Fairly new- guidance or help (muslim man)

[shemalecocklover88]

Hey everyone, this might turn into a long post so just a warning.
ive been interested in shemales or tgirls (excuse my wording if i dont use the right terms) for quite some time. Ive had some fun with a few of them and 2 or 3 times have visited transzen.
A little abt me. im 29 male, in fairly good shape, although over theast year or 2 i have put on a bit of weihht arnd the stomach.
I am a muslim man, from southeast asia and i believe the basics, my religion has caused some inmer controversy because i love watching and thinking and being with shemales.
It startes for me the first time when i was at circus and ran into lexi. She got ontop of me and we were kissing and she whispered in my ear that she had a penis. INSTANT BONER. altjouhh she backed off that atarted a fire in me and i have been hooked. But usually i will just watch porn and jerk off

I am looking to get together with a shemale this week. Can anyone recommend anyome in particular. I have never been bottomed although i would like to try.

Also how did you get into it if your social metwork would not allow it.
Send me dms and ill try snf reply would love yo get to know some tgirls.

Also ive been told im alright lookin so loolign forqard to getting into this more and more
Thanks in advance

[toban]

Let Tgirls be your "piece of cake"!!


Hi SCL88 and welcome to this forum.

I notice that one of your concerns is that both your social network and religion prohibit you from enjoying certain pleasures. It seems that most groups, whether religious or societal, tend to always look unfavorably upon enjoyment of anything sexual. I would venture that very few if any of the thousands of members of this forum who have enjoyed such pleasures have received the approval of their social networks for so doing or that these same individuals have even acknowledged their participation in this lifestyle or "hobby" to those closest to them!

It is important to understand that, in reality, there is no religion or social network that can actually deny you anything, any more than can any strict diabetic diet e.g., prevent a diabetic from enjoying the occasional piece of chocolate cake! It is up to you to decide, in person, when and what sort of treat you will allow yourself to enjoy. As a diabetic learns how to handle the odd piece of cake so you should learn how to enjoy the odd Tgirl happening as it takes over your life!

The simplest way to experience that "piece of cake" you're craving is to disregard whatever type of network that's preventing you from doing your thing and keep it totally separate from the "new life" that you've said you hope to start this week. For example, over the years I have maintained several lives concurrently - a home or personal life, a professional or work life, and a community life, all three of which may have experienced some intermingling at times and then my totally private sex life that has no connection whatsoever to the other three.

So, in essence you'd best learn to begin living with two completely separate identities, in one identity can be your family/occupation/church or social networks through which you are normally known, and then, you will also arrange to start a whole new life which will allow you to be blessed with exciting new T-girl experiences that you're hoping to learn to appreciate. Listen to your body and satisfy it's thirst for experimental experiences!

The terminology you've used makes it difficult for me to understand what you wish to have happen once you get connected with one of the girls when you say you have "never been bottomed". By that I assume that you meant you have never received penetrative anal sex by a shemale. Your social network certainly may never recommend your participation in such pleasurable adventures but as I've pointed out above, there is no way that social network can prevent you from so doing!

Do not concern yourself either with what you say are changes to your body - the girls will be more interested in things like your cleanliness and attitude. Few guys here would ever be able to present themselves as ripped young studs for in reality, most every one here could be in better physical condition in some way, that is the norm!

[shemalecocklover88]

Thx @toban for advice and takign the time to answer. I will def put it to use.

[bigmtsl]

Welcome to the Forum SCL88,

Good for you for getting on the Forum and asking questions. There are quite a few of us, clients, and tgirls who had a religous upbringing and have had to come to terms with who we are and what we like i.e. Tgirls

I was raised Roman Catholic, RC schools, church weekly, prayers before bed, an altar boy etc. My religious upbringing did teach me alot of good behaviours and helped to develop my character, like alot of other religions do, but like alot of religions it had doctrines or beliefs that as I got older no longer believed in i.e. tgirls etc

Needless to say I am no longer a religious person though Budhism does resonate with me versus other religions however I no longer follow any religion.

I would encourage you to find 'yourself' and who you are and what you like. The more you are on the Forum the more you can learn a few things. Likewise, once you get to know a few SPs from seeing them on a regular basis, the more you will find some of them had their own struggles having been raised in a religious environment. Believe me it is much more difficult for them than you and Ibas they are chaging their whole appearance whereas we don't have to. I have learned a great deal from some of my after session conversations with SPs.

Tgirls is a better pronoun to use than shemale. Many girls, as I call them sometimes, don't like the pronoun, shemale. SPs, service providers, is an ok term to use when writing comments and my prefered wording, least offensive.

You did not mention which city you are in so recommending someone s difficult. You can respond here or PM me if you like for my recommendations.

All the best in your future sexual adventures and self discovery.

[Ray]

As usual, Mr. Toban is right on with his comments. Good job, Bill. bigmtsl's comments also hit the target.