Going Home after GoodHandys

[topme]

Trying to work up the balls (no pun intended) to get myself to GoodHandy's one of these nights, and some of what I've read here has been helpful in putting me at ease a little. One lingering question I have though:
I'm at the bar and start talking to a girl, and things are going well. How do I know if she's an escort hoping to make some money or if she's "for real"... and on the off chance if I'm invited to hang out after the bar by a girl (fingers crossed), same question applies... I understand that a lot of the escorts hang out there every so often, and I'm wondering if they're their for pleasure, or business or whatever happens, etc.
Not to mention... I just read another post saying that 80% or so of the pretty girls are likely escorts so... help me out here please.

Any tips? Thanks!

[just4you]

Re: Going Home after GoodHandys

Just go ahead and have fun and mingle around...and don't worry about the small stuff man...your thinking way too much... It will prompt you to go back again and again and you'll get to know the girls even more and who they are and what they want etc... Who says an SP will only do business all the time...

GO GO GO....

Cheers and have lot's of fun

The Frenchman

[stvraider]

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Listen to the advice, go meet the ladies, have a good time !! I would think you might want to explore the special rooms before thinking about picking up...this is no guarantee... maybe....if you meet the right one & connect you could go for a coffee and discuss world politics etc....

[bubblee]

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Listen to the advice, go meet the ladies, have a good time !! I would think you might want to explore the special rooms before thinking about picking up...this is no guarantee... maybe....if you meet the right one & connect you could go for a coffee and discuss world politics etc....

Like any such place. Be smart. Don't believe everything you hear and some people will be genuine and others most definitely not. People will introduce themselves with the expectation of it going somewhere -- i.e. to the Diamond Room -- something you should only do if you're absolutely comfortable with that. How you can tell they're a escort - check your crotch for their hand squeezing the Charmin.

Most of the T-girls there are out for a reason. And while it might be to make friends, it's more about making money. If you want a purely social scene, think about a bar like El Convento Rico on Saturday nights where it's more about hanging out than the sex club vibe of Goodhandy's.

I have limited experience with Goodhandy's but from first impressions, it didn't strike me as the friendliest place I've ever been. There are the ladies, there are the men watching and a few interacting. But mostly in separate camps. And they could really stand someone around to help break the ice.

[topme]

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Yeah... hehe, I won't lie. I kind of expected both those responses... I know if I go and sit around by myself I'll never learn a thing. I have no problem trying to socialize, I just worry about being led into something I may not be looking for just yet, such as the Diamond Room, though I don't know if I'm 100% up on exactly what that is up there. Just a sex room of sorts? In any case, whether or not my visits to Goodhandys would lead to anything other than drinks at the bar are secondary to just getting a little more comfortable with it all, as I'm presently admiring it all from a distance (ie. here and tgps). Of course, if something else were to happen, bonus. Hehe. Anyway... the fact I'd be going on my own is also a little intimidating. Do the majority of girls at Goodhandys go there for business or is there a healthy mix? Also, is there a cover/dress code?

[Xytras]

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There is no dresscode.But keep in mind,if you are really expecting to bump into someone who will put their body on a line for you without expecting anything in return-you are just kidding yourself.95 percent of girls out there are for yor cash.Another 5 percent are looking for somebody to appreciate them though they need more than one plastic surgery just to start to look like a woman even remotely.But guess what?Most of the guys in there are know what to expect.You pay and you get.It is not complicated.Personally,I do not have problem with that.You just have to take it for what it is.But than again,after being a client to some girl for several times,and both of you will feel connected to each other,than a REAL date is not far fetched.

[sensual_lover20]

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Perhaps I will give some insight into my first and only experience at Goodhandy's so hold onto your seats. I went for the first time last week on a Saturday night, which is a pansexual night. My original purpose for going was to meet Tia since she said she was going and explore a bit of the club since it interested me a bit. I took no hesitation and did not care for any reviews and took the plunge myself. I emailed a non working t-girl friend that I know and she joined me. Upon arrival at the club since we came early it was not too busy, but later on past 11pm it started to get a lot busier with all types of different people. For your concern, I was pretty sure I saw about 3 non working tgirls and about 6 working tgirls so if you do that math, on a Thursday it is likely to be 5 non working for every 15 working I'd assume. This is just an estimate though but seems like a good number, and remember even if they are not working it does not account for whether they are taken or model material. Based on the crowd, which was consumer with a lot of mature fellow's in their later 30's and up, I don't think picky should be an option. I am young (21) and even I can say with my age I cannot be picky because youth are actually frowned upon since we appear to only want to have a good time. That aside, my tgirl friend introduced me to some of her friends and the crowd of people seemed very laid back so you would have no problem making some new friends if you went alone. I assume the Thursday night difference is more tgirls and less homosexuals, which is fine if that's you are interested in. Ultimately you should not feel awkward and enjoy your time and be friendly, I did this and I had a great time. I made some new friends and in fact inside Goodhandy's I feel more comfortable than any place else because no one is ever judging you because there is nothing for you to hide, it's a place where you can be free of prejudice. Take my word for it and go, you won't regret it. May 3rd will be packed with tgirls since Allanah Starr is coming in so that is your optimal time of meeting tgirls (working/ non working). Mind you, as everyone says most of them are working. Who knows though, you may just get lucky and that's the beauty of it all. I always liked a good challenge anyways. Happy visits.

- SR

On a side note, Tia was a great girl to talk to for the short period I spoke with her. Her kind and gentle nature showed she would be one of Toronto's top escorts. Many of the guys there who were all over her can vouch for that. Also, many on the forum will agree with me. However, my non working tgirl friend I spent most of my night with since I brought her as a sort of date [not really]. We went for dinner afterwards and I took her home, that was the night. There was no sex but my night was great, I couldn't ask for more. Take it from me and give Goodhandy's a visit.

[moonsault]

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do many people go as a single there? i am very intersted in going but not sure if people go in groups or with someone else. i guess what i am wondering is if people have had success picking up t-girls when they go to goodyhands alone.

thanks

[sensual_lover20]

Re: Going Home after GoodHandys

Yes, there is success with that, however, I am unsure of the probabilities.