Sissy cocksucker

[tek1234]

Myself and a group of friends went out for drinks Saturday night. After a few beers 1 of them called me a sissy cocksucker because he knows I enjoy being with transwomen. I just said yes I love it and changed the subject. It's sad how some people try to hurt others with words , Thanks to being here on this forum I have learned not to let those things bother me anymore .I enjoy sucking cock and being topped by transwomen and I am not ashamed of it.

[VanessaBell]

Gosh, sounds like a great friend.

[tek1234]

Gosh, sounds like a great friend.

I guess I need to make new friends

[vancouverman]

I guess I need to make new friends

I was about to make that comment too

My close buddies know this is part of my sex life, and they chuckled a bit in an embarassed sort of way but then moved on. They treated me with respect and when I showed them photos of some of the girls I have had sex with, they certainly had even more respect. I suspect two of them have tried it themselves after seeing the pics, but have not wanted to mention it yet.

[alex99]

It's surprising sometimes how insensitive some people can be, and I agree with the other comments - someone who jokes like that is not your friend. I have a pretty thick skin, but that kind of homophobic bs talk is a deal breaker because it's very degrading. There's no point in trying to reason with someone like that either, since he clearly has no respect for you, and I would personally cut all ties - that also goes for the people with him if they laughed or encouraged him in any way. Life is too short to be around people who make you feel like dirt.

On the other hand, I wouldn't go around talking about my sex life or sexual interests with people either, unless there's a sexual attraction. A web forum is a bit different, since it's so impersonal, but in person, a lot of guys, if not most, will wonder why you're hanging out with them and telling them that you like to suck cock and be topped, especially if they don't fantasize about tgirls and see them purely as men. You can tell them all you want that it's just with tgirls, but it won't change their opinion, and if they're homophobic, expect to be insulted and the butt of hurtful jokes. They may also talk behind your back and say even worse things (women are especially bad for this). It's sad but true.

[tek1234]

It's surprising sometimes how insensitive some people can be, and I agree with the other comments - someone who jokes like that is not your friend. I have a pretty thick skin, but that kind of homophobic bs talk is a deal breaker because it's very degrading. There's no point in trying to reason with someone like that either, since he clearly has no respect for you, and I would personally cut all ties - that also goes for the people with him if they laughed or encouraged him in any way. Life is too short to be around people who make you feel like dirt.

On the other hand, I wouldn't go around talking about my sex life or sexual interests with people either, unless there's a sexual attraction. A web forum is a bit different, since it's so impersonal, but in person, a lot of guys, if not most, will wonder why you're hanging out with them and telling them that you like to suck cock and be topped, especially if they don't fantasize about tgirls and see them purely as men. You can tell them all you want that it's just with tgirls, but it won't change their opinion, and if they're homophobic, expect to be insulted and the butt of hurtful jokes. They may also talk behind your back and say even worse things (women are especially bad for this). It's sad but true.

I did not tell him about my attraction to transwomen.He stopped by my place and was using my computer and saw the link to tgirl forums.He read my posts then talked to me about them. He said he was not into that kind of thing and left shortly afterwards.The next time we saw each other was at the bar and you know what happened there.

[coolguy]

Yeah what a loser, glad u took care of it