I'm Officially too old for some

[bluequad]

Well, it's been a while since I've posted but I just had a girl tell me she wasn't interested because I was too old. I had inquired about her services and told her my name, my age, my location etc. and she said she "doesn't go for older guys". Granted, she's new to the business down here in the States and relatively young compared to me (she's 25 I'm 55) but it kind of shocked me that I've become too old for some escorts. It's no big deal but most escorts prefer an older client because of their maturity and ability to pay. At least that's been my experience in the past. Oh well, stick with the ones that have no problem with older clients is what I'm telling myself.

[tsbanger]

Well, it's been a while since I've posted but I just had a girl tell me she wasn't interested because I was too old. I had inquired about her services and told her my name, my age, my location etc. and she said she "doesn't go for older guys". Granted, she's new to the business down here in the States and relatively young compared to me (she's 25 I'm 55) but it kind of shocked me that I've become too old for some escorts. It's no big deal but most escorts prefer an older client because of their maturity and ability to pay. At least that's been my experience in the past. Oh well, stick with the ones that have no problem with older clients is what I'm telling myself.

Sorry to hear that bluesquad. But the fact is we ALL get there i.e. "too old" !! Life goes on my friend.
Don't stress out about that provider.

[Shyla Wild]

Do what everyone does....Lie about your age.

[Rockheart]

So one person is stupid, no reason to take it hard.

Men in their 50's are some of the most desirable on earth.
They are experienced, handsome and confident and attract younger women.
Plus usually are more wealthy and better in the sack.

Just because some are snobby and close minded no reason take it bad.

Plenty of fish...

[tsbanger]

Do what everyone does....Lie about your age.

Lol..good one

[Goober1]

Men in their 50's are some of the most desirable on earth.

Don't forget about us guys in their 60's! I'm 62 and can make a Tgirl "wet" by just kissing and talking to her!!! LMAO See my last post in this thread:

https://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showt...dmonton-Review

[peacecountry]

Yeah, this is one of those "chalk it up to an escort not knowing" sort of things. I'm 57 and am often told by these ladies that guys of our generation are much more desirable to be with then some of the younger guys. Our experience makes us more relaxed and confident without being arrogant. We are usually in a position where our budgets allow us to book longer sessions and that is relaxing and enjoyable for both parties, I believe. Granted, there are some guys who have health issues and have some trouble performing but I don't think that is really an age thing either. Unless, of course, we are talking about a guy in his 90's that can't really do anything, lol. An escort I was with the other night told me a funny story about a scenario like that. Anyway, I would say she loses out on a potentially good client in this case and I'm sure there are many other beauties out there who will be happy to take a nice donation from us 50+ gents.

[justvisiting2016]

Do what everyone does....Lie about your age.

Not easy to hide that especially for men!.. I am in my 40s and if I said I was 32 it would be pretty clear I was full of shit.

People say to one another all the time "YOu look ten years younger" (especially men saying this to women)... it's compliments... we all can pretty much figure out that the 40 year old woman who says she is 27 is not on the level. We just appreciate someone looking so great as they journey through life.

Very very few quality trans escorts will block a guy over age.. I only had it happen once, and who cares. Not everyone is going to be a match.

[toban]

My mother told me it was not nice to lie - buuuuut

Well, it's been a while since I've posted but I just had a girl tell me she wasn't interested because I was too old. I had inquired about her services and told her my name, my age, my location etc. and she said she "doesn't go for older guys". Granted, she's new to the business down here in the States and relatively young compared to me (she's 25 I'm 55) but it kind of shocked me that I've become too old for some escorts. It's no big deal but most escorts prefer an older client because of their maturity and ability to pay. At least that's been my experience in the past. Oh well, stick with the ones that have no problem with older clients is what I'm telling myself.

I will wager that you, Bluequad, still have many years of TSfun left to enjoy. As I began my own adventures here 12-13 yrs. ago I was already in my mid 70’s, so about 20 years older than you currently are and God only knows how many encounters I've enjoyed since.

In replying to a TS ad I’ve seldom ever advised girls of my age and never had any refuse to proceed on meeting, because of that. I suppose, for the girl, at the point where once we are standing eye to eye, it would be unproductive for her to turn around and leave, forgoing the anticipated payment. The way I looked at entering these situations then, and even now, was that, if age is not specified in the ads it becomes simply a business transaction where she has agreed to spend time with and perform certain services for me, her client.

Just a couple of years ago, and for the first time ever, I did inquire of a highly touted local girl by phone, that since I was older whether that would matter to her. She told me right off that she would not see me. It may be then, that your honesty has been the major problem you have in arranging those TS encounters!

Considering the personal experience I have just related, and Shyla’s recommendation up above - it may well be that for those of us youngish “older“ men, flat-out lying is the most expeditious way for us to get around this problem !

[chrisim]

J

I'm going to sound like a broken record here but I need to shine a light on Samarah again. I've been with many girls and had many great experiences, but Samarah is the only one I know who advertises her attraction to older men and genuinely gets turned on because of a guys older status. She has always provided me with a great time and lifted my spirits to the point that I feel enjoyment about being older.

She lives in Vancouver but appears to be traveling throughout Canada right now.

https://www.shemalecanada.com/escort/samarah.samarah/

[bluequad]

I'm not taking it hard or bummed out at all. I just was a little shocked by hearing it lol. Kind of like the time when I was in my mid 40's. I was at a bar and this young girl (GG) came up to me and struck up a conversation. She was smokin hot and out of my league during my best years! Things were going well and I couldn't help but think...Hey, I still got it! Then all of a sudden, I came crashing back to earth when she said...Did you go to school with my Dad? Followed by...Would you watch my purse while I go dance with my friends? Crashed and Burned!!!!

Anyway, I know there are a lot of girls that prefer older clients and every one that I've been with have been very exciting and accommodating.

Toban..to respond to your comment about not telling them your age when calling, I always do for this reason. If I don't I risk booking someone like who I contacted and was turned down but now we would be together. If she stays, I'm probably getting sub par service. If she leaves, I'm at square one and calling someone else. It's just my preference to tell a girl how old I am.

Shyla..I lie to the girls when I call enough as it is. I'm handsome as hell, I have 6 pack abs and a 10" cock, I'm independently wealthy, I pay with Gold bullion, I shoot a quart every time, I hit the ceiling with it every time and I speak 37 languages. HEHEHE

[justvisiting2016]

I think a lot of younger women are comfortable with age differences. I go out often in my downtown core and am very comfortable approaching and talking to women so I get a good sense of what my boundaries are. In the last few years I have had a great mix of dates with women from their 20s to their 40s and 50s... Yes, a lot of girls will ignore you for age which is easily picked up in about 10 seconds... it is what it is... there are however, plenty that will be open to enjoying you if you really want to spend time with women younger than yourself. It's all about attitude and positive energy and more and more young women are tapping into that and not so hung up on your looks or bodies. I seem to have had the best success in that 23-30 type range as a lot of the women over 40 found me wanting to go out too much so I attracted a more younger type of woman. I think it is all relative and how you approach it

Escorting is a different ball of wax because you are paying so almost all of them will accept you. I only go to escorts for TS and I only got turned down once for being over 40.

The moral of the story is, there are plenty of great people out there that will accept you. It just means putting yourself out there, and willing to take "no" without being bummed out and letting it affect your view of everyone else. We will all get no's in the real world regardless of what we look like. I see hot men in their 20s that look like magazine covers getting No's because of their attitude or approach. They find the women that like that , however, not all do and they face rejection just like us middle aged men do. Heck,ask the next trans escort you see what she thinks of the young hot men who try to acquire her time... it isn't always a positive answer

And don't be someone you are not (a great failing of men in the single world is consistently over selling themselves or misrepresentation.. it is comical over hearing guys chatting up girls and going on and on.. I know bluesquad was making light of that in his comment to Shyla... however, guys do on like that way too much... hah.. I have a couple of friends who are dancers at the local strip club and the number of guys who go on about their wealth then have their ATM card decline when getting cash for more lap dances is fun to hear)...

.My approach..... I look what I look like, I have the penis I do, I am the age I am, and the weight I am.. and I have the money I have..... just be yourself and if you put yourself out there in a pleasant and confident way, you will get an overwhelming amount of Yes' and very few No's with such an approach. I have been surprised at the Yes's countless times and that has brought a lot of joy!

[Nyles]

Someone mentioned that if you are older and have performance problems the lady might not like that - one could argue they like non performers as it is less wear and tear on them?

What do you all think?

[toban]

My post above was an attempt to reassure all, that despite the wreckage that may be brought by age upon us males, as long as we care to enjoy the pleasures afforded by continued companionship with these lovely young ladies, and provided we remain respectful of them, then there will still always be plenty of on-going opportunities for such self-indulgence provided we search for them! Just never give up!!

[toban]

I believe you are spot on!

Someone mentioned that if you are older and have performance problems the lady might not like that - one could argue they like non performers as it is less wear and tear on them?

What do you all think?

You are spot on. Perhaps not every T-girl will feel this way but I have been told in the past by GG escorts that such calls are ?easy?!

I can?t see why it wouldn't be any different for TS escorts.