My Take On Guys and Tgirls Dating Topic

[TheBigBoy]

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I was on a date with a tgirl recently.... spent the weekend with her, went out for dinner, met some of her friends,took her shopping and stayed at her place and hung out. Everything was amazing and I left thinking wow I could see myself falling in love with this girl. We have talked since then but I feel she really doesnt have anytime for me so Ive decided not to call her again. She is busy making money and doin her thing. The more I think about her the crazier im getting. I really would like to see were this would go with her but I have a feeling I will never know?? Anyways if she reads(she will know me by my name thebigboy) this I just want her to know I do have feeling for her and if she wants to hang out please call me.

[sensual_lover20]

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I wonder who it is?

[Andrew69]

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I too have dated tgirls. It is not an easy thing. Hormones, emotions, difficult life experiences. I have had some good experiences and some horrible ones.

I wish society would stop treating tgirls and their boyfriends like genetic freaks. I am tired of the looks, the sneers, the laughter, and the smart ass comments. I recently spent a weekend with a tgirl in an American city. We got laughed at, snickered at, stared at, and pointed at. The girl is near passable unfortunately facial hair gives her away. As we were walking down the street some asswipe said "Is it Halloween?" another quipped "Does that guy know he is with a dude" and of course the ever so eloquent "fags" comment.

I brushed it off and tried to enjoy our time together, unforutunately she was so upset by it that she flagged down a cab so we could go home. A perfect day ruined. She felt much more comfortable at night when we weren't "tagged" as much. Harder to see facial hair in the night.

[Lani]

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I too have dated tgirls. It is not an easy thing. Hormones, emotions, difficult life experiences. I have had some good experiences and some horrible ones.

I wish society would stop treating tgirls and their boyfriends like genetic freaks. I am tired of the looks, the sneers, the laughter, and the smart ass comments. I recently spent a weekend with a tgirl in an American city. We got laughed at, snickered at, stared at, and pointed at. The girl is near passable unfortunately facial hair gives her away. As we were walking down the street some asswipe said "Is it Halloween?" another quipped "Does that guy know he is with a dude" and of course the ever so eloquent "fags" comment.

I brushed it off and tried to enjoy our time together, unforutunately she was so upset by it that she flagged down a cab so we could go home. A perfect day ruined. She felt much more comfortable at night when we weren't "tagged" as much. Harder to see facial hair in the night.

I was on a date with a tgirl recently.... spent the weekend with her, went out for dinner, met some of her friends,took her shopping and stayed at her place and hung out. Everything was amazing and I left thinking wow I could see myself falling in love with this girl. We have talked since then but I feel she really doesnt have anytime for me so Ive decided not to call her again. She is busy making money and doin her thing. The more I think about her the crazier im getting. I really would like to see were this would go with her but I have a feeling I will never know?? Anyways if she reads(she will know me by my name thebigboy) this I just want her to know I do have feeling for her and if she wants to hang out please call me.

I Thought members here would never have to read anymore of my non sexual and (for some) corny and very boring topic already, about relationships and or friendships between Guys and Tgirls, (but dont worry! as this will be my last post here, and Alleluia! she's finally leaving this forum as some would say, so bear with me on this one last time and dont worry i have no plans to use a new name) But andrew69 post made it so difficult for me to not make a comment and observations and to share the feelings of betrayal by someone i admired and starting to like. Andrew69, i must say that whatever happens between you and your Tgirl date and if your not seeing each other anymore, that girl should be proud of you and she should feel lucky to have dated a person like you, I'm not only guessing but stating the fact that the reason she just took the cab and wanting to go home is probably not for her, but to spare you from more ridicules and snide remarks from people who doesnt know any better, and i compare those people like a wild animals in the jungle whose aim is to just make other feel miserable to deal with their own miseries in life, all this supposed to be moral and normal people do, is to prey on the meek and gentle (wouldnt it be nice if this kind of people are the ones we are sending to Iraq, Afghanistan and other war torn region of the world) anyway, unless your date behaves in some attention grabbing antics. People by and large are'nt so much on what the person looks like, but on how they behave in public and this is what usually caught the ire of some citizen of this nation, you can dress up like an executives but you're using foul words, a boisterous voice, cursing and talking obscene and profanity. where everyone and even kids could hear and thats what makes people pass their judgements, But someone can wear an outlandish outfit that will cause some people to stare, But if the person who even dressed in garish or outlandish outfit respects the peace and space of other people in public places, some people would still whisper, sneers and stares, But i can bet my bottom dollars that the majority and fair minded people in our society will look at them with disdain than looking at you and your date indifferently, if you just behave and act accordingly. Being loud and sometimes scandalous are some of the behaviour i have noticed from some misguided people in our community, it's like a survivor instinct attitude that people are all gawking at them anyway, so they'd rather make this people feel uncomfortable, which sometimes turns to anger and loathing to our kinds, and i'm sure and hoping it's not with your case as she just decided to go home to end your walk and goodtime, because of this sorry excuse of a human being.

And let me tackle her issue about the five o clock shadow (stubbles usually on the chin, jawline and upper lips) which usually shows up again after you shave in the morning, and it depends on how coarse is the hair, coz, facial hair depends too on our race and color as some people of middle east and some asian heritage suffer from an extreme hirsutism (hairy) and caucasians seems to have a fine and very light hair that makes it not so obvious even in the afternoon, but this is not only a transgendered problem, i've seen women with fine moustache and beard especially after there menopausal stage and at this day and age being hairy is no big deal ( havent heard of electrolysis or laser? )
But like i said, i dont think it's the hair or even if she have a visible adams apple, But in any case the best way to deal with this kind of sneers, jeers and criticism is to 'say nothing, do nothing and be nothing' you'll only act if you and your date safety is in jeopardy, otherwise never stoop down to their level. Your a great man and i hope she should at least acknowledged that. To date a tgirl who is'nt a 100% passable like some of the escorts here and those we've seen all over this site and it demonstrated your strong and genuine convictions that you care about the person you are with and not what other people say and you have given this Tgirl the best thing that any person could give to another and that is honour and respect.

And now i move on to BigBoy post, ( i have a feeling that i know who this is) as he says that he is falling in love with this girl that he dated on that weekend, and i hope she realized what all this guys have to go through, just to put up the nerve to be with you, talk and walk with you, dine in public with you, shop with you and hung out with you for the whole weekend (oh i could imagine 'El Paco' grinning from ear to ear reading on andrew69 posted reply) for guys to bravely do that, you must possesed one or many of the qualities of our beautiful and famous local girls here and who i've seen in person and upclose like: Lucy, Tia, Paige, Madison, Phoenix, Paris, Adrina, Yumi (lucy ling) Amber 'nina' she is gorgeous! and Tasha jones, Shelby and now the gorgeous Lisa P. and those petite asian ladyboys and of course ME! (LOL!) This girl that BigBoy have dated should look at whats more important in life, unless she's into escorting and he ( BigBoy) is not a recepient in the good looks department ( or maybe he's gorgeous ) and she's just not into him, then neither i or cupid or even her own parents can do anything about it and i would suggest for Mr. BigBoy to veered his focus onto someone else.

As i have discussed about the possibility of us Tgirls (escort and non) having a special someone, Here i am, feeling betrayed by someone that i admired and starting to care about and to which i'm willing to make a crucial change to make way for this impending (or what i thought) a blooming friendship and who knows what, But as my issues with trust have again put to a test and sadly it has collapsed, he would never know how i am as a person, how i could be a lover, a friend and his selfless confidant. I was hurt alright, But this wont stop me from believing again in my earnest belief that someone is out there for each of us and a setback like this wont deter me or for anyone to stop believing in love, and this things happens to the best of us and the pains will ebb and subside and i have promised i will sustain every blow, every dagger and every knife that fate and this life will thrust on my back. So to anyone who's still skeptics to try on this thing called love, dont worry about failures and about life mishaps, as it's about being acceptable of what this life has in store for all of us. And time for me to bid you all adieu and GOODBYE!

[stiggy78]

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They have guy voices? Allanah Satr doesn't

[Andrew69]

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Jellani. First I think I owe the girl an apology. I didn't mean to indicate that she was masculine looking or that she looked bad. Quite the opposite she is a very beautiful girl. She has waxed her hair in the past but when she shaves it is difficult to cover it all with foundation, usually an hour or so after it is noticeable if you really look. We weren't acting rudely or outrageously, just enjoying each others company and chatting as we walked. Maybe her voice was a give away. She was dressed fashionably but not outrageously, so I don't think it would have attracted attention. You are probably correct that she hailed a cab for my sake not hers. I didn’t make an issue of the comments because I didn’t want to upset her further and I don’t think it would have helped.

Thank you for the compliment but I just acted like I would with a gg.

We are trying to make things work but distance makes it tough, we live in different cities and my airline bills are getting ridiculous. I can't afford to visit for a while.

[mazarpan]

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well, your inputs here surely keeps me going and keeps me interested, what makes you decide to leave this forum? hope you'll reconsider and sorry to know that guys ( whos obvious is jerk) let you down. well come back if you change your mind.

pan pan

[TheBigBoy]

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Well I have to say Ive been a little down lately cause the girl I saw just wants to be friends.... but as of now Im ok with it because I know that there is someone out there for me and I will find her. I hope whoever she has or finds makes her happy and treats her right cause she really is a special person and she deserves the best. Anyways since the shitty news Ive been thinking alot about what I really want for my future And maybe I was being foulish thinking I could love a tgirl Or that a tgirl could love me

[mazarpan]

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Well I have to say Ive been a little down lately cause the girl I saw just wants to be friends.... but as of now Im ok with it because I know that there is someone out there for me and I will find her. I hope whoever she has or finds makes her happy and treats her right cause she really is a special person and she deserves the best. Anyways since the shitty news Ive been thinking alot about what I really want for my future And maybe I was being foulish thinking I could love a tgirl Or that a tgirl could love me

Awww! any human is loveable...tgirl or not as long as they acted and behaved like one. lve

[sensual_lover20]

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It's unfortunate that Jen has left the forum. Not everyone can get a chance to talk with her at Goodhandy's and she has very good things to say.

[mazarpan]

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It's unfortunate that Jen has left the forum. Not everyone can get a chance to talk with her at Goodhandy's and she has very good things to say.

i'll surely miss her input on some controversial topics that were discussed here.

[youngboy4ts]

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Hey Jen come back your all post were awesome and if you decide not to come then you will be missed here…you have all right to express your feeling no one is stopping you, it’s a public forums so you are allow to give your opinion. Now it’s all up to you.

Respect...

[sensual_lover20]

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Hey Jen come back your all post were awesome and if you decide not to come then you will be missed here…you have all right to express your feeling no one is stopping you, it’s a public forums so you are allow to give your opinion. Now it’s all up to you.

Respect...

Well said.

[sensual_lover20]

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I'm 21 and I know a lot of t-girls in Toronto. They think that by you dating them you will use them, at least for the few that I spoke too. Also, it is not easy to find a t-girl in your age range. I am currently dating a 28 year old, she is not my girlfriend but we go on nice dates out. I cannot committ to her fully though because of my age since I do not have a stable job or apartment to live in with her. If they can understand that and wait that out a few years then thats fine. However, I am entering a world of fantasy and when you meet a few and talk with them it may be hard to come to grips with reality at times. I am a strong man and I manage to think with my head, not with my dick. My two cents.

-SR

[mazarpan]

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I'm 21 and I know a lot of t-girls in Toronto. They think that by you dating them you will use them, at least for the few that I spoke too. Also, it is not easy to find a t-girl in your age range. I am currently dating a 28 year old, she is not my girlfriend but we go on nice dates out. I cannot committ to her fully though because of my age since I do not have a stable job or apartment to live in with her. If they can understand that and wait that out a few years then thats fine. However, I am entering a world of fantasy and when you meet a few and talk with them it may be hard to come to grips with reality at times. I am a strong man and I manage to think with my head, not with my dick. My two cents.

-SR

Okey! how and where did you meet her? does she escort? if not where can a guy find tgirl date like her, because i think it's harder than what everyone thought, to find one whos not in the sex trade service.