anal sex

[alveras]

i have been having a lot of problems wid anal sexi have been wid 2 transexuals in the last 2 months n both of them found it very difficult to fuck me in the ass since i was too tight n it hurt too much ,,,i am a anal virgin please let me know wat i should do

[Cowboy905]

umm, maybe go out and buy a toy to work yourself in? also, i know it's hard but keep relaxed, the more you clench, the more resistance and the more it will hurt.

tell them to go slow...just the tip.

i have the same problems but it's slowly getting easier.

[Vic Durando]

Practice, practice, practice

I had the same problem, so I started with warm water up in the anal cavity to relax and clean everything out. that I start with a small but plug, and start increase the size until it stopped hurting, I now enjoy anal sex when ever I can get it and the orgasm are out of this world, I have never exploded like that masturbating that for sure. You will need to purchase a starter kit with lube, start off small and work your way up. good luck, relax and enjoy practice

[VanessaBell]

Warm yourself up to it by practising on your own. There's also a massive difference in how easy things go depending on how turned on you are in that particular moment.

[Lakesky]

using a properly sized toy to fuck is a good step to take. second, think of an ideal place to toy yourself, it may be in your room, it may be ..uh, other places...

give it all the time it deserves, don't rush, and be as hygienic as possible.

[Pantyhose1]

You need plenty of lube and make sure her cock is covered in lube from top to bottom and that your hole has lube too. It made a huge difference with me.

[dom r]

i have been having a lot of problems wid anal sexi have been wid 2 transexuals in the last 2 months n both of them found it very difficult to fuck me in the ass since i was too tight n it hurt too much ,,,i am a anal virgin please let me know wat i should do

NO NEED to penetrate at all. Youre TIP will feel all the warmth it needs when its outside and ON the butthole as its in between the her cheekers. Smartest way ta hav sex with a shemale as well as cock on cock. Add lube if dry for both of those ways....or just keep on telling her ta spit or drooool on it.

[ladyluv]

Face the music pal !!!! You're a weirdo.

[Jennifer Alvarez]

It's good that there is such a discussion. Usually, read a lot of literature. But most importantly, make sure you're ready for
it. Then you can buy a water-based lubricant, and try cautiously exploring your body. How it reacts, and then try the toys. Don't take a lot at once, just a little at a time.

[Jake163]

My 1st time I had very little anal practice and took about a 7 in cock with no lube , just some type of cream , I loved it but I tapped out after a bit lol . So in other words use enough lube lol

[Brickmover]

Are you sure the anus is too tight? Instead of being too nervous? If you want to continue trying, it is not recommended to start with the penis. You can choose smaller toys. For example: small anal beads, bullet vibrators. These small toys will help you open the anus.
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[alaska1]

Yes, it is quite difficult to use anal beads. I have an anal chain with 5 balls that we used during sex. In the starting, we use it, hard for me to put it inside my anus. But after using it regularly during sex, now I will start to enjoy double penetration.
So, you can use any lubricant that can help you a lot. I had also used a water-based lubricant.

[want2bgirl]

Get a small butt plug, like the diameter of your thumb, generously lube it and your pink little hole, then push it into your ass while you masturbate. Don't force it, just put enough pressure on it so that when you finally relax, it just slips in. Then work it like you're being gently fucked, slowly pull it almost all the way out and then push it back in; repeat till you get sore or cum. Do it a couple times a week, and enjoy it. It'll quickly become easy - days not weeks usually. Have the next size up ready to fuck yourself with and repeat the process, make sure it's around 1.25" diameter. Third up is a decent size 6-7" cock, don't be greedy, stay around 1.5" (2" is going to be too much and bigger than most real cocks) . Don't ever tear your ass. If it hurts, stop. Sometimes if it's been awhile, I'll just push the tip in till I feel a good stretch and hold it.

It doesn't take long. Most peoples' problem is trying to go too big too fast. You'll hurt yourself, and have to wait till you feel up to it again. Which just delays your play time, and makes everyone sad.

[big-gun]

Slow like others say, let the one know how its feeling, next thing they will be balls deep,