If you had a shemale girlfriend would you still let her be an escort

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If you had a special girl friend would you still let her be an escort?

To answer to that question is yes...

I was always shy to talk to anyone. I was always thinking UN attracted, cant get attention from any girl, I can’t find gf to have fun that I am looking for. So I thought escort the way that i can find my gf.
Love is the thing that you never know when it cans happen. I have dated special girls escort for so long time and I never had any problem. she told me she want work as and escort but I told her if she like to then continue go head I want disturbed in your life style that you were living long. She promises to me she will stop working as an escort. after three month I found out she is still working as an escort that didn’t bother me because she was so respectful to me, she likes me for what I am, we both were happy, if she being happy while she working then I care about her happiness more then mine. Remember relation built on Trust and loyalty and we both had that. We both continue dated and her escort work never came in my way because we both liked each other lots. We both spend more times outside movies, launch, and dinner. If I even spend time with her in her suite it’s only we cuddle, cooking and watch movies, she fall sleep in my arms. I didn’t say I didn’t have sex with her we have sex every once 1 in month or 2 month. When ever she needs me I am always there to help her. After while don’t know what happened to her but she stopped calling, she never reply my phone calls or my messages that I left. She was the one that I liked lots even she was working as an escort. I have waited for her to call me she never replies so I got tired of waiting 3 months. I still had hope on her she will call me so I waited for 1 more month. After 4 month waiting i went to see an escort. After long while she called me to see how I am doing and she need her computer fixed so I went to help her. We both discuss and decide to remain Friend. After while we started dating again same problem she never calls I am the one who calls. Now these days I just go to Goodhandys hang out, chill, Dance and have fun.


Opps looks like I went too to much any ways.

The whole idea is that don’t forget Escorts are Human to and every escorts has all rights that other has it. Just like porn star they have family and everything but they still continue working in adult industry why do you think they do that because it’s the matter of who lives happy. Now you are the judge to decide whether let your special girl work as an escort or not.

My 2 cents

Respect...

[just4you]

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Let me try at this one since I'm presently casually dating a Tgirl and yes she also escorts, well actually let me re-phrase this, under her real name she does not escort and that's how we know each other, under her assumed name she does to pay the bills... When we're together, we never talk about her work, we talk about life and what happens behind closed doors between us is far from what she lives and feel when working...

As youngboy4ts said : "Remember relation is built on Trust and loyalty"

Well that's exactly what is happening between her and me. - Trust and loyalty - ...who am I to tell her what to do with her life, honestly the only issue I have is being afraid that she would get hurt or mistreated by a crazy/maniac customer...

What is the percentage of divorce that are caused by infidelity As you all know it's very very HIGH.
Maybe couples should be more open minded and realized that "TRUST and LOYALTY" lives in the heart and is not a sexual thing... I know, easier said than done and it applies to me as well but if I was in an amazing loving relationship and that my partner felt that she needed to have another man once in a while, why not let her do it and as long as it doesn't affect our relationship and that we still enjoy making love together more than ever...where's the problem?

Think about it...

And to finish this off, let's just say that I once had an amazing loving relationship with a more than extraordinary girl that I would of spent my life with but I decided to end that relationship based on our sexual chemistry, it was great and I can almost say awesome but something was missing...I see everybody saying yeah...no cock...lol...well let me say that it was before I discovered that side of me so it's not that...

Cheers
The Frenchman

[rednose]

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My answer is yes, as long as we have enough private time for both of us.

I am waiting for her to say yes..

[paradigm5]

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As a guy who's dated a TS girl for over a year, helped bring her from the escorting world into the everyday world. Let me say this. there is a TON to it.
I believe escorting IS a psychological thing like some of you have been saying. IT has very LITTLE to do with money. oh by the way ive never paid for a escorting or done anything in the adult entertaining industry. anyway.
Its all about Validation, they need constant validation to feel like the best woman theyre becoming. And escorting gives them a kinda fleeting security in that.... but as ive learned over time, its like filling a cup with a hole in it. she had escorting for about 6 years, she wasnt JUST using it to pay for surgerys and such, it became an acceptable way of life. if i said her name im sure most would know of her.
I dont believe in FORCING someone to go from esorting to not, its a choice, i presented that choice of "you can be with me, have a happy healthy relationship and yes it may be hard, or you can escort" and its up to her. i dont believe in the separation of sexuality and intimacy. It comes hand in hand with me.
i dont believe in letting her livea double life, thats dumb and will lead to all kinds of problem
For you men out there who would like a relationship with one. Realize that youre getting a girl who can be sexually numb, will not be the most emotionally stable, and will have alot of baggage.
Like i said it takes a strong man.
I gave one everything, but when i wasnt there, i was overseas, she resorted back to escorting, then when i came back to begged and pleaded for me to take her back and after what shes done, i just took her back, why? i duno. maybe she has kinda a hold over me. its very odd.
and thats where im at these days..

my advice... we all have baggage, but id go looking for someone who's developed their inner strength to not have to resort to thigns that could cause future problems. in a world full of excuses. take the time to find a good one. but make sure you work on yourself enough that youre deserving of HER.

[paradigm5]

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OH and as far as JUST4U said. sorry but in my opinion thats the dumbest thing i ever heard. A "open mind" doesnt mean you should "let her go have someone else one in awhile"
sorry dude. i know everyone level of happiness is different. and i know you may be okay with accepting that type of stuff. but i believe in a completeness. i believe if you let that go youre selling yourself short.
never settle for half ass-ness. even out of relationships.

[markerverse]

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paradigd5 - ........ Every time I read someone exercising control over another or even advocating same, I cringe. Where the reasoning and motives might appear in the best interests of another, dominate behaviour is in a very true sense a form of 'slavery'. No person , adult person of sound mind that is, should be bullied or otherwise coercerced into doing the bidding of another. Each of us is gifted with a free will. Free will, among other considerations, is representative of our dignity , expression, our very self. It is a very precious freedom. Mine will never, voluntarily, be handed over to another.

Just my thoughts on the subject.

[paradigm5]

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Agreed. I dont see it as being controlled or coerce or even manipulating. Like in my situation its just giving a choice. Your just saying "this is what i will and will not tolerate for my life" youre not asking them to change something they wouldnt UNWILLINGLY change. but some tgirls do kinda need that push and help if they want it, i know im speaking in generalities. but yea i agree and maybe its best to not even get involved if they spoon doesnt match your pudding.

[Olmac]

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I voted yes. It is just as job and as long as everything is done safely I have no issue with it. I dated a GG that also worked as an escort. Quite frankly, I got a kick out of haveing sex with her and thinking everyone else is paying for it.

[luv4all]

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This is my first post, I've allways been sort of a lurker here with not much to say in the way of most post because they are titled WHO IS THE BEST ESCORT etc.

The reason being?

I've never bought an escort!
I can't get it up thinking that right before me a 400 pound man had her too...I mean it's a money thing, not a suave thing!

I prefer using my gift of gab, to pick up girls,...and if i go home empty handed then fine.

I've allways found it super strange when i hear guys at work or wherever bragging about a hot hooker they did! DUDE, there is no game in it, you just gave her money!
You can brag when you PICK UP a hot peice of ass, not when you PAY for it!

Now I am not putting down the profession, especially for t-girls because there is a psychological nature to it as eluded to by others in this post...also with the prejudice out there it is harder for them to get regular jobs...so escorting is the way to go.

NOW! Like i said, i've never paid for an escort, but I have dated them, that is why i'm answering this post.(finally something i know about!)

I date allmost exclusively TS's and that can be hard because talk about a minority! lol!~

Add to that, that most are escorts because of the many reasons stated, and what else am I to do? Of course I usually end up dating an escort.

In almost every case the escorting went wayyyyyy down after dating...just regulars who allready had thier number, and that i and she felt was safe.
No more actively promoting and certainly not street walking!

In every case it was just a natural thing, I didn't BAN them,...it just happens... and if they are still obssesed with the escorting, then there is no love! ...and also the sex between the two of you will suffer imensly...some girls get a very warped sence of sex and have NEVER made love. They've only fucked.
SHOW ME THIS SHOW ME THAT! LET ME SUCK YOUR PUSSYSTICK!

And the last thing they want to see is a dick after getting back from 'work'.
That's why mechanics have the shittiest cars!

I had a gf once who was a long distance relationship and would spend time between me and her homestate, and she only escorted when she was there, (also at which time i was allowed to do whatever i wanted too! fair is fair!) It was a loving relationship and worked out wonderfully...it was the distance, not the escorting that eventually broke us up.

I guess obviously my answer is yes they can still escort, but they usually dont want to! Like i said if they really care for you, they are not going to be fucking 3 men a day and then coming home to you!

LISA knows this and her post said it all about not even wanting to go there, cause she's doing her own thing right now...good for you! you have a strong head on your shoulders.

Another thing no one has touched on is that it's not just you, (the man), who has things to overcome!
ALL THIER LIVES MEN HAVE WENT STRAIGHT FOR THE DICK AND COULD CARE LESS ABOUT WHAT'S BETWEEN THE EARS!

DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY FALSE PROMISES AND LIES TG'S HAVE PUT UP WITH FROM MEN!

It's gonna take them a while to get comfortable with you too GUYS!

Does the term TRANNYCHASER come to mind anyone??

I can't tell you how many girls I've talked to who think the guys loves them, but he won't bring her out of the house! GOD FORBID his friends and family find out!
(in fact, I'm willing to bet that when you T-girls talk of a new boyfriend, the first question that's asked is if he brought you to meet his freinds and family yet.)

It takes patience from both sides. Most girls can tell right away that I'm not using them by my actions, and i soon find out whether or not I'm being used.

YOUNGBOY4TS i hate to say it, cause you seem like a really nice guy, but you were being used. that girl was never your gf and you were someone who she could get stuff from without putting out! She, as a lot of escorts do, probably actually hated sex...these girls see the worse in men over time. She didnt have a square head and she didn't love herself. that's where your cuddling and such came in...and GF's don't just STOP calling...they break up or whatever.

SO YES EVERYONE, YOU HAVE TO LET THEM BE WHO THEY WERE WHEN YOU MET THEM!
IT'S LIKE THE OLD THING US MEN HATE! YOU SMOKED POT WHEN THE GIRL MET YOU, AND AFTER A BIT SHE WANTS YOU TO STOP!

I am in a LTR with a t-girl right now who made a lot of money escorting...the escorting is dropping off slowly almost to a nil and now we struggle with what we've got...and what we've got is a lot of love and nothing to complicate things.

...and I'm really lucky too! She has almost 0 baggage! I'm more of a basket case than she is! She's funny and loving and smart!...and we are so in love we make those around us sick!

Our sex life is fantastic, we can't keep our hands off each other.

she's still learning how to make love though......
and I'm there to teach her....
with soft carresses...
with strong arms...
with my love...

Good luck to everone

[lisa]

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LUV4ALL truely thats one of my fav post,so thoughtfull and remarkably cander.i luv the part about machanics and why they drive shit cars after working a decade or so with them i so know what your talking about.im shocked that theres so many yes votes,i somehow wonder if we were genetic girls there would be alot more hell no and less yes votes.ive had an indepth conversation with a man recently who is the other half of one of toronto top shemale escorts and i felt for him because i related to him in a sence that along time ago almost 2 decades to be exact i met my ex wife in a strip joint she was a feature dancer and very beautifull i might add and i remember making the mistake of going into the club early as she was doing a private dance on a box at his table ya thats how they did it back then and the guy was jerking off less then 2 feet away from her and i was sick to my stomach and to me it was very tramatic i just couldnt imagine the thought of my significant other having sexual relations with anyone other then me,call me selfish but i just couldnt deal with it not then and sure as hell not now.yet i dont look down on anyone that does it anymore maybe cause most of my regulars are very happily married and in a small way i know when they come and visit me they will be alot happier going home with a smile on there face and in some small way i know there home life is alittle better,atleast thats my way of thinking,anyways gotta watch sportscentre ttys