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I prefer to use email for the initial contact but it really pisses me off that many of the girls list their email address in their ads but never respond. I usually try to tell them a little about myself and what I am looking for which can be difficult to discuss on the phone. If she does read the email and chooses not to reply, that is very rude on her part. A simple sure or no thanks doesn't take much time to do. If they don't read their emails, then they should not be listed in their ad.
Calling provides more information than any other method particularly for first time meets!
On most occasions I find a direct call is all that is necessary.
When I am interested in meeting someone that has some history I will spend as much time as possible on prior research to help determine the desirability of a personal meeting.
Occasionally though, if I feel I really need to know something that is not otherwise apparent I have used email as a preliminary way to get that info but final contact would always be by phone!
The girl's voice and demeanor are always useful in making the final decision.
i perfer phonecall i mean they can still email but to confirm the appt need to call ..
I agree..
I always screen new people by voice.. It's good to talk to someone first and be clear on what they want vs what I can provide at the time..
It's also a good way to screen for people that are drunk, high, fishing for info, playing games etc..
Once I know someone then texting is sometimes ok but generally I'd rather you phone me by voice so I know it's not your wife texting me..
I've lost a number of potential clients perhaps from texting and then they would not call by voice to set it up..
I can only think that they were up to no good if they could not provide me with the courtesy of talking to them on the phone before I give them my address..
I do all my contacting through text messaging only and haven't had any issuing hooking up with ladies in Toronto. If they don't return my text i should move on.
Why did it take me so long to meet a Tgirl? I Love them
I generally prefer email or text message for the "nitty gritty" of the chit-chat, details and appointment set up but do require a phone call prior to arrival - you can tell alot about someone by their voice. I have probably avoided some issues this way (and lost some potential repeat income as well I am sure).
The phone is the only way to go for me. You can pick up on so many things just by hearing one's voice; things that cannot be conveyed through other forms of communication. Less likely there will be any record of what was said (barring an audio recording), when conversing over the phone.
I've always used email or sent them a message on here. If they ask me to call and confirm before we meet then that's about the only time I'll use the phone.
I know most girls want the client to call but for a lot of us guys it can be a nervous time and an email is an easy way to break the ice..
I always text first just to see if there available, are in town etc especially if they have no web site etc
then I'll call to book if they ask me to call if not text
girls who don't have to many rules aren't worth seeing anyway
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