Does be topped by large cocks hurt?

[Tim49]

So far I have been with 3 transwomen.They were all average length and thickness. I enjoy mutual sucking and fucking.I am attracted to a transwoman that I saw on shemale Canada ,in her profile it shows her large thick cock so I am concerned if I meet her that if she fucked me it would hurt .

[the_conqueror]

I guess it all depends on how experienced you are with taking it up the bum.

Personally I've never found getting topped to be painful but more of an uncomfortable feeling. As long as I stay relaxed things are all good.

[merelypink]

Use lots of lube also know as LOL

[toban]

Even if it does hurt, you'll find it well worth it!

I guess it all depends on how experienced you are with taking it up the bum.
Personally I've never found getting topped to be painful but more of an uncomfortable feeling. As long as I stay relaxed things are all good.

Most importantly, since you are totally inexperienced at "taking it up" you'll need to keep in mind the old adage - "Practice Makes Perfect"!

There are dozens of posts about this kind of preparation but the gist of them all is to prepare yourself and your behind for the new sensation of receiving or taking-in of something rather than the usual sensation of expelling something. You must train it to accept reverse action!

As has been mentioned above, use plenty of lubrication of some kind and experiment with various objects, even fingers may be OK to start with but commercial dildos etc. are used by many. Start small of course and progress to things with dimensions more similar to what you?re hoping to someday experience.

If keeping dildos around the house is not for you, don?t overlook throw-away objects like condom covered common vegetables like carrots, eggplants, zucchini etc., etc. that you can easily explain away as ingredients for tomorrows stir-fry but if you do go this way be certain to keep a tight grip ?cuz you don?t want to end up in the E.R.!!

[bottomone]

I have never found any anal sex to be painful or uncomfortable. Quite the contrary, I cannot imagine a more enjoyable and fulfilling experience. I've never taken anyone larger than 11" but they have all been totally enjoyable. Anyone who tells you anal sex is painful or uncomfortable is more than likely uncomfortable with the THOUGHT of being a bottom. Let yourself go, there is nothing better than a huge cock pumping in and out of your ass and then shooting a huge wad of cum into you !

[Rockheart]

Stick a dildo in your ass about the size you are considering and find out.


Considering you are having to even ask the question, the answer will be YES it will hurt at first if you are not used to it.
(Don't believe the claims that it never hurts)

[Tim49]

I have received anal but only 3 times from transwomen with average size cocks ,As they pushed in it felt uncomfortable but once inside I enjoyed it very much , I am just concerned the larger cock would hurt.

[kokinme]

No Pain, No Gain

I have received anal but only 3 times from transwomen with average size cocks ,As they pushed in it felt uncomfortable but once inside I enjoyed it very much , I am just concerned the larger cock would hurt.

My experience is that there is a fine line between "hurt" and pleasure. I like to still feel that my ass, and throat for that matter, have been "violated" for several hours after. Uncomfortable is part of the better experience as long as there is no damage done.

[Happyrocks]

I have not had my first TS experience. I am going to book Lola for my first time, so I guess I better start practicing with a big dildo!

[dom r]

So far I have been with 3 transwomen.They were all average length and thickness. I enjoy mutual sucking and fucking.I am attracted to a transwoman that I saw on shemale Canada ,in her profile it shows her large thick cock so I am concerned if I meet her that if she fucked me it would hurt .

if it hurts nature is telling you to stop. i tried a dill(dildo) about 4 years ago was last time once a week or a month with alot of vaseline, it still felt a bit sore even at once a month so i stopped. Just tell the girl to, "keep it still ON butthole with alot of lube"...."no need to go in"...."by her(or you) keeping it stil on the butthole with just her tip in she'll feel the warmth on her excited-tip spot especially when still for 5 minutes-she will build it to a nearing climax combined with some moving back and forth between ya buns and on yoe butthol like a hot dog thats happy in between buns". Did I ever get hot dogged by a girl? no but i hot dogged 2 kinds of girls.(guess which 2).

and heres girl 2.. YUP them anal dvds sure gets me uff with the right low cam, especially when theyre oiled and wetcun, including shemale cum ones too-


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from Transsexual debutantes 5-(ulitmate cum/cum sound scene).

[LOLA_]

Stick a dildo in your ass about the size you are considering and find out.


Considering you are having to even ask the question, the answer will be YES it will hurt at first if you are not used to it.
(Don't believe the claims that it never hurts)

[Tim49]

LOLA you are an experienced top with a large cock , what are your thoughts on this subject.

[anat89]

All that will be said has been said. If the girl you go with tries to go too fast at the beginning you're going to find out what "a pain in the ass" really means.

[Shyla Wild]

It is not the size of the tool you should fear, but the person using it. It is both a blessing and a curse being well hung. Very quickly we learn that if we do not win over the trust of the bottom, the session goes south FAST. From a very early age of my sex life, I was quickly instructed to both "take my time" and "be careful".

if you think it's going to hurt, then stay off the double black diamond runs, and stick to the bunny runs.

[Tim49]

It is not the size of the tool you should fear, but the person using it. It is both a blessing and a curse being well hung. Very quickly we learn that if we do not win over the trust of the bottom, the session goes south FAST. From a very early age of my sex life, I was quickly instructed to both "take my time" and "be careful".

if you think it's going to hurt, then stay off the double black diamond runs, and stick to the bunny runs.

Thanks Shyla for your point of view ,You made me think , I agree that trust is very important , Also an experienced provider like yourself knows how to please and knows far more about this subject then I do.