Tia Phoenixx: The Future of Transgender and Transsexuals- Food for Thought

[Tia Phoenixx]

Hi Sl20 ...long time no talk.

though, logically speaking we can do anything with our life, but i still believe normalcy seems to be the best bet for us, tgirls in general.

i am personally so longing to be more normal and determine to be more domestic.

Wealth, though it is important, it is not my number one priority anymore.

so, i start focusing my energy for relationship and give more of my time for social encounters.

and btw, i plan to be a social worker once i am retired, dedicating to gay, lesbian and trans youth.

conclusion:

dont work too long full time as an escort, we have to know when to stop, and do something more rewarding.

[Tia Phoenixx]

On the other hands, working part time as an escort is ok, and i might do it as long as men like me, if i am still single.

full time escort, like me, has very little time to do anything else.

This can lead to lonelyness and other negative impacts.

[sensual_lover20]

Hi Tia.

Being "normal" should be the only path for t-girls because this will bring more acceptance into mainstream society. I cannot fathom their acceptance into mainstream society if they are all viewed as simply sex trade workers.

Best of luck in re-establishing a non-sex trade lifestyle. It will be a daily struggle to withhold yourself from reverting back to the old lifestyle out of familiarity, ease and convenience. Even more challenging is accepting inner beauty over outer beauty in another person.

From the one and only sensual_lover20

Hi Sl20 ...long time no talk.

though, logically speaking we can do anything with our life, but i still believe normalcy seems to be the best bet for us, tgirls in general.

i am personally so longing to be more normal and determine to be more domestic.

Wealth, though it is important, it is not my number one priority anymore.

so, i start focusing my energy for relationship and give more of my time for social encounters.

and btw, i plan to be a social worker once i am retired, dedicating to gay, lesbian and trans youth.

conclusion:

dont work too long full time as an escort, we have to know when to stop, and do something more rewarding.

[Tia Phoenixx]

yes, it is hard. i would say, i need at least 2 to 3 years to adjust.

but..hey, i like challenges and i never fail so far

Planning is the key!

i miss u btw

[Pat]

Far and Away

[QUOTE=Tia Phoenixx;467318]yes, it is hard. i would say, i need at least 2 to 3 years to adjust.

but..hey, i like challenges and i never fail so far

Planning is the key!

i miss u btw



Tia,
You are not normal and never have been, you have an MBA and you are a long way from Mutual Street

and us enjoying a cup of tea. Real Estate was always your strong suit and continues to be so. You understand

money and do not squander it. You are the most ambitious woman I have yet to meet in my business career.

Yes, you are driven and you are prepared to make whatever sacrifice you need to make in order to achieve your goal.

You are an outstanding woman but have an uncanny knack for business. But escorting is not your long term goal. You know

it and so do I, never was, never will be. Yes you like your loving, otherwise you would not be normal. You do indeed have an appetite

and chew most men up as you are light years ahead of them. I remember driving along the Gardiner with you and looking at some condos

that that were just going up with a very low down payment and having a discussion with you about the merits of dirt and the fact that they

were not making any more of it on this planet. I have watched you progress from the day I met you to today and what an amazing journey.

Have a very Happy New Year and may all your wishes come true.

Pat

BTW I miss you too

[Tia Phoenixx]

[QUOTE=Pat;467633]

yes, it is hard. i would say, i need at least 2 to 3 years to adjust.

but..hey, i like challenges and i never fail so far

Planning is the key!

i miss u btw



Tia,
You are not normal and never have been, you have an MBA and you are a long way from Mutual Street

and us enjoying a cup of tea. Real Estate was always your strong suit and continues to be so. You understand

money and do not squander it. You are the most ambitious woman I have yet to meet in my business career.

Yes, you are driven and you are prepared to make whatever sacrifice you need to make in order to achieve your goal.

You are an outstanding woman but have an uncanny knack for business. But escorting is not your long term goal. You know

it and so do I, never was, never will be. Yes you like your loving, otherwise you would not be normal. You do indeed have an appetite

and chew most men up as you are light years ahead of them. I remember driving along the Gardiner with you and looking at some condos

that that were just going up with a very low down payment and having a discussion with you about the merits of dirt and the fact that they

were not making any more of it on this planet. I have watched you progress from the day I met you to today and what an amazing journey.

Have a very Happy New Year and may all your wishes come true.

Pat

BTW I miss you too

Mama mia Pat!!! I has been 9 years....phew ....so long. I wonder where have you been and now, here we are again still in this forum lol

It is indeed pretty obvious that I am not normal compared to the average people.

However, as I mentioned before, i am NOT proud being abnormal and ambitious.
I might not be able to change the way I am drastically..but i try to do so slowly but sure.

I am longing for all daily lives...that almost all of us have: grocery shopping, cleaning the house, cooking...gardening...going to the cinema with friends, cuddling with loved ones...and so many sweet, normal things.

I am only able to do all those stuff only few times in a year...and i want to have it more...much more!

My career as a tgirl escort will come to the end soon.

I am too feminine to be a tgirl by now. Men think I am a girl, and they want to see me with a vagina, not a dick.

SL20 has mentioned that one of the problem of tgirls in general is acceptance, and i agree with him.

However, for me personally, the acceptance goes the other way around. I want people to know that I am NOT a genetic woman, at least those people who mingle with me.

Most people think i am a genetic woman by now, and i personally think, is misleading.

Once, I am retired from being a tgirl escort and becoming a post op. I will not have a problem, telling the truth about my past, and I will show the world, physically, mentally, and intellectually, I am NOT inferior to other women, or people in general.

It is indeed a challenge, but as I said before, i never fail so far

Let us see...and Happy New Year Pat...glad to know that you are still around.

Enjoy my newest blog entry titled 2015:

http://www.tia-phoenixx.com/blog/2

Btw, I am at the Hong Kong airport now, and will be boarding anytime soon...and start my long holiday!

So happy....I cant wait just being normal and meet my family and friends!


keep in touch!