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I am really aghast and appalled AND offended the way some transgendered people discriminate other transgendered people, just because of some titles they believed they are the only one who are entitled to use, and just because some of transgendered ( like me ) reffered to ourselves as shemales or tgirls without having to go under the knife to have those; Perky boobs, Pelvic implants, Hormonal treatment, laser hair removal, etc. etc. etc., and so we must refrain others for addressing us as such, THAT to me is BS if not an outright discrimination and dont say no! coz, it'll be like the military recruiting agency or employement agency saying " we dont necessarily discriminate we simply exclude certain type of people" and that is exactly what some surgically enhance tgirls wants to happen here, to segregate a group of tgirls who havent done so, and dont say it's only for those escorts who advertise as shemales, well what and who gives you that right? by denying us which title we want to be address, most of you put your gender as females in some documents when you know your not, medically and legally. and what if those genetic girls hurled the same criticism at you, just because we havent met the rules or standards in some transgendered documents that you're probably using and which we are not aware of and using it to identify which or who doesnt belong. I have admired transgendered people who spent a lot of money for their surgery, who sacrificed a lot of pains and who put their lives in danger and whose health are still in perils because of the foreign object they have allowed to be implanted or injected to their bodies, to conform to what the society is looking for on how women should look like. I salute you, every single one of you. But if there are some of us who havent taken that leap yet on this transformations, Because of some personal, financial, emotional or even familial reasons or fear to any kind of surgery (which is my case) would it take a big part of you to accept others who prefers to keep their status quo? I respect shemales who keeps their private part, for economical, emotional attachment to their male organs. Since my early years of discovering that i'm different, i have always dreamt and wanted for someday to become a complete woman, clinically and legally and to be accepted by everybody, but that completion didnt came thru, though living as a woman full time since the age of 19, with only 5 years of hormones therapy and which i stopped a long time ago and the only times i didnt dress like a girl is when travelling internationally ( to avoid delays and confusions at the border or to my intended destination) and still without make up and ladies apparels some border officials still mistook me as a girl, can you imagine if i travel in heels and in frills. now to those claiming to be the legitimate shemales with breast and hips implant and who said they travel with passports and other legal documents indicating that they are females, please spare me as i have travelled a lot too, i've been to europe, south east asia and the north america, and i know how extensives the scrutiny and interrogation, they certainly cant use female on their passport, when they are not, if they do it's a misrepresentations of their real gender and which this legal documents required you to fill up truthfully. So please to the legitimate shemales, if you can guarantee that having just a pair of boobs, hips implants or silicone injections and some laser hair removal would make me a female in all legal and governmental documents such as my; citizenships, passport, drivers license and even in marriage certificate, I will run to the nearest augmentation clinic and choose the most real, softest and right fullness silicone breast for myself. I remember one post-op lady who frequented the club before and who happens to be close to me and telling me that it took her more than a year after her SRS( sex re-assignment surgery ) to have her legal papers granted to her and for her to change all her legal papers and documents to change her gender status from male to female, and she used to look down on shemales who opted in keeping their penises, after all their modification surgery to look like a woman, just because it's the tool (no pun intended) they needed to earn a living, in which i told her we have to respect on how the way this girls wants to live their life, as you want them to respect you and why you preferred to have that drastic surgery, and in which she said "well your right"
And what about the transmen, transguy in our community who doesnt have the luxury of being redone by a plastic surgeon, who hides their bossom by wrapping it tightly to conceal that god given breast, do they have to have it removed before they're entitled to use the title or being address as he instead of she, some would say well it's different with lesbian people because they dont escort and not deceiving anybody, and i'm telling you disrimination is discrimination in whatever shape and form. For the society to discriminate us transgendered people is not only unjust, ungodly and inhuman, BUT for transgendered person discriminating another of the same kind is like a jewish person discriminating another person from another race.
I was at the fashion event last saturday at Goodhandy's and witnessed a great camaraderie amongst the Tgirls for a good cause, and seeing those lovely models involved, there was Sue, Mayumi and femmi, three of the lovely models, who havent got those enhancement surgeries and yet their beauties and personalities were equal to those who have it.
I agree 100% to everything Toban has said. And we shouldnt put too much emphasis on label, i have read Dr. Renne Richards book, she is the controversial doctor and tennis Pro. who ignited so much publicity, as she dealt with her emotional and pyschological pains in dealing with her transitions, but her most trying times she said is dealing with her growing son, in the book she said that until now her grown up son calls her Dad in front of everyone in social and in public gatherings and said she's not bothered by it, in fact loved it! that her son still honored her with that title and calling her Dad with love and affections, rather than the alternative with disdain and disrespect.
To those who implied that those Tgirl admirers who avail the services of this Tgirls who have no enhancement surgeries are all gays, is pure and simply stupid thing to say and the sexual act performed on this Tgirls are considered or categorized as an act of homosexuality and with them is not. Whoever said and posted this may i ask are you putting too much sugar in your coffee? and what douche do you use to clean your asses? coz it's certainly affects your brains. I for one have no hang ups with label and categories you can address me whatever you want and what you feel i deserves call me a she, a he, a eh, a seh i dont care just treat me as a person and well go along fine.
I have a deep respects for men who are into Shemales, Tgirls, Trannies or whatever, this men who knows and accepted what they are and men who accept us transgendered people as unique characters, for as long as they shows us and treated us with respects, we too should reciprocate them with the same. We musnt discriminate anyone or anybody.
I dont discriminate age as long as there is a chemistry and attractions, i dated a 60 year old man because of his integrity and personality, plus we had chemistry and i was in my 20's at that time and the first time we have to do it and his first Tgirl experience he said; Jen, honey before we do it, lets first pray for guidance 'in which i respond' darling just pray for endurance, i'll take care of the guidance.
ALWAYS ASPIRE INSTEAD FOR PEOPLE TO LABEL YOU AS A KIND PERSON THAT YOU ARE AND A HUMAN CAPABLE OF SPEAKING AND ACTING LIKE ONE!
( Markerverse i like your input on that topic too! your a cool guy)
JENLLANI
And what about the transmen, transguy in our community who doesnt have the luxury of being redone by a plastic surgeon, who hides their bossom by wrapping it tightly to conceal that god given breast, do they have to have it removed before they're entitled to use the title or being address as he instead of she, some would say well it's different with lesbian people because they dont escort and not deceiving anybody, and i'm telling you disrimination is discrimination in whatever shape and form. For the society to discriminate us transgendered people is not only unjust, ungodly and inhuman, BUT for transgendered person discriminating another of the same kind is like a jewish person discriminating another person from another race.
I was at the fashion event last saturday at Goodhandy's and witnessed a great camaraderie amongst the Tgirls for a good cause, and seeing those lovely models involved, there was Sue, Mayumi and femmi, three of the lovely models, who havent got those enhancement surgeries and yet their beauties and personalities were equal to those who have it.
I agree 100% to everything Toban has said. And we shouldnt put too much emphasis on label, i have read Dr. Renne Richards book, she is the controversial doctor and tennis Pro. who ignited so much publicity, as she dealt with her emotional and pyschological pains in dealing with her transitions, but her most trying times she said is dealing with her growing son, in the book she said that until now her grown up son calls her Dad in front of everyone in social and in public gatherings and said she's not bothered by it, in fact loved it! that her son still honored her with that title and calling her Dad with love and affections, rather than the alternative with disdain and disrespect.
To those who implied that those Tgirl admirers who avail the services of this Tgirls who have no enhancement surgeries are all gays, is pure and simply stupid thing to say and the sexual act performed on this Tgirls are considered or categorized as an act of homosexuality and with them is not. Whoever said and posted this may i ask are you putting too much sugar in your coffee? and what douche do you use to clean your asses? coz it's certainly affects your brains. I for one have no hang ups with label and categories you can address me whatever you want and what you feel i deserves call me a she, a he, a eh, a seh i dont care just treat me as a person and well go along fine.
I have a deep respects for men who are into Shemales, Tgirls, Trannies or whatever, this men who knows and accepted what they are and men who accept us transgendered people as unique characters, for as long as they shows us and treated us with respects, we too should reciprocate them with the same. We musnt discriminate anyone or anybody.
I dont discriminate age as long as there is a chemistry and attractions, i dated a 60 year old man because of his integrity and personality, plus we had chemistry and i was in my 20's at that time and the first time we have to do it and his first Tgirl experience he said; Jen, honey before we do it, lets first pray for guidance 'in which i respond' darling just pray for endurance, i'll take care of the guidance.
ALWAYS ASPIRE INSTEAD FOR PEOPLE TO LABEL YOU AS A KIND PERSON THAT YOU ARE AND A HUMAN CAPABLE OF SPEAKING AND ACTING LIKE ONE!
( Markerverse i like your input on that topic too! your a cool guy)
JENLLANI
And you did it with a lot more eloquence than I could ever muster. Congrats to you!
It's truly sad and tragic to see, when it happens 
I don't expect most of the memebers will read past jenllani's post as it has no pics of Dicks, cum or balls 
but I just sold my 12 boxes of comics on craigs list....I think he might have been a dealer but he was like kinda quiet, barely even looked at them! I didn't think I would ever sell them but I was like whatever like the value has really gone down since you can get everything on EBAY for like $1 
I just kept a couple like one amazing spiderman 300 and some other stuff.
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