Forum censorship/HIV topic

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Re: Forum censorship/HIV topic

Ok I just want to say one last thing here Paul I am with your totaly like I'm flabber gasted too! I just think we can post it in a better way then coming down on one person when there were like 30-40 people involved in this situation.

Also I'm just saying I really do believe that many of you don't know enough how to take care of your health and it is obvious most of the burden is falling on the service provider. You have to be a little more proactive in these situations and just like I said before treat it like a pedestrian crossing and look both ways even if the walk signal comes up.


I mean what if someone says they are + ....are you going to take their word? What if they say they are - ....are you going to take their word?


Also HIV is like tha LAST thing you should worry about because you can get so many other things that are more common and they liek Longfoghorn siad be with you for life....I never see people asking about these things and maybe we should discuss this.


If you don't know how to use a condom....ASK
If you don't know what is good lube....ASK
If you don't know where to check out your health if you don't want to go to a doctor....ASK


There are so many ppeople on here that know EVERYTHING about adult fun....there is no good excuse for not knowing how to take care of your own health on here.

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The points you make in post # 15 are valid and supported by common sense folk. In fact, throughout the length and breadth of this particular thread a number of good points have been raised.

Now that the fallout has settled and our composure re-established , lets try to learn from the experience. I've said it previously. CIVILITY doesn't cost anything.

I have not been offended.

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"If this girl does have HIV" "have any of the gentlemen who have barebacked Natasha in the past been tested HIV+?" What are you implying that sooner or later someone will test positive?

I have fucked Natasha bareback.

I had an HIV test done last week.

I was negative.

Does that mean that Natasha is negative?

Not for a minute because it's very difficult, though not impossible to contract HIV if you are the one doing the topping.

Was I scared during the test?

You bet I was.

Oh, I also fucked Samantha from Hamilton bare back. Well, more accurately, I had my pants down around my ankles in the VIP at the lounge and at one point she grabbed my cock and impaled herself.

Actually, come to think of it, my experience with Natasha was similar. It was at the old Shemale Spa nights at Central Spa. I went back to Natasha's room, it was 120 bucks, we were necking with her in the missionary position and she impaled herself as well. About 10 strokes in, I said, "I don't think this is a good idea" She responded that I was already in. She was right, but I still pulled out and came on her instead of in her. Why, I'll never know, it doesn't make a difference. She was very reamed out. Obviously, she's a total bottom.

Oh, and I've taken cum in my mouth from Lucy (when she was at the Lounge) and Samantha (again at the Lounge) I've also sucked a couple of other shemale dicks BB, but not to completion.

Am I proud of it?

No, it's just the facts.

At my latest HIV screen at Hassle Free, they ask you to fill out a questionaire. It's strange to have to check off that you have had sex with "Trans Women" There are 4 categoies, Women, Men, Trans Women, Trans Men. I checked off Women, Men, Transwomen. Later I was wondering if shemales would be "Trans Men", or "Trans Women" I figured Trans Women.

In the room, they ask you what you know about HIV, talk to you without judgement, which is cool. I was honest with them. (Not something I am in my every day life sadly.)

I was told that there are four sources of HIV - Blood, Semen, Vaginal Juices, and Breast Milk. Shit is not one of them.

They ask you if you f**k women BB - answer yes.

They ask you if you f**k men BB - answer yes

They ask you if you get fucked by men BB - answer no.

(Oh, and sorry to disappoint, but men includes Trans Women since they are men. You can live in denial all you want, but if you take it up the ass from a T-girl, you are have male male penetrative sex. Again, if you want to use HF, it works best when you are honest with them.)

I tested negative, but that was truly a time for reflection. I've done some stupid shit in my time and the BB shemale stuff definitely is at the top of the list.

Bottom line, this sex thing, like all sex things, involves risk. It is not possible to eliminate risk. It is possible to mitigate it. Condoms do not eliminate risk. If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen.

Oh, and one thing I did ask them. I had read some of Lucy's posts where she was stating that she gets checked once a month and has certificates from Hassle Free on file at her place that customers can look at as to her HIV status. I thought that Lucy was bullshitting, that HF did not issue any sort of certificate. I asked the councilor about that and he said that they don't issue certificates, however, they will give a copy of the results to you if you like. He asked me if I wanted a copy. I said no thanks. So Lucy was being honest.

Oh, and last thing, if you suck a dick, don't brush or floss your teeth for 3 or 4 hours afterwards as you could cut your gums allowing a path for the virus to enter your system. Better to walk around with Semen breath.

cheers

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Re: Forum censorship/HIV topic

Cliff

Excellent post. I made a comment in another thread about some if not most here being hipocrites because most of us do not always make the right decisions when the little guy is at large, but you came forward and spoke honestly about who most of us are at one time or another. Thanks for endorsing my comments. As for some of the comments made about certain girls here slander and/or liable come to mind and I am sure the admins and/ or owners do not want to deal with so if not for the sake of the reputations of "ALL" the girls please take the owners and admins into account when posting something damaging here. After all it's there world we just get to play in it

My sex drive can be frightening to me. It's not something I discuss with anyone frankly. No-one, and I mean NO-ONE knows about some of the wilder shit I have done. As a result, I don't confide in anyone, and therefore, can't get their advice or feed back. Forums like this are my only source of discourse then. I can be honest here because I can be anonymous. For that matter, I don't know how what I do compares to what other men do? Where do I fall on the sexual spectrum?

In both my BB topping experiences, I did not seek it out, however, I did let it happen I suppose.

The funny thing is is that I don't seek out bottom Tgirls; I actually enjoy playing with thier cocks and that would include receiving anal. I guess I would be considered primarily a bottom, though in both my BB experiences, (come to think of it, I've only topped Tgirls twice in my life and both occasions I was bareback) I was completely and fully erect and both Nathasha and Samantha just impaled themselves on my bare cock. I was completely into fucking Samantha because I was so fucking horny at the time that virtually all caution was thrown to the wind. It was the first time I had met her and she totally did it for me. (Though interestingly enough, the two other times I had her at the lounge, she was very distant and uninspiring and uninspired. Oh well.)

Most Tgirls know that 90 percent of their customers are probably predominantly straight even married men. The odds of any of these guys being HIV + is very very slim.

I've never received anything but covered anal. I'd love to try BB, I admit, but there's no way. Receiving BB is truly HIGH risk behaviour. I have to be careful I don't find myself in a position where this could happen.

I'd be curious to know what percentage of gay males actually engage in bareback anal sex (receiving that is).