T Girls and Marriage

[danilover]

Hi, all,

Question for all the T girls here. How many of you are or wish to be married? I would love to find the right t girl and be in a serious relationship with the possibility of marriage!

[vancouverman]

I think you first need to ask yourself WHY you want to marry a "T Girl". Is it because they have a cock? If that is the case you may need to re evaluate , because most who have dreams of settling down and having a family and a marriage will want SRS and be called and treated as a woman; not a "tranny".

With the girls I meet, we do talk about life and SRS is the ultimate goal of almost all of them. (Of course there are those that wish to stay non-op forever, but I have yet to meet one who said that). There are very few that wish to keep their cocks after they have retired from the adult/porn/escorting industry.

[TSFantasia]

Hi, all,

Question for all the T girls here. How many of you are or wish to be married? I would love to find the right t girl and be in a serious relationship with the possibility of marriage!

I think you first need to ask yourself WHY you want to marry a "T Girl". Is it because they have a cock? If that is the case you may need to re evaluate , because most who have dreams of settling down and having a family and a marriage will want SRS and be called and treated as a woman; not a "tranny".

With the girls I meet, we do talk about life and SRS is the ultimate goal of almost all of them. (Of course there are those that wish to stay non-op forever, but I have yet to meet one who said that). There are very few that wish to keep their cocks after they have retired from the adult/porn/escorting industry.

I think most of us have the same hopes and dreams that anyone else does to have a successful career doing something we love doing (for some that is porn and escorting) and to have a meaningful committed relationship with someone we love whether that be a common-law or married relationship. All the usual difficulties in finding the right person we are attracted to on all levels and compatible with that exists for everyone is multiplied several times over due to the current social stigma that still goes with being transgender or being with a transgender person. As transgender women we have already come out of the closet to be true to ourselves whatever others may say or think about us.

The men who date us also have to be willing to endure the stigma and criticism that will come from their choice to be with us and stand up to family and friends when they do. There is no shortage of men attracted to T-girls some obviously just for the unique best of both worlds combo in one person but many also just see us as attractive women and they connect with us on a emotional and mental level also.

There is a shortage of men who have the courage to stand up for how they feel and who they are attracted to regardless of the reactions from family, friends, coworkers, etc. They are not willing to have their sexuality questioned or be labelled as anything other than straight hetero so more often than not at a certain point they bail in favour of going with the mainstream of society.

We do not have that choice for true trans women this is who we are to live any other way is torture that is worse than any social stigma or ridicule we may face in being true to ourselves.

[vancouverman]

Yeah, it's easy for guys to say they want to marry or date trans women on a personal level. But, the reality is most guys can't do it and try to make it a relationship that happens in each other's homes, in private, no introduction to friends and families, etc.

Even girls who have SRS are still subject to nasty words, bullying, off color jokes, and so on. There will always be a huge portion of the population that still looks at them as "guys". There are not many men out there that truly can handle being subject to that when attempting to date a girl on a meaningful level that must involve family,friends, and co workers.

[tao1kiku]

Well said TSFantasia.

I've been in a relationship with a TG woman for four years, and married to her for over a year now. I've learned alot more about the day to day problems and discrimination she faces. And relationship wise, it's the most challenging relationship I've had, it takes a fair bit of courage. But, we are both happy we found each other.

[Themanfromyul]

Well said TSFantasia.

I've been in a relationship with a TG woman for four years, and married to her for over a year now. I've learned alot more about the day to day problems and discrimination she faces. And relationship wise, it's the most challenging relationship I've had, it takes a fair bit of courage. But, we are both happy we found each other.

i wish i coud find a local t girl to date......

[alex99]

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http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showth...of-transgender

[brendan888]

I was seeing a crossdressing girl a few years back and it took a while but I as I come to except her when she announced to be full time Trans which is what I really wanted at the start she is heavily on hormones which has made her impotent which is a bit of downer but I do love her but it is hard. She is so brave. Let see what happens maybe I will legally I can marry her , wow

[VanessaBell]

Unless I get hit by a comet or something, this will likely happen for me, but I knew him for a very long time beforehand. I can't say I would have ever gotten involved with anyone that hadn't been my friend for at least a few years, as I have a really pessimistic view of most peoples' relationships, but that's just me. Also, as it was mentioned, specifically seeking trans women for relationships is generally a Bad Idea? (at least in the west, as I don't profess to know very much about certain cultures).

[TSd8]

Passable Non-Ops will have it made, soon enough

I think every year more married men who are fed up with their GG relationships are ending the madness and deciding "never again" and will start looking for a T-girl relationship. Most will want to be with Non-Ops, so all the Non-Ops, will have their "pick of the litter" and I think it will be a sizeable number of men very soon. For me a Post-Op is the same as a GG.... SORRY, but I'm no longer interested in GG's....and since I find men sexually repulsive....I'm screwed as far as options go.

The biggest challenge for us will be trying to find a Non-OP, Non Nut-Job to be with...same issues as dating a GG

[alex99]

I think every year more married men who are fed up with their GG relationships are ending the madness and deciding "never again" and will start looking for a T-girl relationship. Most will want to be with Non-Ops, so all the Non-Ops, will have their "pick of the litter" and I think it will be a sizeable number of men very soon. For me a Post-Op is the same as a GG.... SORRY, but I'm no longer interested in GG's....and since I find men sexually repulsive....I'm screwed as far as options go.

The biggest challenge for us will be trying to find a Non-OP, Non Nut-Job to be with...same issues as dating a GG

Are you seriously telling me that if you met a shaved or hairless twink that looked and sounded like a woman, you wouldn't be the least bit interested? I understand if it's some macho, muscular beast of a man with a huge chin, a beard, and a police cap, who's dressed in leather... (i.e. 90% of gay porn) That's just nasty!

idk like say this guy lol

[TSd8]

Am I alone here?

yes, that's what I'm saying.... I'm attracted to GG's, but no longer want to be with them sexually...a pussy does nothing for me and the cunt that owns the pussy gets on my nerves. I find the male physique sexually repulsive. I am 50/50 top & bottom, so you can imagine how great it is to have this much variety.... potentially twice the fun as anyone that only wants it one way...top or bottom... I like long flip-flop sessions, and on special occasions if my T-girl wanted to be gang rapped for her birthday I would think it best that I do a good job arranging it. Ha Ha.... try and guess what I would want for my birthday

[alex99]

I'm just teasing. I only ask because that guy's one step away from being in panties ^^

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

[TSd8]

I missed that

I thought you were serious.... at any rate, it sounds like Danilover better find himself a passable T-Girl or become proficient at cage fighting.

[alex99]

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