Vices and sobriety

[bigonebugger]

Hi Gents,
I'm starting this thread in hopes that everyone gets the message.
I enjoy bringing pleasure, but I don't enjoy dealing with clients who, are under the influence.
I don't judge anyone's vices, but what I do question is why come to a provider drunk, or high? It's not fun , for me, because I don't take drugs, nor do I want them around me. The same goes, for alcohol. Personally, I like to keep a clear head . I also feel it's a waste of your money , and time if you can't perform or even form a sentence. If the reason is nerves then perhaps you need to seek out providers who do partake.

[bigonebugger]

P.S

Also Gents,
If your going to use , any vices before seeing me at least have the decency to be clean( fresh breath and body). Another gripe I have with " partying" clients is they often call and want to be dominated, but when they get here they try and run the show. Like I stated before, I enjoy giving a pleasurable service, but it's a two way street. A pleasurable time happens when everyone is a pleasure to be around.

[Rockheart]

Unfortunately I would not be able to take your large dick unless i had some liquor in me.

[cameeindos]

turn them away. you have right to work in safe conditions like anybody else does.

they can get violent, but then it sucks, but then you may have to turn them away anyhow.

[bluequad]

Several years ago I took that dick and I was sober as a judge. It was amazing! As I've gotten older though, I prefer longer sessions where I have a glass of wine with the girl I'm seeing. But I would never want to be drunk when seeing a girl. I want to be fully aware of exactly what's happening

[Ana_Jolie]

turn them away. you have right to work in safe conditions like anybody else does.

they can get violent, but then it sucks, but then you may have to turn them away anyhow.

Some do not even tell you. Sometimes it is hard to tell if someone is under the influence from a brief conversation.

[idleflow]

To be honest Merc. Maybe when they are drunk they just want a girl friend cuddle thing. Hey when they cant "perform" they know it. So spend the hour just being a gf. Ya? that would work for me. xoxo

[Brampton_Boy]

LOVE smoking a joint before I fuck, but mostly I smoke with the girl.

Sharing is caring.

To each his own though.

[coolguy]

U right dont put up with it

[tommyguns]

then put it in your add

if you dont want a guy to visit you after a few pints put it in your add.....and while we are on the subject of dont do this or dont do that, why dont all you service providers say what you wont or dont or cant do before you take the money...not picking on you as we have never met just the industry in general, because it is way more more often than not the client gets the shitty end of the deal.so if you see a guy who has a few too many too bad.... suck it up buttercup.c'mon we are talking about trans prostitutes here.... if it wasn't for booze you wouldn't have any buisness.

[Paco]

I've seen 4 TS provides while on - one on mdma (gave her some as well) and 3 i was on blow.

We all had a great time except staying hard was a problem. Im a good client. They like me and i like them.

I'm not sketchy and for 3 of them there was major mutual attraction and i have a good track record of being cool with the girls.

And i asked before hand if it was cool.

[Alexis]

suck it up buttercup.c'mon we are talking about trans prostitutes here.... if it wasn't for booze you wouldn't have any buisness.

Seriously?? you sound like a *^&*^ *(&$#..

I don't see people who are drunk or high.. and if somehow they slip through my screening process they get asked to leave or I never see them again and blacklist their number..

I don't like drunks.. worse is coconuts.. I don't allow poppers either..

Putting it in the ad might help.. but they still call at all hours of the morning cuz their too fucking drunk or high to read shit..

[Rockheart]

First of all there is no reason to start calling names here. Nothing was said to warrant this.

I will call BS on some of what has been said here:

Every so often an escort has a bad drunk or rude customer and put some rant like this here.
This is fine, there is a few bad clients. However this is not the majority of situations.
Why make blanket statements based on one or two incidents.

As pointed out the fact is that drugs and alcohol are probably responsible for more that 50% of escort calls.
Also if you are offering 24 hour service then you are willing to accept people that have been partying.
Almost no one seeing and escort between midnight and 6am is straight or has not been partying to an extent.
Also saying you have zero tolerance and provide 24 hour service also says you never ever drink or do drugs.
Standards can't only go one way.

Why not say you have no tolerance for very wasted and rude people.
Saying you have zero tolerance for drugs and alcohol just isn't true.
If you refused all with alcohol on their breath, i doubt you would make a living.

The idea that if I can't get it up that I am somehow wasting my money is not even true.
If I want to spend my money and can't get it up that is really my issue. Plus there is other stuff we can do.
In fact there is way more reasons I cannot get it up than drugs and/or alcohol.
Nervous, tired, hungry, distracted, depressed, turned off etc. Many of these things are relieved by a couple of drinks.

If i want to come over at 2am and all we end up doing is talking, maybe i am ok with that.

Plus if a millionaire showed up with a bag of coke, a bottle of whiskey and a gym bag full of cash, no one would turn him away.

I think the overall theme here is RESPECT, which should go both ways.
However, you are sloppy mess at 4am, maybe you should just go home.

[Alexis]

First of all there is no reason to start calling names here. Nothing was said to warrant this.

I will call BS on some of what has been said here:

Every so often an escort has a bad drunk or rude customer and put some rant like this here.
This is fine, there is a few bad clients. However this is not the majority of situations.
Why make blanket statements based on one or two incidents.

As pointed out the fact is that drugs and alcohol are probably responsible for more that 50% of escort calls.
Also if you are offering 24 hour service then you are willing to accept people that have been partying.
Almost no one seeing and escort between midnight and 6am is straight or has not been partying to an extent.
Also saying you have zero tolerance and provide 24 hour service also says you never ever drink or do drugs.
Standards can't only go one way.

Why not say you have no tolerance for very wasted and rude people.
Saying you have zero tolerance for drugs and alcohol just isn't true.
If you refused all with alcohol on their breath, i doubt you would make a living.

The idea that if I can't get it up that I am somehow wasting my money is not even true.
If I want to spend my money and can't get it up that is really my issue. Plus there is other stuff we can do.
In fact there is way more reasons I cannot get it up than drugs and/or alcohol.
Nervous, tired, hungry, distracted, depressed, turned off etc. Many of these things are relieved by a couple of drinks.

If i want to come over at 2am and all we end up doing is talking, maybe i am ok with that.

Plus if a millionaire showed up with a bag of coke, a bottle of whiskey and a gym bag full of cash, no one would turn him away.

I think the overall theme here is RESPECT, which should go both ways.
However, you are sloppy mess at 4am, maybe you should just go home.

Excuse me but the derogatory remark that I quoted is discriminatory to say the least.. and most deserving of rhetoric..

If it's taken the wrong way then I apologize..

It is not acceptable for someone to insinuate just because we are prostitutes that we need to put up with drunks, drug addicts and abusive people..

If you insist that girls must see drunk and high clients or risk loosing business you aren't doing any better..

I didn't say he was.. but it sure sounded like one..

Just because I'm a whore I have to accept this as normal?? fuck that shit..

I don't need drunks and drug addicts thank you very much..

They can go spend their money elsewhere.. 0% of my guys are drunks or drug addicts..

I adamantly refuse people who are drunk and high and I do just fine thank you very much..

It doesn't hurt business at all to refuse those that are high or drunk.. not at all..

[cameeindos]

First of all there is no reason to start calling names here. Nothing was said to warrant this.

I will call BS on some of what has been said here:

Every so often an escort has a bad drunk or rude customer and put some rant like this here.
This is fine, there is a few bad clients. However this is not the majority of situations.
Why make blanket statements based on one or two incidents.

As pointed out the fact is that drugs and alcohol are probably responsible for more that 50% of escort calls.
Also if you are offering 24 hour service then you are willing to accept people that have been partying.
Almost no one seeing and escort between midnight and 6am is straight or has not been partying to an extent.
Also saying you have zero tolerance and provide 24 hour service also says you never ever drink or do drugs.
Standards can't only go one way.

Why not say you have no tolerance for very wasted and rude people.
Saying you have zero tolerance for drugs and alcohol just isn't true.
If you refused all with alcohol on their breath, i doubt you would make a living.

The idea that if I can't get it up that I am somehow wasting my money is not even true.
If I want to spend my money and can't get it up that is really my issue. Plus there is other stuff we can do.
In fact there is way more reasons I cannot get it up than drugs and/or alcohol.
Nervous, tired, hungry, distracted, depressed, turned off etc. Many of these things are relieved by a couple of drinks.

If i want to come over at 2am and all we end up doing is talking, maybe i am ok with that.

Plus if a millionaire showed up with a bag of coke, a bottle of whiskey and a gym bag full of cash, no one would turn him away.

I think the overall theme here is RESPECT, which should go both ways.
However, you are sloppy mess at 4am, maybe you should just go home.

depends. a big city like NYC or London could have tourists, even in some cases diplomats or politicians (don't see why not...) who go after hours for some fun.

so you're saying most people who see escorts are stoned? i think it's more varied than that. i think more often than not, it's just people looking for fun, horny, blowing off steam, or just money to burn on fun.