has an escort ever called you a gay for wanting to bottom?

[cameeindos]

i remember seeing this escort in London years ago. she was passable, probably from South America, and at the time about 30-35. not sure how big her cock was erect but then she sucked my cock and then i asked her to fuck me and she said "i don't top...i'm not a gay boy!" lolololol.. i wasn't offended, but then made a mental note not to see her again.

is this common? i know many obviously don't care and most are tops cos this is the demand, but then i'm just curious.

[ladyluv]

Kayla Rocks called me a fag, because I wouldn't let her top me. Weird.

[vancouverman]

is this common? i know many obviously don't care and most are tops cos this is the demand, but then i'm just curious.

Yes, many TS Escorts will think you are gay or call you gay if you want to get fucked in the ass. I wouldn't worry too much about what they think of you as long as they give you a great time and what you are looking for. If they show you any disdain for wanting to bottom, don't see that person again. It is not professional to express a negative view on you when you are paying for her time.

Remember, most people need to put one another in a very definitive sexual box.... gay or straight without any variations or middle ground. A huge portion of men are still terrified of having a finger in their ass, from a woman, because they worry someone will call them gay. It is hard for a lot of people to accept that someone can enjoy pussy, cocks, women , TS or even men all at the same time. I keep saying that we should all stop worrying about that labeling of our sexuality and just damn well enjoy whatever it is that turns us on.

[tkid]

we should all stop worrying about that labeling of our sexuality and just damn well enjoy whatever it is that turns us on.

No kidding. Does anyone here really believe in the classical Straight-Gay binary anymore? Particularly anyone trans-gendered; I would imagine they understand better than any of us that our gender and sexuality are not so cut and dry.

Personally, I'd just laugh it off or take it as an intended part of the dirty talk.

[vancouverman]

. Does anyone here really believe in the classical Straight-Gay binary anymore?.

Most people, including trans people, still are locked into this thinking. Society still has a long way to go with it's sexual programming.

[Mouthwideopen]

Kayla Rocks called me a fag, because I wouldn't let her top me. Weird.

LOL! That's hilarious. As for original question; who the fuck cares? Are we still in high school? Sticks and stones...

[Rockheart]

I never ask anyone to top me and they still call me gay all the time.

[VanessaBell]

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[MarkKostery]

I never ask anyone to top me and they still call me gay all the time.

i've got that from time to time, but i dont care. I do what feels good wether it's top or bottom at the time. Is it gay if i wanna get my face fucked? Maybe, but who cares because it feels amazing to me.

[TSFantasia]

i remember seeing this escort in London years ago. she was passable, probably from South America, and at the time about 30-35. not sure how big her cock was erect but then she sucked my cock and then i asked her to fuck me and she said "i don't top...i'm not a gay boy!" lolololol.. i wasn't offended, but then made a mental note not to see her again.

is this common? i know many obviously don't care and most are tops cos this is the demand, but then i'm just curious.

Important to determine what services the escort is willing to provide before you go see them helps to avoid situations like this too. I think the terms are more used as a put down than an actual sexuality statement. Most TS know gay men are not interested in them.

[Rockheart]

If they call you gay, or they are blasting so and so for being a crossdresser, they are a damn stupid business person.
Go see some escorts that have self respect for others.
Not the bigots who go around attacking their customers and other escorts.

[cameeindos]

If they call you gay, or they are blasting so and so for being a crossdresser, they are a damn stupid business person.
Go see some escorts that have self respect for others.
Not the bigots who go around attacking their customers and other escorts.

I don't get offended.....i don't know who they are, but then if they reckon so whilst topping i'm too in daze and too much in joy to get offended.

[Ana_Jolie]

I don't think it is gay to be topped by a trans woman we are all sexual beings and however a woman and you enjoy getting off is between the two of you xx

[Ana_Jolie]

Sorry I just wanted to touch on something else... Did you know there is guys who are into being topped by gg who strap it in? They aren't even into trans woman or men etc... Having anal sex does not make you gay... It is more or less who you gave it with xxx

[Rockheart]

What if i stick a 9 iron up my ass while discussing Philosophy with a gay water buffalo in heat.
Does that make me gay?