Here's some science behind your attraction to T-Girls.

[Anji]

This may be long but...

We are living in strange times. We don't need the male aspects to hunt for us. I can go to the nearest grocery store and buy all the protein I need, I can go to the store and buy all the roughage or the nurturing of farming that I need. Humankind does not need hunters and gatherers anymore. We may have weapons in our homes for self protection but we also have laws and law enforcement to protect our families too. A mother bear is fierce protecting her cubs but a father bear will kill them. Same with hippos and so on. Men used to be hunters and warriors and women used to be gatherers and nurturers.

We also don't need procreation anymore for the most part.

With that said. What do most women have to offer men now? Sex? Yeah that is always good and fun. But that don't last that long though. at the most an hour or two. Romance? Hm some cis women are so reliant on themselves that some even get pissed off and or offended when a man opens a door for her or pulls her chair out for her. Oh cis women still like to hold hand or entwine the arm of their man walking down the street but who leads who? I let my man lead me. My arm is behind his. When holding hands his hand is over mine. When walking down the street he is closer to traffic. I let him. This is subconscious.

I really disagree with them and really need to look them up on you tube. That would be the whole ideal of ovaries and testes but less and less couples are having children either because of the way things go and the population of the world or outside influences.

I know a little about psychology. This is just my opinion. It is deeper than sex. It is about gender and gender roles. Yes some guys seem to like big cocks. Well I really lack in that department. I have never had a problem finding a date. Is it because of Guilt? maybe? Is it when a woman has a smaller penis then they feel better about themselves? possibly? Maybe even. Is it that when I wear high heel I can look them eye to eye when the are 6 feet tall even? Maybe. Is it that I totally embrace femininity and compliment his male ego? Maybe.

Male and female are becoming irrelevant. We are pretty much equal now. They talk about the pay? Really? Let them be a trans woman and see how many jobs they are passed over for so I will dispute the pay thing. A woman does the same job I do then she gets paid the same amount. If I strip for a living then I make less than a genetic female unless it is a trans club. I have had women bosses that made more than the men bosses but they were pretty too.

This is my observations. Regardless of what the people in the video said. When it comes to porn then yeah some guys like to see a big one on a girl with big boobs. When it comes to real life, then it is a totally different story.

Men need women and women need men. Not anything physically but more psychologically and personality wise. Leaving porn out of the equation, masculinity needs femininity to create a balance and femininity needs masculinity to create a balance. Femininity and masculinity compliment each other and make two halves a whole. Today, women are shedding themselves of their femininity. They don't need men. Hell some of them make more money and have better jobs than men. Personally I believe men need a partner that is feminine. I believe they long for a partner that is feminine. I believe that men still have the hunger to be providers or the hunters and protectors and need a partner that is a nurturer and provide a comfortable home. Not barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen but someone that appreciates then for their masculinity. What man wants to hear from his woman, " I made more money than you this week, month or year." What man wants to be berated by his woman? What man wants to be nagged after working all week by his woman? I will tell you this right now. I work form home and have heat and AC. I work appx 9 hours a day and if my boyfriend worked 12 hours a day that is three hours that gives me time to cook for him and do the dishes. Maybe hamburger helper or whatever and he can cook me something on the grill over the weekend or I may cook him something. 3x7 is 21, so he may work 21 hours more per day than me so I the least I can do is give him a clean house to come home to. I am always ready for romance unless I don't feel well so... Whatever he wants whenever he wants it. Really? What do I have to do. Suck a lollipop? That takes ten or 20 minutes. I love it but more importantly he deserves it and I do too. It will relieve his stress and make me feel really good.

But seriously when so many women are trying to be equal to men and we are. All women are. But we as trans women are embracing femininity when so many cis women are shedding themselves of theirs and trying to be equal to their men, where else do men have to go. Oh yeah the hair, the clothes the jewelry don't mean shit when they order first, want to drive, insist on choosing what they only want, berate their men and so on.

OK so a little confession I won one business and part owner of two others and manage one of those. I make more than most men interested in me do. That is not the problem. The problem would be my attitude. I am a trans woman and even though I may make more than my man, I would never throw that in face. I don't have to do shit if I didn't want too. But for my man I would cook for him, clean the house either mine or his, and wash the dishes. He works hard and even if I had to also then we could split it up. I would still ensure that he felt like a man though.

Look, femininity needs masculinity and masculinity needs femininity to make two halves a whole. Porn is porn and that is fantasy, real life needs a balance. I mean seriously. Guys compare themselves to other guys all the time. When I was in school and people had hanging dicks I got made fun of in gym class. When I got boobs then I got offered money to feel me up. I had to be moved from gym class to study hall. I then had to move schools. Then since the admin knew what I was then I could not take gym class.

You asked for thoughts and these are just some of mine and what I have lived through. Personally I think these two are just....HMMMM.... I would really like to see their "pedigrees" though.

Firstly great video, thanks for sharing M. Secondly, JamieGirl, i agree with some things you said but trust me, us women (cis or trans) don't have it equal, and we push that much harder to get to an equal state. Gender inequality is largely a behind-the-scenes issue. Statistics say wage equality is actually getting to the equal state. We're only off by 6% when comparing exactly the same position/careers. But many careers have male-dominated leadership positions especially baby boomer men in upper management/partner positons who want things to stay that way. Many companies are still promoting just enough women to upper management positions to reach status quo. Big corporations are hiring just enough trans people in their forefront operations to say they are a trans-friendly company but are totally against renovating washrooms to become genderneutral. Businesses aim to hit the status quo for equality. Inequality hides behind the PR. Real inequality is male managers taking female associates ideas less seriously because we are women or because we're showing cleavage and that's where their focus is. Or how our husbands expect us to take a longer maternity leaves because their jobs are "more important" than ours. Or how female corporate women have to control their attire/looks to be taken seriously by men. There are times where we're forced to shed femininity and act/look like men to be taken seriously by men but trust me, us women want to embrace our femininity in workplaces too.

I agree with what you are saying that being feminine is letting the man take the lead, the subtle things like man's hand over a woman's or how a man should approach/ask a woman out. Men want to have women who make them feel more masculine for sure. But also a huge young population of men want to be power couples. In the relationships they want a soft woman, but in our careers, they want a powerful woman, so let's not confuse our career ambition with our personal lives because many of us women are good at managing both sides.

Also what's wrong with both people taking their time out of their busy days to cook and clean for each other. Both sexes taking turns driving or ordering first. Both sexes taking time to look good for each other. Sounds pretty utopian, no? Since when did women have to do these tasks alone and also be soft women & yet a powerful woman too.

Back to the main topic though, i think it's safe to say trans-popularity has risen a lot due to the internet. I mean most men first get exposure to transwomen through the internet and the transwomen are usually a sort of sex worker or else are models. I mean seriously how many men here even know transwomen who aren't some type of sex workers... I dont think men like transwomen because cis-women are getting too masculine, i definitely think there's a big sex-driven influence/correlation here. Anyways don't know enough about biology or about their data they based their research off of to agree or disagree with the video, i just wanted to talk about women's equality still not being fully there and how it sometimes seems like men still have a problem with women taking dominant social roles in their careers.


Happy international women's day everyone. Respect your women.

[Dreck]

Anje

Great post.

There are a lot of other ways besides gender where there is inequality and but its not politically correct to talk about it. People do better in the workplace and in life if they are taller and attractive. Its odd no one talks about this. There is a lot of inequality in situations of divorce against men and hopefully this can be improved as social dynamics change.

Hope to see your profile someday again on SC?..

[dan_calgary]

I liked t-girls when I was very young 15, and 30 years later I still like them

So the science says, I like t-girls

just my $0.02

[Jmatthew]

I can't see the link or video in the original post so have no idea what their theory is.

As far as women being equal to men I doubt a reasonable man cares that a woman co worker makes equal pay for an equal job. Most places don't disclose pay anymore unless the pay is the same for everyone so it is usually a nonissue. It has more to do with the woman not seeking the same jobs as men. I've worked in three states and three large corporations where pay was dependent on time in the position. Everyone starts at the bottom. I applied to all three of these jobs with groups of 300-400 people. Guess how many women I saw applying. A big fat 0. The jobs don't require physical strength but they do require a mechanical aptitude and the willingness to work in the cold or heat, sweating or freezing your ass off, back hurting, etc. these jobs are good paying union jobs. A lot of them are solo so there is no requirement for the women to put up with men's attitudes. Don't ask me why women don't apply to them because I know for a fact that woman are capable of being superior mechanics, electricians, welders, etc.

Any difference in pay numbers is do to the positions that the two sexes seek out IMHO just based off my observations in the actual act of applying to jobs where massive amounts of people are employed. Although I acknowledge that there are cases where a bias boss treats a female employee poorly. Both sexes have full legal protection of their rights. Although I aknowledge that there could easily be a bias police officer or judge that infringes on a woman's liberties. Jamie girl is closer to being accurate. Men and women should complement each other in a relationship. It does harm to make men and women equal emotionally and sexually, or to conflate their roles in a relationship.

[Anji]

I can't see the link or video in the original post so have no idea what their theory is.

As far as women being equal to men I doubt a reasonable man cares that a woman co worker makes equal pay for an equal job. Most places don't disclose pay anymore unless the pay is the same for everyone so it is usually a nonissue. It has more to do with the woman not seeking the same jobs as men. I've worked in three states and three large corporations where pay was dependent on time in the position. Everyone starts at the bottom. I applied to all three of these jobs with groups of 300-400 people. Guess how many women I saw applying. A big fat 0. The jobs don't require physical strength but they do require a mechanical aptitude and the willingness to work in the cold or heat, sweating or freezing your ass off, back hurting, etc. these jobs are good paying union jobs. A lot of them are solo so there is no requirement for the women to put up with men's attitudes. Don't ask me why women don't apply to them because I know for a fact that woman are capable of being superior mechanics, electricians, welders, etc.

Any difference in pay numbers is do to the positions that the two sexes seek out IMHO just based off my observations in the actual act of applying to jobs where massive amounts of people are employed. Although I acknowledge that there are cases where a bias boss treats a female employee poorly. Both sexes have full legal protection of their rights. Although I aknowledge that there could easily be a bias police officer or judge that infringes on a woman's liberties. Jamie girl is closer to being accurate. Men and women should complement each other in a relationship. It does harm to make men and women equal emotionally and sexually, or to conflate their roles in a relationship.

I did say "Statistics say wage equality is actually getting to the equal state. We're only off by 6% when comparing exactly the same position/careers." As noted wage gap wasn't the issue i was talking about at all n'or was i talking about the blue collar - pink/white collar gender divide.
I'm talking about how people get treated at work predominantly in white collar jobs. It's how we have a glass ceiling because most of senior management in large corporations just happen to be men. It's how people don't take us seriously because we're wearing smokey eye shadows at work. A transwoman who did alot of public speaking told me that before she transitioned, when she gave talks, 90% of people approached her to discuss about things she spoke about. After transition, 90% of the people who came up to her, talked to her about her looks and her personal life. It goes to show how people listen to men and women differently. Legal protections don't break glass ceilings. Legal protection can't do anything about a manager who takes a woman's idea as being less. That's why so many educated women start startups instead of trying to break an unbreakable glass.

[sadeh]

Money for the honey ...

Really, this an interesting discussion. Most tgirls, ts, spend their moneys on their body and self esteem. A few like myself own properties and our moneys go there as well.

I have the fortunate gifts that some of you will understand. Owning homes in foreign country is a great achievement, however managing them , and who to trust with my properties has become another challenge.

Some of my family, not so distant relatives have been lucky, for i have trusted them with one of my houses.

The other home is currently being renovated.
My homes are also in a country part of the British commonwealth, so as a Canadian, i can travel there if it needed be.

I am transgender, i have scarificied luxury living in Canada, for my future is bright and my family and i are secure in both lands.

So the point of this conversation is that i will charge more money, money for my expenses and money for me.

Thanks to my generous gentleman you have always been sexy.

[sadeh]

Lottery

Meagan im glad you straightened them out ... lol

This video says Men like to have a bigger penis, Men also like a pretty lady with Big breasts ....

However the perfect of combination is a big dick, with big breasts, and no drama. Good luck.

That combination is just luck, however ya'll will have to pick a number.

And the lucky numbers are ....... in todays lottery .

[cameeindos]

i agree with the OP, but it's a tired point imho. nothing more can be said on it.

like the OP clearly looks hot and feminine. that's enough to think she's hot, nothing more.

[alex99]

Interesting video, although it doesn't really come close to explaining the oral and anal fantasies that 'straight' men have when it comes to T-Girls.

I guess they're going to just chalk those up to 'variety'... >>

On the other hand, this video may explain a few things that they didn't have time to go into.

https://xhamster.com/movies/1675891/...ubmission.html

[peacecountry]

THis is strictly my two cents worth and really not worth a tinkers damn but here goes anyway.
It's an interesting video and perspective on us as a whole but I think just looking at the porn side of things does a certain injustice to the big picture. There is much more to our attraction than just a feminine woman who happens to have a dick, imo. I am certainly turned on by many of you lovely girls but that doesn't mean every TG out there. That also applies to my attractions to GG women as well. Sometimes I can be with an absolutely gorgeous woman and something can turn me off in a heartbeat. Often that may be intellectual or an emotional connection or whatever but all the sex appeal in the world can't overcome it.
When I was young, of course, my divining rod (AKA, hard-on) led me wherever. But now, I have a wide variety of interests, sexually speaking, and I'm comfortable enough with my sexuality that I am neither bothered by nor do I use labels to describe it. Every day can be something different and I look much deeper than just body parts these days. I'm on a journey with no defined destination. I just enjoy each moment as much as possible.
I also believe there are no simple answers to our attractions or sexuality. I truly believe we are all unique and even though there may be some crossover in our sexual preferences, it is much like our DNA. No two people are identical. I guess identical twins are but even they have some differences from what I have witnessed. Anyway, thanks for this thread. It's a very interesting topic, for sure.

[greep]

Exactly. That's the bottom line. At one point in time heterosexuality was defined as a mental illness, so it really goes to show that these labels are inconsequential.

It was? By who?

I think you mean Homosexuality. I'ts common knowledge that many modern day Psychiatrists still think homosexuality and transsexuality are mental illnesses.

[justvisiting2016]

. I'ts common knowledge that many modern day Psychiatrists still think homosexuality and transsexuality are mental illnesses.

You would find that a very tiny amount in western culture..

obviously in cultures where religion is overwhelmingly in control (say Muslim nations or a lot of places in Africa where they are Christians and want to jail gay people), they certainly could feel that way out of dogma and programming.

There is no legitimate science that back up them being mental illnesses here in 2017. Can people in LGBT have mental health issues because of their struggle with identity and their surroundings, sure. as can we all. But, legitimate medical professionals who are not shackled by religious dogma will not say being gay is an illness and therapy and medication is a cure.

[unchained1]

THis is strictly my two cents worth and really not worth a tinkers damn but here goes anyway.
It's an interesting video and perspective on us as a whole but I think just looking at the porn side of things does a certain injustice to the big picture. There is much more to our attraction than just a feminine woman who happens to have a dick, imo. I am certainly turned on by many of you lovely girls but that doesn't mean every TG out there. That also applies to my attractions to GG women as well. Sometimes I can be with an absolutely gorgeous woman and something can turn me off in a heartbeat. Often that may be intellectual or an emotional connection or whatever but all the sex appeal in the world can't overcome it.
When I was young, of course, my divining rod (AKA, hard-on) led me wherever. But now, I have a wide variety of interests, sexually speaking, and I'm comfortable enough with my sexuality that I am neither bothered by nor do I use labels to describe it. Every day can be something different and I look much deeper than just body parts these days. I'm on a journey with no defined destination. I just enjoy each moment as much as possible.
I also believe there are no simple answers to our attractions or sexuality. I truly believe we are all unique and even though there may be some crossover in our sexual preferences, it is much like our DNA. No two people are identical. I guess identical twins are but even they have some differences from what I have witnessed. Anyway, thanks for this thread. It's a very interesting topic, for sure.

Your two cents worth are worth many tinker's damns, maybe even close to a psychology degree! I believe we may be on a similar journey. Happy trails my friend!

[greep]

You would find that a very tiny amount in western culture..

obviously in cultures where religion is overwhelmingly in control (say Muslim nations or a lot of places in Africa where they are Christians and want to jail gay people), they certainly could feel that way out of dogma and programming.

There is no legitimate science that back up them being mental illnesses here in 2017. Can people in LGBT have mental health issues because of their struggle with identity and their surroundings, sure. as can we all. But, legitimate medical professionals who are not shackled by religious dogma will not say being gay is an illness and therapy and medication is a cure.

I think when these psychiatrists labelled homosexuality as a mental illness, they are addressing the fact that homosexuality is counter intuitive to humans inborn need to reproduce and carry on the species --thus being gay is not normal and is an illness (according them).

For psychiatrists, anyways, religion has nothing to do with it.





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[Shyla Wild]

I think when these psychiatrists labelled homosexuality as a mental illness, they are addressing the fact that homosexuality is counter intuitive to humans inborn need to reproduce and carry on the species --thus being gay is not normal and is an illness (according them).

For psychiatrists, anyways, religion has nothing to do with it.





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Holy shit!!! You are back! Happy new year!

By the way, doctors and medical professionals can be religious. no matter how hypocritical thats sounds....