Protocol for contact

[travellingtom]

I have been in the t-girl scene for about 4 years and, with a couple of exceptions, have had positive to very positive encounters. Bottom line: I love t-girls.

My question is around what to do when you don't get a reply from a request.

A couple of days ago, I sent a text message to a SP saying I was looking forward to her visit and that I would like to connect when she arrived. I gave her my phone no. (which she had anyway from my text). The next day, I sent a follow up text asking about a specific availability 3 hours hence. No reply. I called a couple of hours later and left a voice message; again no reply. I sent one more text and left one more voice mail offering other options for timing before calling it quits.

I respect provider's right to be selective (although I have never been turned away and have always shown respect) but is it too much to expect some type of reply? Even a simple no thanks would have sufficed. At this point I have no idea whether or not future attempts should be made to connect. (I do not block my number)

Feedback?
Tom

[Ana_Jolie]

I have been in the t-girl scene for about 4 years and, with a couple of exceptions, have had positive to very positive encounters. Bottom line: I love t-girls.

My question is around what to do when you don't get a reply from a request.

A couple of days ago, I sent a text message to a SP saying I was looking forward to her visit and that I would like to connect when she arrived. I gave her my phone no. (which she had anyway from my text). The next day, I sent a follow up text asking about a specific availability 3 hours hence. No reply. I called a couple of hours later and left a voice message; again no reply. I sent one more text and left one more voice mail offering other options for timing before calling it quits.

I respect provider's right to be selective (although I have never been turned away and have always shown respect) but is it too much to expect some type of reply? Even a simple no thanks would have sufficed. At this point I have no idea whether or not future attempts should be made to connect. (I do not block my number)

Feedback?
Tom

Hey Tom I thank you so much for your interest. I am so sorry I did not reply. I do not like to cross boundaries and do not know your situation at home work etc... This is why I do not return calls or texts after a certain time span. I never go on tour and I have found myself very busy and I do not work out of greed. That being said I see tops 4 appointments a day. Clearly I will need to travel again soon as I have missed seeing a lot of people.

[Ray]

I sympathize with you. I have had the same situation many times over the years when I email a SP. No reply whatsoever. Like you say, I simple NO THANKS is all that would be required. I just sent an email yesterday to a very respected SP and have yet to receive a reply. I think she doesn't work on weekends so I will give her the benefit of the doubt, until tomorrow.

[travellingtom]

Thanks for feedback

Hey Tom I thank you so much for your interest. I am so sorry I did not reply. I do not like to cross boundaries and do not know your situation at home work etc... This is why I do not return calls or texts after a certain time span. I never go on tour and I have found myself very busy and I do not work out of greed. That being said I see tops 4 appointments a day. Clearly I will need to travel again soon as I have missed seeing a lot of people.

Thanks for the feedback. I appreciate it. I will try to be faster off the mark in the future but you may call or text my number anytime. I will keep tabs on your travels.

[sunshine]

It can happen

I have been in the t-girl scene for about 4 years and, with a couple of exceptions, have had positive to very positive encounters. Bottom line: I love t-girls.

My question is around what to do when you don't get a reply from a request.

A couple of days ago, I sent a text message to a SP saying I was looking forward to her visit and that I would like to connect when she arrived. I gave her my phone no. (which she had anyway from my text). The next day, I sent a follow up text asking about a specific availability 3 hours hence. No reply. I called a couple of hours later and left a voice message; again no reply. I sent one more text and left one more voice mail offering other options for timing before calling it quits.

I respect provider's right to be selective (although I have never been turned away and have always shown respect) but is it too much to expect some type of reply? Even a simple no thanks would have sufficed. At this point I have no idea whether or not future attempts should be made to connect. (I do not block my number)

Feedback?
Tom

I know you, Tom. You are a very nice person and very respectful. To every girl out there, Tom is exactly the kind of client you want to get a call from. It is true what CandyLand says. After a period of time, it is indiscreet for the girl to return a call or a text. I hope you get a quicker response from girls you contact in the future but a failed attempt is not necessarily an indication of a problem. Try and try again. My advice is avoid texts and emails. Just call the girl on the phone. If no answer, try again an hour later and keep trying until there's an answer. Some girls may want you to leave a message and they will have that instruction in their voice mail system. If not, a message may be a waste of time, just call again later.

Sunshine

[travellingtom]

Thanks Sunshine

I know you, Tom. You are a very nice person and very respectful. To every girl out there, Tom is exactly the kind of client you want to get a call from. It is true what CandyLand says. After a period of time, it is indiscreet for the girl to return a call or a text. I hope you get a quicker response from girls you contact in the future but a failed attempt is not necessarily an indication of a problem. Try and try again. My advice is avoid texts and emails. Just call the girl on the phone. If no answer, try again an hour later and keep trying until there's an answer. Some girls may want you to leave a message and they will have that instruction in their voice mail system. If not, a message may be a waste of time, just call again later.

Sunshine

I appreciate the tip. I had worked on the assumption that if I kept getting voicemail answers to my calls, the person was avoiding me. I will use your approach in the future.