Here's some science behind your attraction to T-Girls.

[Meagan Nutwood]

I've seen a similar seminar from this guy a few years ago, it was at a much smaller venue, but it looks like they have refined their presentation in this video. Basically, the information here I believe will put a lot of your minds at ease because it provides some very useful information as to why you men are so crazy about us T-Girls.
Also, after watching the video, I'd like your opinions, lets discuss!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMoEs7eQeZE

[6942rob]

A very informative vid - they obviously did their research!

[toban]

It is only natural that the penis is the biggest attraction for TGirl lovers!

Meagan's video has just confirmed what I stated a few days ago in response to a previous thread in which JamieGirl was questioning the relationship of femininity to the attraction of males towards Tgirls, and where I had commented at that time that:

? - - - - - - - - - - - for me, femininity is absolutely essential to my attraction towards a Tgirl BUT that attraction can not be sustained without the presence of her original genitalia! That disparate genitalia is what in the first instance made her a ?trans? girl. Take away the vestiges of maleness and you have just a girl.

To try to say that the penis is not important for recognition as a trans girl is rather ridiculous! "

[BUTKIS]

Excellent video. The three minute one right after is really good too. Helps dispel some myths. Bottom line. Gay men are not attracted to she males.

[Meagan Nutwood]

Yes, I acknowledge and agree that this is a very consistent perspective among most trans oriented men I've come into contact with. I usually have chit chats about this type of thing with my clients because sometimes at the end of a session they bring up how strange their affinity for trans women are and in the same breath defending their heterosexuality with "IM NOT INTO MEN THOUGH!". I always find it funny and I explain to them that there is no reason to feel threatened by these interests because... - and I share with them similar information to that provided in the video I posted.

Meagan's video has just confirmed what I stated a few days ago in response to a previous thread in which JamieGirl was questioning the relationship of femininity to the attraction of males towards Tgirls, and where I had commented at that time that:

? - - - - - - - - - - - for me, femininity is absolutely essential to my attraction towards a Tgirl BUT that attraction can not be sustained without the presence of her original genitalia! That disparate genitalia is what in the first instance made her a ?trans? girl. Take away the vestiges of maleness and you have just a girl.

To try to say that the penis is not important for recognition as a trans girl is rather ridiculous! "

[justvisiting2016]

I have made peace with myself and I dont need to really know "why"... I enjoy something so I do it. I may be in the minority here but I really wish men would stop worrying so much about "why" or "am I gay" or "I am straight damnit and this is why".... why need to fit into boxes and labels other than worrying what other people think? If a friend or family member in your life craps on you for it, minimize their time in your life and be with people who love you for who you are.

[Meagan Nutwood]

Exactly. That's the bottom line. At one point in time heterosexuality was defined as a mental illness, so it really goes to show that these labels are inconsequential.

I have made peace with myself and I dont need to really know "why"... I enjoy something so I do it. I may be in the minority here but I really wish men would stop worrying so much about "why" or "am I gay" or "I am straight damnit and this is why".... why need to fit into boxes and labels other than worrying what other people think? If a friend or family member in your life craps on you for it, minimize their time in your life and be with people who love you for who you are.

[wantitss63]

I have made peace with myself and I dont need to really know "why"... I enjoy something so I do it. I may be in the minority here but I really wish men would stop worrying so much about "why" or "am I gay" or "I am straight damnit and this is why".... why need to fit into boxes and labels other than worrying what other people think? If a friend or family member in your life craps on you for it, minimize their time in your life and be with people who love you for who you are.

Roger that...a simple and realistic approach to take. Well said!

[tsbanger]

@justvisiting2016; I'm with you on this one. This described perfectly where I feel I am in my live and sexuality.

I have made peace with myself and I dont need to really know "why"... I enjoy something so I do it. I may be in the minority here but I really wish men would stop worrying so much about "why" or "am I gay" or "I am straight damnit and this is why".... why need to fit into boxes and labels other than worrying what other people think? If a friend or family member in your life craps on you for it, minimize their time in your life and be with people who love you for who you are.

[Nyles]

Help please. I'm not seeing the link.

[JamieGirl]

OK just some thoughts from me.

This may be long but...

We are living in strange times. We don't need the male aspects to hunt for us. I can go to the nearest grocery store and buy all the protein I need, I can go to the store and buy all the roughage or the nurturing of farming that I need. Humankind does not need hunters and gatherers anymore. We may have weapons in our homes for self protection but we also have laws and law enforcement to protect our families too. A mother bear is fierce protecting her cubs but a father bear will kill them. Same with hippos and so on. Men used to be hunters and warriors and women used to be gatherers and nurturers.

We also don't need procreation anymore for the most part.

With that said. What do most women have to offer men now? Sex? Yeah that is always good and fun. But that don't last that long though. at the most an hour or two. Romance? Hm some cis women are so reliant on themselves that some even get pissed off and or offended when a man opens a door for her or pulls her chair out for her. Oh cis women still like to hold hand or entwine the arm of their man walking down the street but who leads who? I let my man lead me. My arm is behind his. When holding hands his hand is over mine. When walking down the street he is closer to traffic. I let him. This is subconscious.

I really disagree with them and really need to look them up on you tube. That would be the whole ideal of ovaries and testes but less and less couples are having children either because of the way things go and the population of the world or outside influences.

I know a little about psychology. This is just my opinion. It is deeper than sex. It is about gender and gender roles. Yes some guys seem to like big cocks. Well I really lack in that department. I have never had a problem finding a date. Is it because of Guilt? maybe? Is it when a woman has a smaller penis then they feel better about themselves? possibly? Maybe even. Is it that when I wear high heel I can look them eye to eye when the are 6 feet tall even? Maybe. Is it that I totally embrace femininity and compliment his male ego? Maybe.

Male and female are becoming irrelevant. We are pretty much equal now. They talk about the pay? Really? Let them be a trans woman and see how many jobs they are passed over for so I will dispute the pay thing. A woman does the same job I do then she gets paid the same amount. If I strip for a living then I make less than a genetic female unless it is a trans club. I have had women bosses that made more than the men bosses but they were pretty too.

This is my observations. Regardless of what the people in the video said. When it comes to porn then yeah some guys like to see a big one on a girl with big boobs. When it comes to real life, then it is a totally different story.

Men need women and women need men. Not anything physically but more psychologically and personality wise. Leaving porn out of the equation, masculinity needs femininity to create a balance and femininity needs masculinity to create a balance. Femininity and masculinity compliment each other and make two halves a whole. Today, women are shedding themselves of their femininity. They don't need men. Hell some of them make more money and have better jobs than men. Personally I believe men need a partner that is feminine. I believe they long for a partner that is feminine. I believe that men still have the hunger to be providers or the hunters and protectors and need a partner that is a nurturer and provide a comfortable home. Not barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen but someone that appreciates then for their masculinity. What man wants to hear from his woman, " I made more money than you this week, month or year." What man wants to be berated by his woman? What man wants to be nagged after working all week by his woman? I will tell you this right now. I work form home and have heat and AC. I work appx 9 hours a day and if my boyfriend worked 12 hours a day that is three hours that gives me time to cook for him and do the dishes. Maybe hamburger helper or whatever and he can cook me something on the grill over the weekend or I may cook him something. 3x7 is 21, so he may work 21 hours more per day than me so I the least I can do is give him a clean house to come home to. I am always ready for romance unless I don't feel well so... Whatever he wants whenever he wants it. Really? What do I have to do. Suck a lollipop? That takes ten or 20 minutes. I love it but more importantly he deserves it and I do too. It will relieve his stress and make me feel really good.

But seriously when so many women are trying to be equal to men and we are. All women are. But we as trans women are embracing femininity when so many cis women are shedding themselves of theirs and trying to be equal to their men, where else do men have to go. Oh yeah the hair, the clothes the jewelry don't mean shit when they order first, want to drive, insist on choosing what they only want, berate their men and so on.

OK so a little confession I won one business and part owner of two others and manage one of those. I make more than most men interested in me do. That is not the problem. The problem would be my attitude. I am a trans woman and even though I may make more than my man, I would never throw that in face. I don't have to do shit if I didn't want too. But for my man I would cook for him, clean the house either mine or his, and wash the dishes. He works hard and even if I had to also then we could split it up. I would still ensure that he felt like a man though.

Look, femininity needs masculinity and masculinity needs femininity to make two halves a whole. Porn is porn and that is fantasy, real life needs a balance. I mean seriously. Guys compare themselves to other guys all the time. When I was in school and people had hanging dicks I got made fun of in gym class. When I got boobs then I got offered money to feel me up. I had to be moved from gym class to study hall. I then had to move schools. Then since the admin knew what I was then I could not take gym class.

You asked for thoughts and these are just some of mine and what I have lived through. Personally I think these two are just....HMMMM.... I would really like to see their "pedigrees" though.

[Jim S]

I love the way you think. You are awesome

This may be long but...




We are living in strange times. We don't need the male aspects to hunt for us. I can go to the nearest grocery store and buy all the protein I need, I can go to the store and buy all the roughage or the nurturing of farming that I need. Humankind does not need hunters and gatherers anymore. We may have weapons in our homes for self protection but we also have laws and law enforcement to protect our families too. A mother bear is fierce protecting her cubs but a father bear will kill them. Same with hippos and so on. Men used to be hunters and warriors and women used to be gatherers and nurturers.

We also don't need procreation anymore for the most part.

With that said. What do most women have to offer men now? Sex? Yeah that is always good and fun. But that don't last that long though. at the most an hour or two. Romance? Hm some cis women are so reliant on themselves that some even get pissed off and or offended when a man opens a door for her or pulls her chair out for her. Oh cis women still like to hold hand or entwine the arm of their man walking down the street but who leads who? I let my man lead me. My arm is behind his. When holding hands his hand is over mine. When walking down the street he is closer to traffic. I let him. This is subconscious.

I really disagree with them and really need to look them up on you tube. That would be the whole ideal of ovaries and testes but less and less couples are having children either because of the way things go and the population of the world or outside influences.

I know a little about psychology. This is just my opinion. It is deeper than sex. It is about gender and gender roles. Yes some guys seem to like big cocks. Well I really lack in that department. I have never had a problem finding a date. Is it because of Guilt? maybe? Is it when a woman has a smaller penis then they feel better about themselves? possibly? Maybe even. Is it that when I wear high heel I can look them eye to eye when the are 6 feet tall even? Maybe. Is it that I totally embrace femininity and compliment his male ego? Maybe.

Male and female are becoming irrelevant. We are pretty much equal now. They talk about the pay? Really? Let them be a trans woman and see how many jobs they are passed over for so I will dispute the pay thing. A woman does the same job I do then she gets paid the same amount. If I strip for a living then I make less than a genetic female unless it is a trans club. I have had women bosses that made more than the men bosses but they were pretty too.

This is my observations. Regardless of what the people in the video said. When it comes to porn then yeah some guys like to see a big one on a girl with big boobs. When it comes to real life, then it is a totally different story.

Men need women and women need men. Not anything physically but more psychologically and personality wise. Leaving porn out of the equation, masculinity needs femininity to create a balance and femininity needs masculinity to create a balance. Femininity and masculinity compliment each other and make two halves a whole. Today, women are shedding themselves of their femininity. They don't need men. Hell some of them make more money and have better jobs than men. Personally I believe men need a partner that is feminine. I believe they long for a partner that is feminine. I believe that men still have the hunger to be providers or the hunters and protectors and need a partner that is a nurturer and provide a comfortable home. Not barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen but someone that appreciates then for their masculinity. What man wants to hear from his woman, " I made more money than you this week, month or year." What man wants to be berated by his woman? What man wants to be nagged after working all week by his woman? I will tell you this right now. I work form home and have heat and AC. I work appx 9 hours a day and if my boyfriend worked 12 hours a day that is three hours that gives me time to cook for him and do the dishes. Maybe hamburger helper or whatever and he can cook me something on the grill over the weekend or I may cook him something. 3x7 is 21, so he may work 21 hours more per day than me so I the least I can do is give him a clean house to come home to. I am always ready for romance unless I don't feel well so... Whatever he wants whenever he wants it. Really? What do I have to do. Suck a lollipop? That takes ten or 20 minutes. I love it but more importantly he deserves it and I do too. It will relieve his stress and make me feel really good.

But seriously when so many women are trying to be equal to men and we are. All women are. But we as trans women are embracing femininity when so many cis women are shedding themselves of theirs and trying to be equal to their men, where else do men have to go. Oh yeah the hair, the clothes the jewelry don't mean shit when they order first, want to drive, insist on choosing what they only want, berate their men and so on.

OK so a little confession I won one business and part owner of two others and manage one of those. I make more than most men interested in me do. That is not the problem. The problem would be my attitude. I am a trans woman and even though I may make more than my man, I would never throw that in face. I don't have to do shit if I didn't want too. But for my man I would cook for him, clean the house either mine or his, and wash the dishes. He works hard and even if I had to also then we could split it up. I would still ensure that he felt like a man though.

Look, femininity needs masculinity and masculinity needs femininity to make two halves a whole. Porn is porn and that is fantasy, real life needs a balance. I mean seriously. Guys compare themselves to other guys all the time. When I was in school and people had hanging dicks I got made fun of in gym class. When I got boobs then I got offered money to feel me up. I had to be moved from gym class to study hall. I then had to move schools. Then since the admin knew what I was then I could not take gym class.

You asked for thoughts and these are just some of mine and what I have lived through. Personally I think these two are just....HMMMM.... I would really like to see their "pedigrees" though.

Well said; I love the way you think.

[JamieGirl]

Thank you so much Jim S.

[Jmatthew]

JamieGirl, I need you to talk to a certain someone at my house!

[merelypink]

very very informative thanks for posting...