Great Expectations or The Unreasonable ?

[markerverse]

Frequently we read lamentations by men who, following an appointment, express dismay ,frustration, or down right anger with the service of the provider. Much of the disgruntlement can be attributed to
a) misunderstanding.
b) overly anticipating.
c) personal unpreparedness.
d) selfishness.

What normally follows is the client unloads a host of complaints aimed directly at the service provider ,full of invective , inuendo, and offering a proposition without proof. The end result may reduce the 'girl' to trailer trash status, if not worse, and play havoc with her means of support. I'm certain most will agree this method of addessing disagreement by the client is self-serving and highly prejudicial.

My question then ? What do you feel the chosen girl should include as basic to her side of an agreement? Perhaps you may wish to include the rationale for your choices?

Maybe , just maybe, a better understanding of ourselves may reduce our need to 'publicly flogg' the girl just because we believe she didn't give our visit her personal best.

Civility costs nothing. Respect is priceless.

[miakoxxx]

Re: Great Expectations or The Unreasonable ?

Hi there , all I say is very well said ! And that is in reality is true.

[Rantsalot]

Re: Great Expectations or The Unreasonable ?

After business has been tended too I propose that both parties involved in an encounter wether it was a pre arranged or impromptu meet discuss with one another how the writings should be addressed at a site such as this. As you say

"a better understanding of ourselves may reduce our need to 'publicly flogg'

Then again this idea is HIGHLY idealistic.

[aguyoutthere1]

Re: Great Expectations or The Unreasonable ?

I'm not sure what you are asking. Personally I have never been comfortable discussing these details when calling a girl for a session. I guess we should be certain what services are provided before we get into it. By looking at the reviews I have a method of deciding who is worthy of my hard earned money. Let me assure you that most negative reviews have some truth to them. It is the clients perspective at that time. My feeling is that if a girl gets negative reviews all the time, or no reviews, I prefer to stay away. If she gets mainly positive reviews, I dig deeper to see if she tops, bottoms, kisses, rims etc etc.

And if a girls service is so bad that the reviews are detrimental to their income, GET GOOD AT YOUR JOB, OR GET A NEW JOB. It's nice to think that when you are self employed you have no boss. Unfortunately when self employed, the clients are always your boss, and in they end they decide if you will stay in business. And to be in a business where you don't have to pay taxes on all or any of your income is a pretty good bonus.

KC

[merelypink]

always do your reseach and also money is a girls best friend

[prettyboy]

And if a girls service is so bad that the reviews are detrimental to their income, GET GOOD AT YOUR JOB, OR GET A NEW JOB. It's nice to think that when you are self employed you have no boss. Unfortunately when self employed, the clients are always your boss, and in they end they decide if you will stay in business. And to be in a business where you don't have to pay taxes on all or any of your income is a pretty good bonus.

KC[/QUOTE]

Well put. The girls are in the entertainment business, they are very well paid and consequently it is paramount that they 'perform' to a standard worthy of the costs involved to the punter.
Obviously we all have our 'off' days, but for those of us who are self-employed it behoves us to make recompense if we do a crap job. Getting booed off the pitch or stage is totally acceptable if it is warranted.
This applies to the professional escorts that are the mainstay of this site, but this is the world of prostitution, consequently it also attracts lazy good for nothing crack head con artists who would steal your balls if they weren't in a bag. It is the treatment that a guy receives for his hard- earned dollar that distinguishes the two

[sensual_lover20]

Markerverse wrote another post in which I cannot decipher. My babelfish translator has faltered again on this one.

[dan_calgary]

pics & reviews & dress

I always look at a review before seeing a new girl, now it takes more then one bad review to shy me away, if a girl has numerous bad reviews, well duh, its not rocket science, to go elsewhere,

Pics are very important, and update regularly, girls like Lucy, Lola, Paris (montreal), Danika, and others are constantly posting new & sexy pics, and IT SELLS, some profiles have the same pics from over a year ago, that's lazy and poor advertising, come on a decent camera costs a $100, they don't have to be professional and they don't have to show between your legs.

It is frustrating when you have a date, and you make the appointment hours & hours in advance, and you show up, and the girl looks like she crawled out of bed, no make up, no dress appeal, unshaved, not ready. A total turn off, before you start.

The appearance when the client first comes in is the selling point (my feeling), if you are dressed sexy (lingerie & high heels, makeup done, clean and ready), no brainer.

It amazes me when I hear some girls say, well I'm charging the same or less then this girl and I have no business, and she has lots, well duh,

Let me say something about the majority of us "clients", we don't care about the price, I would rather spend 500 roses, have a good one hour session (sex & chat), then 200 roses for a crap session, lets face it, most of us our gone within 45 minutes.

If you are in this business & not getting many clients, I hate to say this, but the reality is, you are not doing a good job, as a service and appearance.

There is a reason why some girls are doing 5000 + roses a week,

REPEAT CLIENTS !!!!!!

[LOLA_]

you really good

Frequently we read lamentations by men who, following an appointment, express dismay ,frustration, or down right anger with the service of the provider. Much of the disgruntlement can be attributed to
a) misunderstanding.
b) overly anticipating.
c) personal unpreparedness.
d) selfishness.

What normally follows is the client unloads a host of complaints aimed directly at the service provider ,full of invective , inuendo, and offering a proposition without proof. The end result may reduce the 'girl' to trailer trash status, if not worse, and play havoc with her means of support. I'm certain most will agree this method of addessing disagreement by the client is self-serving and highly prejudicial.

My question then ? What do you feel the chosen girl should include as basic to her side of an agreement? Perhaps you may wish to include the rationale for your choices?

Maybe , just maybe, a better understanding of ourselves may reduce our need to 'publicly flogg' the girl just because we believe she didn't give our visit her personal best.

Civility costs nothing. Respect is priceless.