OK this is gonna' sound so screwed up but I am just interested.

[JamieGirl]

For all you guys, what really turns you on about Tgirls? Is it the femininity that so many cis women are trying to shed themselves of while trans women totally love it? Is it what we have between our legs? I mean there is nothing wrong with that at all. I will not question what about me attracts a guy.

So what about us turns you on? If you guys tell me what turns you on then I will tell you what turns me on too.

[Jim S]

For all you guys, what really turns you on about Tgirls? Is it the femininity that so many cis women are trying to shed themselves of while trans women totally love it? Is it what we have between our legs? I mean there is nothing wrong with that at all. I will not question what about me attracts a guy.

So what about us turns you on? If you guys tell me what turns you on then I will tell you what turns me on too.

I beauty is beauty regardless of what's between a person's legs. Great question though, I look forward to reading everyone's answers.

[bottomguyusually]

Anything rubbing my prostate

[Nyles]

Wondered about that myself.... wonder if there have been any scientific studies... should be an intersting thread.

[F100]

For me it is the total feminitity the Tgirls emit.

[brualex336]

For me it the femininity plus whats between the legs.

[Ray]

Brualex explained it very well.

[toban]

Attraction to Tgirls is not exclusively based upon their femininity.

For all you guys, what really turns you on about Tgirls? Is it the femininity that so many cis women are trying to shed themselves of while trans women totally love it? Is it what we have between our legs? I mean there is nothing wrong with that at all. I will not question what about me attracts a guy.

So what about us turns you on? If you guys tell me what turns you on then I will tell you what turns me on too.

I feel that the attraction to Tgirls by men, myself included, is generally dependent upon the superimposition of the male genitalia upon the apparent femininity of the Tgirl which is exactly as Brualex has noted above! Without the benefit of that special delight between her legs, no matter how exquisitely feminine any Tgirl may be, she would become just ?one of the girls?. Right?

[JamieGirl]

Thanks for the replies guys.

Thank you guys. As a trans woman, I love guys.

So mostly it is about the femininity it seems? I would love to hear from everyone.

That is OK Brualex and Ray. I can be a total transbian but a lot of times pussy just stinks. I have had girlfriends in the past and a lot were taught that nature cleaned them out? Maybe so but it will still stink to me and God gave us the sense for someone to invent douches.Also OMG "Mama" seemed to teach a lot of girls to shave just past the knee. Yuck. That is so disgusting wanting to feel total skin up a girl's leg and then feeling the fuzz on her thighs. What hair she has between her legs and how it is shaped is like Christmas morning. But we will shape it or shave it to however you like it though. If we trust you enough we will let you do it even. But for the record I would rather have no hair down there. But I would for the right boyfriend and what he liked though. I have done it before but to a certain extent. If you want a "jungle" then so sorry. That feels way too unclean for me.

Without writing a book I am totally attracted to masculinity. Not the biggest muscles or the tightest haircut or the most tats and so on. To me it is all about the way you treat me. I am a woman. I am not a guy. So if we argue there is no way that I can even fight you physically. Growing up I was a sissy. Most people thought I was gay but I wasn't. I was a straight Trans girl. I did not go to my prom but went to my boyfriend's from another school. Big hair, the makeup, the heels and big earrings. No one at his school knew. At mine I would have had to go in a tux and be a guy. Yeah right.

I mean I would go out with a trans man if he were masculine and treated me like a princess or queen.

I mean I clean myself everyday. I have some really nice panties. I also clean my self really really good before having sex. So good that I will give you oral after you build up again and just wipe you off. I really don't even have to do that even but would prefer to. So there is no excuse for a woman having a stink to her vagina.

So please keep the answers coming, or cumming.

[dan_calgary]

this is a great topic if I may say

Where to start ?

Married 15 years, when i first met her, everything was great as it is for any relationship, she dressed well, took care of herself, looked great, did the little things,
Well, did things change 10 years down the road, didn't care how she looked, never wore makeup, never did her nails, didn't even own one pair of high heels, none of her clothes matched, there was nothing FEMININE about her, it felt like I was married to someone, but it wasn't a girl let alone a person, and YES i did mention to her, of course after we divorce, well now she does her self up, wears makeup, etc etc etc etc, looks great, i'm like where was this when we were married.

So I guess it is the femininity and how so many t-girls can pull it off, incredibly well, I remember seeing a t-girl (won't say name) and I remember being in her bathroom after the session washing up, her counter was completely full, of every feminine product you could imagine, bases, lipstick, makeup, nail polish, hair products, etc etc etc,
and I realized how HARD they work to look as good as they do, and YES I find that SEXY and a turn on, that they want to be that good, they want to be the best.

Now I'm no dummy, yes I love the difference between the legs, especially all shaved, so sexy and hot (I have no interest in a guy, never have)

Now I dated a few girls (GG) (very pretty) after my divorce, (I'm 40ish) well, lets just say, their interest was having a baby (their clock was ticking) and moving in,
and i'm like NOPE, not for me,

So t-girls it is, til the day I die,

and what's wrong with that ? Nothing

just my $0.02

[Shyla Wild]

wrap your minds around this.....

If you look at the question, and dig deeper into attraction the answers might be surprising. What makes a man attracted to a woman? What makes a man attracted to men? Attraction is predetermined in your psyche pretty much at birth. Just like being gay, lesbian, straight or Bi. So, would this not mean that you have been attracted to a trans your whole life just didn't know it?

This is is a standard nature vs nurture argument. Did your attraction start during development or did the input of society and your choices lead you here? Was it visual images that led you here? Or maybe those same images just triggered something deeper that has always been there? I believe certain types of people attract us. Not men...not women...not trans...people. The human mind does not know about same sex, opposite sex or trans during development but it is already aware of what it is going to like. We as people complicate things with labels.

Why do we enjoy certain things more than others? Why do certain activities trigger pleasure in the brain...some people love to paint but are horrible at it but they still enjoy it. Chemical imbalance? Mental disorder? What makes the brain push out pleasure during some things and make you hate others? Many people are not good and stuff and give up. That I understand. But what makes a person that has no talent at something to hone their craft with hours of practice and commitment? Why do some people like certain things and other hate them?

So to summarize, a predetermine disposition in your brain at birth causes attraction to things you cannot explain....making you...you!

Enjoy being you

[JamieGirl]

this is a great topic if I may say

Where to start ?

Married 15 years, when i first met her, everything was great as it is for any relationship, she dressed well, took care of herself, looked great, did the little things,
Well, did things change 10 years down the road, didn't care how she looked, never wore makeup, never did her nails, didn't even own one pair of high heels, none of her clothes matched, there was nothing FEMININE about her, it felt like I was married to someone, but it wasn't a girl let alone a person, and YES i did mention to her, of course after we divorce, well now she does her self up, wears makeup, etc etc etc etc, looks great, i'm like where was this when we were married.

So I guess it is the femininity and how so many t-girls can pull it off, incredibly well, I remember seeing a t-girl (won't say name) and I remember being in her bathroom after the session washing up, her counter was completely full, of every feminine product you could imagine, bases, lipstick, makeup, nail polish, hair products, etc etc etc,
and I realized how HARD they work to look as good as they do, and YES I find that SEXY and a turn on, that they want to be that good, they want to be the best.

Now I'm no dummy, yes I love the difference between the legs, especially all shaved, so sexy and hot (I have no interest in a guy, never have)

Now I dated a few girls (GG) (very pretty) after my divorce, (I'm 40ish) well, lets just say, their interest was having a baby (their clock was ticking) and moving in,
and i'm like NOPE, not for me,

So t-girls it is, til the day I die,

and what's wrong with that ? Nothing

just my $0.02

Baby Your 2 cents is way more meaningful than two million dollars.

LOL no matter how pretty our pussies are with SRS, we will never get pregnant.

Look. My ex moved in with me. I live in the Swamp more or less and the hunting is good, the fishing is good. I do neither because I don't have the heart to clean them. He did and I cooked the hell out of the meat. Deer, squirrel, rabbit and even fish.

LOL yeah your ex dresses good now because she need or want another man. Actually I will not dress for a guy but rather for myself because it makes me feel good. It makes me feel real. I hate the way women treat their men after they think they have them. I am so sorry Dan.

This is the way a lot if not most trans women feel. We don't shave our legs because of a guy. It feels sooooo clean. It feels so good too. We love our hair and cherish it. I mean I have a pageboy bob now due to one of the clubs that I own and manage and work in but I cried when I got it cut. Think Louise Brooks in the '20s. Now that is my hair. It is short but so feminine that you just have to hug me and kiss the back of my neck. Just after I had so many men customers want to feel the back of my neck. I am the manager even and our head bartender has a Mohawk and they don't do that to her. It seems to drive the guys crazy almost. Especially with the baby bangs.

There is nothing wrong with being attracted to Trans Women. I will say this even: Thank God for guys like you. All of Ya'll really.

You really don't know what you guys mean to us do you? I truly see us as straight women and the men that like us as straight guys. Ya'll are really special to me and other trans women.

Thank you.

[JamieGirl]

Yes but what is the attraction of men to MTFs?

If you look at the question, and dig deeper into attraction the answers might be surprising. What makes a man attracted to a woman? What makes a man attracted to men? Attraction is predetermined in your psyche pretty much at birth. Just like being gay, lesbian, straight or Bi. So, would this not mean that you have been attracted to a trans your whole life just didn't know it?

This is is a standard nature vs nurture argument. Did your attraction start during development or did the input of society and your choices lead you here? Was it visual images that led you here? Or maybe those same images just triggered something deeper that has always been there? I believe certain types of people attract us. Not men...not women...not trans...people. The human mind does not know about same sex, opposite sex or trans during development but it is already aware of what it is going to like. We as people complicate things with labels.

Why do we enjoy certain things more than others? Why do certain activities trigger pleasure in the brain...some people love to paint but are horrible at it but they still enjoy it. Chemical imbalance? Mental disorder? What makes the brain push out pleasure during some things and make you hate others? Many people are not good and stuff and give up. That I understand. But what makes a person that has no talent at something to hone their craft with hours of practice and commitment? Why do some people like certain things and other hate them?

So to summarize, a predetermine disposition in your brain at birth causes attraction to things you cannot explain....making you...you!

Enjoy being you

Yes what is the attraction factor though? I can't explain it and that is why I asked the question. Is it the identity of femininity? Is it that same femininity mixed with the addition of genitalia? Is it an air of not feeling so guilty if you are attracted to the genitalia but attached to a feminine individual?

The whole of the question is what turns you on. I know what turns me on. Masculinity full on regardless of the genitalia.

I mean I love cock. I love taking it so deep in my mouth that I gag and then grab my hair and pull me closer to the point of throwing up. Tickle my tonsils for sure. Then explode all over my face and or in my mouth. I will swallow every drop. Give my your "pearl necklace" and I will lick it all up like a kitten with spilled milk. But that is sexual. I love cock and I love cum. I love the taste and feel of it. But. I also love to have doors opened for me, chairs pulled out for me, jewelry, shoes, clothes, wearing makeup, shaving my legs and underarms, fixing my hair and so on.

So the first part is what turns me on and gets me hot. The second is deeper and more about identity than sexuality. Both are equally important and you are right in that is who I am. I am not gay though even though I have a penis. Hell women laughed at me all the time.

So yes if you are attracted to trans you have probably been attracted to trans all your life but why. Is it the femininity or the genitalia? Does it really matter even? Do you see yourself as gay or straight and so on? It can go deeper though. You can go into social conditioning and more.

Not to get all Jungian and Freudian Psychological on anyone but you do know who you are and what you like on a really deep level, you just have to face it. dan_calgary explained it pretty well as to why. I think everyone of the guys have explained it pretty well.

I really can't explain how a guy feels toward attraction to someone because I am not a guy. All I can say is that I am attracted to masculinity. As a trans woman the only thing I can say about my attraction to masculinity is that I feel that my partners' identity and my own make us complete. That our identities compliment one another and make us a whole.

And Shyla. That whole first part is irrelevant to the question. Well not really but... It is still there. What about trans women attracts guys to trans women. If they were gay then they would be attracted to other guys. I have gay friends that are in no way attracted to me because I am trans. I have straight friends that tell me too bad that I have a dick because they are so attracted to my looks. Thank god I have good friends though because we all go out then I usually end up getting drunk because of the drinks that are bought for me Usually from straight cis guys but also L's and G's too depending on the club.

The last part, I can definitely explain about me and why. I know what I like and everyone else should too. So yes what you find attractive is explainable. Why you find it attractive may be a little harder to explain. But I made the question easy as to what you find about trans women attractive. So is it the femininity, the genitalia, the combination of both or just the genitalia without a feeling of guilt because the person was more feminine than masculine. There is really no right or wrong answer. I am just interested in what guys think.

[ladyboylover69er]

Our PRECIOUS Tgirls

I absolutely adore tladies. I love your femininity and the way you embrace it. I love the way you love being appreciated. Appreciation of tgirls aquires a high level of sophistication and sexual maturity. I love flirting with, spoiling, pampering and making my lady feel like a princess. I love seeing those sexy,beautiful, clean shaven cocks become aroused. When you are treated right you make your man feel like a king. Tladies I have met are always intelligent, beautiful and sensitive. During lovemaking you are always considerate and usually put your partners please first. I love reciprocating, which tgirls always greatly appreciate. My greatest regret is not getting involved sooner and all the missed opportunities I am not even aware of. Thanks to all the gorgeous, beautiful gurls for making the world such an amazing interesting place. PS Sissys are adorable. Would have loved to take you to a prom. I love the scene in Hangover 2 where the guy finds out he was serviced by the lovely Jasmine Lee. He should of felt priviledged. Generally speaking you ladies are just SUPER.

[Hockeydude89]

For me it the femininity plus whats between the legs.

Gonna have to agree with that one.