Well there ya have it

[Hockeydude89]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8QK2K1ZX-L4

Also, let me just say....I love how much easier it is to find educational shit like this then it was ten years ago, when I was in high school and just starting to get into trans women.

[vancouverman]

Gosh I wish this question would just go away. This internal struggle of men to decide what label to put on themselves (and what label their friends and family will put on them) as they enjoy having sex with trans women is something I hope evaporates from our society one day. This defensive need to convince themselves and everyone else something because they worry someone will think they are gay, is something I hope we can evolve past as a society.

Just two people enjoying one another sexually or as friends or anything in between should be all it is. A chance for great energy in your life. Labels and the need to explain them is something we all need to grow past.

Long way to go I guess.

[Shyla Wild]

Labels suck. Just be happy.

The reality is this.... Everyone I have ever bumped into has always told me that they don't care what people think about them. This recurring question, proves otherwise.

Society is quite strange. They attack a man's masculinity, and a woman's sexuality. Or in simple terms....she is a slut and he is a fag.

History has shown us things about labels. Religions labelling themselves righteous, wars justified, etc. A label is nothing more than a way to show that someone or something is different and therefore a way to hate. The reality is that we are all people, whether we are black, white, brown, woman, man, Catholic, Muslim, Jewish etc...in the end, mankind has a long way to go until it realizes the most important thing.....we are all people trying to get by in this world. Why make it harder on each other with this petty crap?

[Rockheart]

This is easily one of the most over discussed issues on the internet and has been discussed here a zillion times already.
One time a customs agent in Vancouver asked me if I was gay for liking ladyboys, I declined to answer.

Barbie Swallows sure thinks you are a big homo for like tgirls.
Men That Like Shemales Are 9O% Repressed Homosexuals, Drug Addicts & FUCKING Bottoms!
Are you G@y if u like "Shemales" ?
"Men That Like Shemales Are Closet Case Homosexuals"
"Top 5O Facts About Men That Like Shemales.... Strange, Wierd But True!" LOL
"B@rbie Swallows" (Personal Experience) Most Gay Men Are Jealous Of M2F Transsexuals!
"Most Men That Like SHEMALES Are Big Fucking Pussy's! This Is No Joke, Sad But True!"

Here are few of the other threads here on the same topic, if you want to do research:
Is This Gay?
Am I gay?
for the' am I gay?' fans
Are you Straight or Gay?
gay or straight
does it mean ur gay if u like shemales?
Are you just a gay and just in denial?
I Am Not Gay I Just Like Trannys
Are you gay , bi or straight?
Are there any gay admirerers?
GAY BOYS and TRANSPHOBIA!!!!!
Part 2:Are you gay think then vote
Is it gay to like a transgendered girl
MOVED: Are you gay if you like shemales?
does being attracted to shemales make me gay?
Where does the word Gay fit into this picture?
Poll: Gay or straight? Here's a scenario.....
Are you gay? Dont think into it just pick what comes to mind:
Should I try gay sex? I?ve been with several t-girls, but never a guy. I know I lik
WTF I'm a Gay Perv For Loving T-Girls but Your Sexy for Wanting to be a Dike!
Men - how do you feel with TS call you "bottom queens' or "faggots"
If Men That Like Shemales Are Closet Case Homosexuals then what are Shemales?
New to the board I have a question.
Guys of Tgirlforums, take the poll!
Too interested in cock??
Why All the Drama?
How do you think: are all guys bi?
Why Do You Love TGirls?
Is this wrong if I want a cute t-girl to dominate me?
Straight?
What does that make me
Hello I'm curious about a few things



And on theladyboyforums.com
Gay or not?
Yet another gay topic
Am I Gay?
I am gay/I'm NOT gay/I don't know!
are or ladyboy gay if so i wood like to meet one
Gay..?
Are we gay?
Gay or not? Naaah... who gives a shit?
I like shemales. Am I gay?
Men's Annual "Am I Gay" self examination
How gay are you
Ts / gay tendencies?!
Gay or not finally sorted out?.. or
Not Heterosexual Not Homosexual

[Rockheart]

Gosh I wish this question would just go away. This internal struggle of men to decide what label to put on themselves (and what label their friends and family will put on them) as they enjoy having sex with trans women is something I hope evaporates from our society one day. This defensive need to convince themselves and everyone else something because they worry someone will think they are gay, is something I hope we can evolve past as a society.

Just two people enjoying one another sexually or as friends or anything in between should be all it is. A chance for great energy in your life. Labels and the need to explain them is something we all need to grow past.

Long way to go I guess.

I am just so tired of everyone coming out. Maybe it makes them feel better but it is pretty awkward for everyone else.
Especially celebrities almost every day having a press conference to announce they are gay.
Many movies and shows are now ruined for me because the actor has to make gay their mantra, but they are always playing straightish roles. In fact there are more gay characters in Television and movies by far than what is true in real life.
Seems 1/3 of characters seem to be gay these days, and not just gay, flaming homosexuals. This is just not realistic. The community may like it but 1/3 of the population is not flaming.

If you only have sex with the same sex in your life and have never tried the other maybe you just are stuck on one thing.
If you have sex with the same sex once but usually prefer the opposite sex, so what.
If you seem to prefer the same sex over the opposite sex, you have just made a sexual preference choice, still why do you have to be gay?
It is all sex with other humans and many different variations are in existence.

Almost all of us like to have sex, not sure why people have to announce the type of sex they have.

Gay may be a community but it isn't culture, it is a sexual preference.
Sexual preferences can change.

To me if you want to marry or have sex with any other human that is great, but why do I have to keep hearing about it.
You aren't gay or straight you are human and you have sex and I already know that, you don't need to tell me over and over and over.

In reality it is just the rednecks you are coming out for anyways, why even bother.
The good people will already accept you, anyone else is not worth your time.

[hornystan]

Labels suck. Just be happy.

The reality is this.... Everyone I have ever bumped into has always told me that they don't care what people think about them. This recurring question, proves otherwise.

Society is quite strange. They attack a man's masculinity, and a woman's sexuality. Or in simple terms....she is a slut and he is a fag.

History has shown us things about labels. Religions labelling themselves righteous, wars justified, etc. A label is nothing more than a way to show that someone or something is different and therefore a way to hate. The reality is that we are all people, whether we are black, white, brown, woman, man, Catholic, Muslim, Jewish etc...in the end, mankind has a long way to go until it realizes the most important thing.....we are all people trying to get by in this world. Why make it harder on each other with this petty crap?

Very well said Shyla, very well indeed !

[vancouverman]

. Everyone I have ever bumped into has always told me that they don't care what people think about them.

And every single one of them are liars Everyone says that! however actions say otherwise with almost everyone in the world. It is human to have anxiety over what other people think of you; it is better to continue to grow beyond it as a lifetime path of growth and acknowledge that it is always in progress, than make a declaration that they don't care (even though they do).

[Hockeydude89]

I use to worry about it all the time. When I was a teenager, and in my earlier twenties it drove me insane lol. I guess now that I'm approaching my thirties, getting a bit older and wiser or whatever...I'm slowly but surely reaching the point where I just don't give a fuck what it means lol. Hell, there's a long ass term that I found somewhere out there for this sort of thing...Gyno...something or other. And when I first saw it, I was like "Really?" Would anyone actually think to refer to themselves as that, horribly long ass fucking word that no one can even pronounce right? haha, that's about the time where I started to think that it didn't matter anymore.

[Hockeydude89]

This is easily one of the most over discussed issues on the internet and has been discussed here a zillion times already.
One time a customs agent in Vancouver asked me if I was gay for liking ladyboys, I declined to answer.

Barbie Swallows sure thinks you are a big homo for like tgirls.
Men That Like Shemales Are 9O% Repressed Homosexuals, Drug Addicts & FUCKING Bottoms!
Are you G@y if u like "Shemales" ?
"Men That Like Shemales Are Closet Case Homosexuals"
"Top 5O Facts About Men That Like Shemales.... Strange, Wierd But True!" LOL
"B@rbie Swallows" (Personal Experience) Most Gay Men Are Jealous Of M2F Transsexuals!
"Most Men That Like SHEMALES Are Big Fucking Pussy's! This Is No Joke, Sad But True!"

Here are few of the other threads here on the same topic, if you want to do research:
Is This Gay?
Am I gay?
for the' am I gay?' fans
Are you Straight or Gay?
gay or straight
does it mean ur gay if u like shemales?
Are you just a gay and just in denial?
I Am Not Gay I Just Like Trannys
Are you gay , bi or straight?
Are there any gay admirerers?
GAY BOYS and TRANSPHOBIA!!!!!
Part 2:Are you gay think then vote
Is it gay to like a transgendered girl
MOVED: Are you gay if you like shemales?
does being attracted to shemales make me gay?
Where does the word Gay fit into this picture?
Poll: Gay or straight? Here's a scenario.....
Are you gay? Dont think into it just pick what comes to mind:
Should I try gay sex? I?ve been with several t-girls, but never a guy. I know I lik
WTF I'm a Gay Perv For Loving T-Girls but Your Sexy for Wanting to be a Dike!
Men - how do you feel with TS call you "bottom queens' or "faggots"
If Men That Like Shemales Are Closet Case Homosexuals then what are Shemales?
New to the board I have a question.
Guys of Tgirlforums, take the poll!
Too interested in cock??
Why All the Drama?
How do you think: are all guys bi?
Why Do You Love TGirls?
Is this wrong if I want a cute t-girl to dominate me?
Straight?
What does that make me
Hello I'm curious about a few things



And on theladyboyforums.com
Gay or not?
Yet another gay topic
Am I Gay?
I am gay/I'm NOT gay/I don't know!
are or ladyboy gay if so i wood like to meet one
Gay..?
Are we gay?
Gay or not? Naaah... who gives a shit?
I like shemales. Am I gay?
Men's Annual "Am I Gay" self examination
How gay are you
Ts / gay tendencies?!
Gay or not finally sorted out?.. or
Not Heterosexual Not Homosexual

Also, I've laughed my ass off at half the things that Barbie has said about men who are interested in trans women.

[vancouverman]

I guess now that I'm approaching my thirties, getting a bit older and wiser or whatever...I'm slowly but surely reaching the point where I just don't give a fuck what it means lol.

This is good to hear; keep on that journey. It truly is a big weight lifted when a man can free himself from trying to define his reasons or attraction to trans women and toss around "am i gay?" in his head; and instead just pursues what makes him happy.

[Alexis]

Please not again!!!

Bunch of starving pussy assed fucking cock leeches if you ask me..

lol..

K.I.S.S.

If you prefer cock and you're male then you're probably gay..

If you prefer pussy and you're male.. you're probably not gay..

It's so silly..

[Mugsammy]

Bunch of starving pussy assed fucking cock leeches if you ask me..

lol..

K.I.S.S.

If you prefer cock and you're male then you're probably gay..

If you prefer pussy and you're male.. you're probably not gay..

It's so silly..

I did love a transgender...I'm not gay. Unfortunately I do not love cock. And I definately prefer pussy over ass...hence per-dick-ament with spending time with transgender. But I drool over a nice shapely hips and firm round ass...either woman or transgender.

Wanna know what sexy is...a picture of a transgender in a mini skirt, garters, stockings...no panty...semi-hard hanging down below the skirt hem. Now that's sexy!

Yes...it's a silly subject but it's reality to many.

[Alexis]

Yes...it's a silly subject but it's reality to many.

I'm sure if you had a choice between fucking a girl and gay man sex you would fuck the girl.. as such.. you're not gay..

What if you prefer just ass?

So if you had a guy's ass and a girls ass to pic from and they were of the same quality which would you pick?

If you pick the guys ass.. you are flaming fucking gay.. (joking.. it means you prefer men and could well have a homosexual preference)

[teddieo]

Men who love beautiful, passable tgirls are straight, and occasionally bi.

sexual attraction is innate, it is already wired in our brain, as explained beautifully by Leon, my American friend who is also a renowned psychologist.

check this out

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/evolution-the-self/201205/you-can-t-much-help-what-turns-you

No worries about your sexuality, as everybody above has mentioned: who cares about label, anyway.

For myself, I have never had the least attraction to men. Trans girls are just that. Girls. Beutifull girls with just a little more but oh so hot and female!

[Mugsammy]

I'm sure if you had a choice between fucking a girl and gay man sex you would fuck the girl.. as such.. you're not gay..

You got that right! In fact, no man gay, bi, straight...or whatever else is out there, has been fucked or will ever be fucked by me. Nor will I ever be fucked, not even by a transgender.

But I do get aroused seeing transgender cock...I fantasize about transgender...I might even suck transgender cock (might!) I am not homophobic, I am not bi, I am not gay...I am straight.