion for transgendered people. For only through social acceptance can people live true to their affection and themselves. Until that day most will continue to live the life of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

I know probably t people are the most marginalized in our soceity today and that is why most of them can not keep a regular job and as far as I know, so often they make a living by working as sex workers. Not being socially accepted can not justify the cheating behavour because after all, cheating men also need to repect themselves and they do that by lying to themselves too. In my husband'case, he knew what he was somehow attracted to trans years ago and that is how he ruined his first marriage, his ex wife divorced him right after his second child was born and his life was in hell for a long time because there are children involved. Exploring opportunities is fine, but knowingly what you are into and still trying to make your own life and other life like in hell is not acceptable. He has already been divorced once, he was a free man to explore and live a life style that he wants, but many men just like him, choose not to!I fully repect your people who have this special needs and interests, as a guy here says that he dates both trans and women, what i want to say is how many of you when dating a woman, can tell her about your other part of pleasure? if it is agreeable with the woman, then it is consented adult matter that is no one's business. I believe my cheating husband represents most of your secret pleasure seekers here, whom I can only call cowards! you want to be morally and socially accepted by the soceity yet want to get it all, that is greed and sickness. It is like a slut who is doing prostitions for fun yet still shy about her pleasure and needs to go to church to show people and to fool herself she is a virtue lady not a slut. Just like my husband ( it makes me sick even to call a such man my husband! ) He cares so much about his public image, he brings up about the prostituion issues and trans issues, he actually laughs at those trans freaks that how freaky they act overly "womanly" yet you can still see traces of men on them, What i am agnry about is he spent a great deal of effort to get me, he calls me the love of his life, we had great great sex that I believe he was not faking, the kind of sex that neither of us can be foolish enough to give up. last night we stayed up all night to talk, he does not want to give up our marriage but being fooled and cheated so much, how can I still have faith in him? how can we still have the kind of sex as before? I would be totally turned off whenever he touches me because that makes me think what he wants is a man's cock not me. eventhough , i have no evidence that he is less attracted to me physically. He was almost in tears and tells me how much he loves our sex life and how unwilling he would let it go. But life can never be the same again, there is a hole on the shirt and no matter how you try to repair it, it is not the same shirt anymore. with a baby due in about 10 days, what choice do I have other than being heartbroken and extremly angry? One thing I can be very sure is that our great sex life is gone forever. I would never be the same again. As foolish as he is to lose his first wife, now he is losing something that he says he can not afford to lose. It is not all about he is into trans, it is also about he is wondering here which is all about prostitutions. As shocked and heartbroken as I was, my life has been in hell since I know this moral man has been wondering on this discussion borad which 99% is about paid sex and hookers six months after we got married last year. You think there is one hell in this world, no there is a worse hell and yet another worse hell, that is how I feel day by day now. I resent that fact that I have been fooled and I resent the fact it is disrepectful to my unborn child, my very first baby's father is a cheater and liar. The reason I posted my bleeding wounds here is tell those who are still doing the same thing to gain some basic respect for yourself and your family. If you are already married yet found out you belong to a different team, it is never to late to be honest. You have no rights to ruin and hurt an inocent person especially when children are involved in the name of exploring yourself. I belive that would not be considered decent and acceptable by any standards. My advice for those who are still " happily married" and yet looking for fun in the secret garden, if you are happy about what you have, be grateful do not act stupid. When good things are gone, they are gone forever, while you are seeking a 10 minutes of pleasure, you have to deal with life long pain and yes you are a low life, like it or not.

seek help...NOW.....i didn't realiaze this was changed to www.bashtgirlforums.com

[tgfuser]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

[oralboy]

Re: A Mesasage for LouReed

Mrs. LouReed hasn't just offended t-girls, she's also offended people such as myself.

I am married. I visit t-girls with the blessing of my wife. She understands my "taste" and is very accepting of the fact that this is one area where she can't satisfy me. So as long as I play safe, and it doesn't affect either our sex life at home or our budget, I'm free to explore this arena as I like.

I haven't yet managed to convince her to join me, but she's starting to warm to the idea. Maybe one day, but for now, I'm happy with our current arrangement.

Mrs. LouReed, I'm sorry for what your husband did to you. He should have been honest about his "hobby" and explained everything to you prior to your marriage (as I did - yes, she still married me). But your situation gives you no right to come in here and post such venomous rants at people you don't even know. You assumed that all the men here were just like your husband - hiding their "secret" from their wives - when in reality, everyone's situation is completely unique. You cannot pigeonhole an entire online community such as this one based on your narrow perceptions and experiences.

So please, accept my sympathies for your situation, and then chill. At least on the members here. I hope you two can work through your differences.