Question

[kranberry]

For those of you that are attached and have partners, I have a few questions. Have you told your partner of your penchant for TGirls? If so, how did they react? Also if you have a partner, how do you feel when you visit SPs? I'm just curious as to what other people in my situation feel. I'll answer my own questions to start.

No I have not told her as I know what her reaction would be. Some of you may say you never know, but trust me I do know and it would be a negative reaction. In terms of visiting SPs, I haven't yet mustered the courage to visit an SP. I'm right now teetering on the edge and I might join your ranks before the new year. ;D

[prettyboy]

Re:Question

In my experience the best time to reveal your fantasy to a partner
is during or just after a glorious 'bang', when she is both filled and fullfilled with
your sexual energy and in no doubt about your sexuality or your feelings for her.
IMPORTANT.. Ask her to tell you one of her fantasies first.Hopefully it will
be strange enough that ,in context, yours will not seem too wierd,to either of you.
Be sure to let her know that your fantasy involves a girl with a cock, not a man in a dress, if you don't want her to think you queer.
Women have the same propensity,if not more, for sexual fantasy, they just don't admit it as often. They also love honesty and openness in a relationship,so you get 'brownie points' for that.
Keep it in the theoretical realm ie."it's just a fantasy- i don't think i could ever act on it" untill her reaction guides you further.
Don't feel ashamed or embarressed by your revelation, it's a lot more common than you might think, and it's part of who you are,your sexuality is as valid
as anyone elses .
As you have not yet acted upon your desires you have total immunity to
anything that your 'trouble and strife' may throw at you , all you have done so far is reveal your innermost vulnerability,'you're quids in' mate.
Now the tricky bit.......if you feel that she's 'right against the concept' then
you must consider a clandestine liason with one of our beauties,and to be honest i'v allways found an added thrill to the 'illegal'.
That of course is for your own moral code to determine.
Do bare in mind that you are probably not going to get romantically involved
with any of the girls, so is it really much worse than having a wank to thoughts of your neigbours teenage daughter?
Good luck.