Men who are attracted to shemales...

[Foxy Basket]

Option #5

#5 - None of the above. I don't want to generalize here, but none of these actually explains one's attraction to tgirls.

#1 - They're definitely not closeted gay men; I'm not a man, and closeted gay men will secretly visit male escorts, not tgirls.

#2 - I definitely don't think that these guys are bisexual; if that were true, they would have an equal attraction to both men and women.

#3 - I don't think that these men are addicted to porn, either - I think that it's just much easier to find tgirl porn than it is to find a real tgirl. There's tons of porn online, and not that many of us in real life. It becomes an obsession only when it can't be quenched by genuine companionship.

#4 - The attraction to the penis is anything but narcissistic; narcissism is an obsession with one's own self, not someone else's body part.


My opinion? Men who like tgirls are straight guys who like girls with a specific physical characteristic. I've said it a million times before, but it's no more significant than liking a specific hair colour, or body shape, or tit size; it's a part of us that they like, but it's not the only part. Men don't watch tgirl porn just for the cock; they watch it for the girl that the cock is attached to.

I think we spend too much time trying to explain and categorize our pleasures. I'd rather spend my time enjoying them instead.

[cobbler]

Thank you Nikki. Once again you have accurately stated what I happened to be thinking. Too much navel gazing seems to be going on around here. Why do people feel the need to rationalize their thoughts? Just accept it and enjoy. If you aren't injuring other people what does it matter what it is that attracts you to tgirls? People don't wonder about their inner drive to appreciate a sunset, they just do. I refuse to be pigeon-holed thank you very much.

[kristopin]

no categories

labels again.

quite frankly none of the choices came even close to describing my interest. i think it was a curiosity at first that let me realize a reality of my sexuality that i didnt know or acknowledge existed.

i think Nikki understand the truth here.

[Foxy Basket]

Another point

I'm curious why it's always about the man's attraction to the tgirl, as if those are the only people who find us attractive. What about other people that are into tgirls, people who aren't men?

I know quite a few women who are attracted to me - my girlfriend first and foremost - and nobody's trying to pathologize them, and figure out why. Some of them are lesbians, some are straight, others are bi - but nobody asks, "why are these women attracted to tgirls?" For the most part, nobody cares.

What about people like Rebecca and myself? Tgirls who also like other tgirls? When I find another tgirl attractive - I'm crazy over Adrina, and she's my best friend in the scene - why doesn't anyone try to pathologize that? Again, it's because nobody cares.

Most people are willing to accept that both straights and gays simply are who they are - they like who they like, and we don't really wonder why. But there's this constant obsession by guys who like tgirls to "explain" their sexuality. Nobody else has to explain themselves; why do you?

Just be.

[kristopin]

self acceptance

I'm curious why it's always about the man's attraction to the tgirl, as if those are the only people who find us attractive. What about other people that are into tgirls?

I know quite a few women who are attracted to me - my girlfriend first and foremost - and nobody's trying to pathologize them, and figure out why. Some of them are lesbians, some are straight, others are bi - but nobody asks, "why are these women attracted to tgirls?" For the most part, nobody cares.

What about when I find one of my other tgirl friends attractive? I'm crazy over Adrina, and I consider her my best friend in the scene - if she was interested in girls, I'd be all over her; how do you pathologize that? Again, nobody cares.

Most people are willing to accept that both straights and gays simply are who they are - they like who they like, and we don't really wonder why. But there's this constant obsession by guys who like tgirls to "explain" their sexuality. Nobody else has to explain themselves; why do you?

Just be.

i think it is part of the acceptance of self and transition.

[vangogh]

Interesting!

#3 applies more to the way I feel, just can't get enough sex!
I think though had I a regular GG partner who was also compatible
on other aspects would make the thirst temporarily go away.

[Foreskinned]

It all started for me with Internet. The availability of porn and ease of finding anything you could possibly think of out here. It (internet porn) literally desensitized me to sex. It had an effect on my sexual tastes and the more I looked at it the more it took to get excited over it all. I finallly weaned myself off of it all.

One day I seen an Eye NEwspaper laying around on the subway seats and started reading it. There were ads in Toronto for transexuals, I later that night surfed for hte topic and became obsessed with it. Next thing I started to phone the numbers in the papers and some of these TS's had voices and approaches that literally reached inside my psyche. I got curiouser by the call and internet porn. I eventually booked my first hook up.

I was so fucking scared. I had so much to lose if ever caught up in it all, but I couldn't pull myself away from doing it. The excitment of doing all this was fueling me. I walked up to he address, knocked on the door not knowing what to expect whatsoever. I was scared. I heard her come to the door, the outside light come on the curtain pull across the window in the door but couldn't quite see her. The door was unlocked, the outside light turned off and it was pulled open. As I walked into the living room entrance there she stood completely naked, beautifully put together head to toe, with a nice flacid long 7" min. uncut penis and large balls, completely smooth. Large breasts and big bubble butt.

I lost my breath and started to breath shallow with fear. I was standing in a living room with a real live living breathing large cocked transexual. I paid and she said to follow her. I walked behind her looking at her form. She walked feminine. We entered a dimly lit bedroom and I was visibly shaking with anticipation. She asked if this was my first time, I replied yes. She asked me to get undressed and join her on the bed. I couldn't stop shaking ever so slightly with anticpation that this was really going to happen. I approached the bed, she spread herself open on it. I grabbed for the first time in my life a penis other than my own into my hand, it was flacid but thick. NO kiss and tell here ----> I showered, got dressed and exitted the rear sliding glass door. I slowly walked to my car I had parked two street blocks away. I got in and sat there thinking of everything that had happened and how it all felt to me. I did not consider myself gay, or bisexual strangely enough and just felt I had fulfilled a fantasy and explore a little of my sexuality.

I really don't know why I needed to do what I did. I have no answers. I have visited other TS's and all have been positive except one. I enjoy sex with women regularly. I am one day hoping to introduce one of my female sexual partners to this part of my life. I just got to work up the courage to do it with the right one. I have come close recently ...

[berryballs]

i'm #3 for sure

[O'C]

I think men who are attracted to T-Girls have good taste.

#5 for me also!



O'C

[Carl Spackler]

I've been kidding myself all along and can't hide the truth any longer...

I'm #1.

[JianGTR]

Everyone has a different reason why they are attracted to a transgender or anything else. You just can't say 1-2-3-4, you fall into one of the four categories. Whats next segregation.... come on. Are we not past this. People need to be a little bit more open minded about sexuality.

[sadeh]

gender bender

maybe you should call your self dr. classification.....lol

liberated men, don't fit into a category,
they know what they like, and at the end of the day he is still the same guy.....

Men who are attracted to shemales all fit into one of four catagories:

1. Closeted gay men who need the tits and ass so they don’t freak out about the dick.

2. Bisexual men who can get both needs met at the same time.

3. Porn-addicted straight men who need to keep crossing new boundaries to get aroused.

4. Straight guys who nonetheless have a narcissistic attraction to the penis.

[kristopin]

mmm i like liberated

maybe you should call your self dr. classification.....lol

liberated men, don't fit into a category,
they know what they like, and at the end of the day he is still the same guy.....

wow i like the idea of being 'liberated' thanks marlena, now i can only hope others might think me liberated.

[capitus]

#5 - None of the above. I don't want to generalize here, but none of these actually explains one's attraction to tgirls.

#3 - I don't think that these men are addicted to porn, either - I think that it's just much easier to find tgirl porn than it is to find a real tgirl. There's tons of porn online, and not that many of us in real life. It becomes an obsession only when it can't be quenched by genuine companionship.

I'm probably #5 who also happens to be a #3....I'm not into Tgirls because I'm a #3 but rather I'm into Tgirls and addicted to porn.

Most classification systems that I've seen tend to be clear cut black/white when real life situations are only shades of grey. But that's OK as long as it's for fun.

[truck]

Men who are attracted to shemales all fit into one of four catagories:



3. Porn-addicted straight men who need to keep crossing new boundaries to get aroused.

thats me