silly question, but is oral safe

[hitc]

Quite a silly question, but just curious if performing oral sex is safe?
I know if you have a cut or something in your mouth than it seems obvious that it isn't safe, but if I have no cuts, etc am I still at risk when performing oral?

Also, When hiring an escort, do they typically allow you to give them oral?


thanks for any feedback.

[ladyluv]

Oral is very dangerous.

[hitc]

thats what i assumed.
but i read that so many people are having oral with escorts? I am surprised an escort would risk having oral with strangers? I can see the customer giving oral because they are caught up in the moment and forget about the danger, but the escort is all business, so im guessing they will not perform or receive oral unprotected right?

thanks for the reply

[justvisiting2016]

most escorts these days will cover up for oral.... some will go bare if they know you, have chemistry, you are a repeat, etc.... very few offer "guaranteed BBBJ" these days in the trans world... but some do if you really really need that.

Its hard for them.. think about it... they dont know who is showing up and offering BBBJ blindly puts them in a risky position . Not everyone is willing to take that blind risk on strangers.


But, like anything that involves walking out your door in the morning , there is risk. If you love sex and chose quality partners your risk factors are pretty low.. if you pick up strangers in bars who will go with anyone, you are going to be high risk...... if you get 400 dollar an hour escorts you are in a different risk category than the 80 dollar street walker drug addict... (which reminds me to mention we have an area in Vancouver where guys can literally get 10 dollar BBBJs with swallow from street walking highly drug addicted sad sad cases and they take that risk.... horrifying).

[peacecountry]

But, like anything that involves walking out your door in the morning , there is risk. If you love sex and chose quality partners your risk factors are pretty low.. if you pick up strangers in bars who will go with anyone, you are going to be high risk...... if you get 400 dollar an hour escorts you are in a different risk category than the 80 dollar street walker drug addict... (which reminds me to mention we have an area in Vancouver where guys can literally get 10 dollar BBBJs with swallow from street walking highly drug addicted sad sad cases and they take that risk.... horrifying).

My thoughts exactly. The really professional ladies that are well known here and elsewhere are far more likely to be safer. As for those ones on the street, guys that take that risk are just really stupid. The back alley drug addicts on East Hastings are light years different then the ladies we book off here and SMC, etc. I enjoy oral sex and I'm not about to stop.

[toban]

Playing BB is the real-life game of chance "sensation over safety" that we like to play!

It is impossible to state whether “BB Oral” is either safe or dangerous for there are so many factors which must be considered. Hereabouts, as several have already noted, we generally assume that many of the girls we know from this Forum and from SMC, and especially those who post their test results, are more likely to be safer to play with than say a girl working the street but there can be no blanket assurance of safety for any type of BB play with any person, provider or not.

It remains a fact that, if say e.g., the mouth/throat of the giver is infected with one of the old perennials like Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, HPV, Herpes or Syphilis, there is every opportunity for the BB receiver to be infected and this applies equally to both or all parties in the encounter. For this reason it is imperative that players who decide to gamble and take a chance on sensation over safety choose their partners wisely, by playing only with the girls that are more probably going to be clean or “safe”. No guaranties though!!

The only pleasant news here is that while for many years HIV was perhaps the biggest fear many had about BB sex but more recently it has been medically verified that oral transmission of HIV is quite close to non-existent but still not absolute.

[cameeindos]

no form of sex is safe. it can be, but then it can be clean if it's bareback and she has regular tests.