Dating a T-Girl

[aguyoutthere1]

Re: Dating a T-Girl

Sometimes... someone has to make the first the make step. Fine, ask me out to coffee, i will gladly come out.

S

Has anybody seen photos of SexyTSGirl? Or more importantly can I see some photos of you Samantha?



KC

[Sexiest girl ever]

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I am sorry but i am not that computer inclined, all of my pics exceed the 400 limit. So if u want to see a pic send me your email and i will attach it.

Samantha

[mykeylykey]

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I would defintely be interested in dating a t-girl.

For those dudes who've had the pleasure, how did you initially meet the t-girl? T-girl or staight clubs, t-girl or staight on-line personals? etc.

Casually meeting a t-girl at work, school, gym, coffee shop seems a bit of a catch-22. If you see someone and instantly recognize her as a t-girl, that's usually not a good sign (facially unattractive, gravelly voice, 8' tall) etc, if you can't tell, that's usually because she's so hot, she homogenously just blends right in with gg's. Hence, more than likely, you'll look right past her . . . another lost opportunity.

Is there any method to this madness?




mykey

[ShelbyWylde]

Re: Dating a T-Girl

I would defintely be interested in dating a t-girl.

For those dudes who've had the pleasure, how did you initially meet the t-girl? T-girl or staight clubs, t-girl or staight on-line personals? etc.

Casually meeting a t-girl at work, school, gym, coffee shop seems a bit of a catch-22. If you see someone and instantly recognize her as a t-girl, that's usually not a good sign (facially unattractive, gravelly voice, 8' tall) etc, if you can't tell, that's usually because she's so hot, she homogenously just blends right in with gg's. Hence, more than likely, you'll look right past her . . . another lost opportunity.

Is there any method to this madness?




mykey

Theres no big secret
Pick up the phone and call around
You might be pleasantly surprised
If you like a particular lady, try and read through her posts
see if she likes movies, dancing, maybe she has a hobbie
No big secret. Just plain old dating stuff
Ive been told other ladies enjoy dating besides myself
So it never hurts to call around
You might get turned down, but you never know unless you try.
S

[smile004]

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When i 1st started liking TG's there were not many around,so it was hard to tell.But the more i found pics etc...I started noticing the way i was feeling towards them,i was able to peg them as tg's just from the way it made me feel.Just because i was able to pick them out in a crowd does not mean they were drag queens with beards.You just become very familiar with what you like,so they start to stand out in a crowd.Although sometimes I don't know if i'm just hoping for everyone to be a tg,but when riding the transit sytem,sometimes i think i see many tg's floating around.I truly love the sexy feeling i get when i see a stauesque tg woman,makes me week in the knees.

[youngboy4ts]

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Can you be seen in public with her? Yes
Does she escort (at all?) she was but I thought every one has different past so I forget about her past and except as my girlfriend.After all escorts are HUMAN Too.
[Who considers himself straight: yes I am straight. I don’t bottom (never ever will do that) and sometime I don’t top. I don’t please (go down) any special girl.


Hey friend I was with girl and she was an escort but she was my girlfriend. I have been with escorts Suzy and angel. After that I have been with other special girl(I don’t want her name here) we both go out in public and I even hold her and kiss her in public. I have bought her flower, chocolate, grocery her shopping and brand new cell phone which worth $300. When me and her go out people thinking we are married and they have called us husband and wife in downtown restaurants. We have been to movies, shopping, coffee shop, clubs and bars. I have been with her more then 6 month. I have spent so much time with her at home cuddling, snuggling, kissing, watching movies and ordering pizza, cooking, cleaning. Sometime me and her cuddle in the night and fall sleep without having sex. so me and her were gather for long time.
In vacation time she was out of country. After that we have talked once and she told me she is being busy with her work so she has no time to call me or talk to me. She has to travels lots for her work and so she is busy I understand but she don’t call me in weekend too. Now looks to me that’s was it with that girl.
That was it for me with special girl I don’t think so I want try any more any dating with special girl.

People just remember one thing treat them like you were going to treat genetic girl.



Just my 0.02 cents and sorry for any mistake…
Respect…

[ps911fan]

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I have been on the good and the painful side of dating a TS girl. The first thing I try to do is get over the hump from all the BS and baggage she has built up from guys who don't get it or have a clue what it means to be in a REAL relationship with a T-Girl or anyone. I have had two live-in relationships that were good until some mutual problems occurred (nothing revolutionary or tawdry, but sometimes relationships end) and I have been burned by someone well known who I will never forgive for her duplicity. Despite that, I will not move my baggage on any T-Girl and ask them to do the same for me because I do understand a lot of the nuances of what it takes to handle the good and bad aspects. A guy must understand that the fantasy and the reality must never meet. If you think your girl is going to be in heels and lingerie 24-7, well stop and stick to escorting. Its tough but I prefer being with a t-woman so I am willing to do all it takes to sustain the relationship, from the lingerie on the shower bar, to the shavers, to the hormones, to the mood changes, to all the good times. I hope the girl is not ashamed or feels too insecure. Ill go to therapy and help her help herself setup the path to do anything physical you might want to do. I find it wise to set up an annuity for possible surgery so that she can contribute to it and make it interest bearing. Depending on my mind, I may contribute as well but I do not want to feel pressured to do so. I would do what i could to help get over that. Sometimes a girl has to be discreet for other reasons like work and such. Im ok if she lives part time or full time. She has to understand that I get it that she cannot be her natural self 24-7 and not be ashamed if seen in male mode. For each girl, their path to womanhood is very distinct and extremely different from other T-women. Even with my understanding, the girl I end up with will have to allow me to take the time to listen and understand her needs, her aspects of what makes her a woman, and she has to be able to understand what drives me, my needs and all that good shit that keep two people together. Honesty is not negotiable. Im reasonable but she has to be reasonable as well. I believe in second chances, but I am not a sucker by any means.

negatives sometimes come from the girl's personality....is she too self-centered? or too insecure? i ask my self when I am lucky enough to even consider entering another relationship (not common these days) if her path and my life can be compatible. If so, I will give it my 100%, if not, Id rather date and stay friends. I'm not an "admirer" or "tranny-chaser" but I do know what I want in my T-woman. Im willing to work to make things work if she can do the same. I will not sustain a one-sided effort for anyone....i could be a lot more cynical because I don't date frequently but if I was keeping score on my few encounters, the chances for success have been very limited. I believe in romance and its possibilities so I won't give up. Im just patient (or stupid..LOL).

Regarding the escort thing....well based on my limited experience, the person I dated was not honest about things. I never judge anyone but honesty would have to be proven before I would really give it serious thought if she escorted. Im not completely sure and am curious to see more opinions in the thread on that issue. I know in my heart I do not want her to do so, but people have free minds and decision making skills. Id rather make my actions the source for her decision to not do so .....because I know I engender that kind of support and I also know what it takes to maintain a decent lifestyle....so i would hope her decision was out of her caring and possible devotion.

thats my 0.02 for what its worth.....but I hope if you find the T-girl you want to give it a go, be serious about it and hope she will be for you as well...... bonne chance to all that give it a try!!

Any luck? Why not use this site as a dating site? Not harming anyone as long as you are single. Hope you find what you are looking for.

[hasslemind]

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I'm new here, but this topic really attracted me. I have nearly the same thoughts as everyone here. Being straight, makes it kind of confusing to think about a serious relationship with a tgirl. I don't know. I never had such experience, so I think you can't judge until you go through it. I don't know where the tgirls here are...sorry...I'm a newbie

[paul80]

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i dated a tgirlwhen i was overseas back in 1979,she was ok,she had her mood swings at times,but she was alright.she wanted to get married,but i couldn't do it,because i was in the military at the time,so we broke up. 8)

[KelliBlueEyes]

I'm new here, but this topic really attracted me. I have nearly the same thoughts as everyone here. Being straight, makes it kind of confusing to think about a serious relationship with a tgirl. I don't know. I never had such experience, so I think you can't judge until you go through it. I don't know where the tgirls here are...sorry...I'm a newbie

The guys I date usually consider themselves straight. I'm not into labels, but I have to say they probably have bi tendencies. Gay man never have been in to me.

[Locomotion]

Dating

I've been dating a trans girl for around 4 months now. It's just like dating a gg, with emotions, arguments, talking about shit, cuddling while watching Netflix ... and of course there's sex. Lots and lots of sex, which is better when you know and care for the person. It also helps greatly if you have no issues going places with her, not caring if you are seen in public with a trans girl. My gf is a beautiful, tall amazon goddess who definitely stands out in a crowd, causing guys to gawk at her. I just take it with a grain of salt, it's an honour to have her as my own personal arm candy while out in public lol

cheers

[Sean13]

Nice to hear

Hello Guys,

This is a very intersting topic and since its been covered i will like to add something.

From a very young age when i knew i was a woman i always dreamt of growing up and having a loving husband along with 2 beautiful kids. We would live in the suburb with a picket fence, i would drive my kids to school in an SUV... etc ( you get the pic). But it all changed as i grew up and saw the world. Things dont work out like that for girls like us. Everyone man that has played a role in my life has used me for a night. Period.

We girls live in daily society with respect and dignity. We go to a restuarant and we are greeted by "Ma'dam", we use the ladies powder room, our friends, co-workers use pronouns as in "she" "her" "woman" "girl". So what i am trying to say is that when the world accept us for being women then why can't one man accept us?. We want a man who isn't afaird to love in a woman in public. So what if your friends think shes a bit different, or shes too glam but the reality is when men can't give us that respect we deserve it forces girls to work in the porn industry and/or esscorting.

No girl grows up thinking she will be a porn star... its not psychology but more bc we are not fully respected as who we are. I, too, for that matter have always wanted a loving man... even today i fool myself at times thinking it will happen but looking at the community its very rare so what am i supposed to do ? die alone?

Anyways my whole point to this post is that--- Men if you want to date a ts girl, please give us that same respect and love as u would if we were gg's. They are some beautiful, passable, educated, family oriented ts girls here you just have to be brave enough and politely ask one of them out on a dinner date and get to know one another. Sometimes the old-fashioned dating rules can get you futher.

Love,

Samantha
ps. I am all that above and more, hehehehe.

Hi there.
I must say Samantha that it's so nice to hear from a ts girl that really appreciates love and to be treated like any other girl . Myself I have no worries about being with a ts girl and putting my heart into a relationship with one . Of course we would have to have things in common great chemistry and be willing to work together at enjoying all the great things in life together . This whole thing about being embarrassed to be with a ts girl in public or introducing her to family and friends is ridiculous as it's 2017 and we're all human nomatter how many people think there better than others . Those better people obviously have their own problems and big secrets I'm sure . Unfortunately I have not had the privilege to be in a relationship with a ts girl but I never give up hope . I have asked a few to go on dates but I think in some cases they wouldn't want that thinking it would interfere with their working life or I just wasn't their type, not sure . I am a fun loving easy going guy that loves life , loves to go out loves to take off for weekends , loves the sun and the day I find a girl that would be willing to enjoy these things and many more with me in public lol would probably be a start to a whole new life for both of us . Just the thought of this brings a smile to my face as I do believe that there's someone for everyone in this world . I honestly think that when a guy and a ts girl actually make things work in a relationship together they might even be stronger than a lot of other people in relationships as their pride to be with each other would be a strength in itself, if that makes any sense . I believe that everyone deserves love and that special person in their life so good luck to all of us and never stop believing in what's right and what we all deserve .
Lots of love to all ,
Sean xo