I recieved a very allarming msg from one of my very good regular clients via msn messenger today. I was informed by this client that a very well known tgirl from the GTA had informed he I was nothing but a cross dresser. Well it was broughten to my attention befor that this girl had been saying these mean mallicious things about me trying to basically ruin my career and I ignored it. I know everyone is going to be starting a flame war if I mention the ladies name, so I will not be I would like advice on how to deal with this? Oh and btw you know EXACTLY who you are...
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Re: Two Faces To Every Tgirl
Originally posted by LexiI recieved a very allarming msg from one of my very good regular clients via msn messenger today. I was informed by this client that a very well known tgirl from the GTA had informed he I was nothing but a cross dresser. Well it was broughten to my attention befor that this girl had been saying these mean mallicious things about me trying to basically ruin my career and I ignored it. I know everyone is going to be starting a flame war if I mention the ladies name, so I will not be I would like advice on how to deal with this? Oh and btw you know EXACTLY who you are...
Why someone would think calling you a crossdresser would hurt your career is beyond me. Some girls think that their business will increase, if they put down other girls. Take my work for it ladies, it does not work! It just makes you look more bitter than you are. T-Girl admirers will see someone if they want to see someone, that has been proven time and time again. I made more money when I was a drag queen, and was open about the fact.
I can totally attest to the fact that Lexi lives full time as a Trans Woman, so that does not classify her as a crossdresser.
And as every T-Girl knows by now, I do not have close personal ties to any T-Girls in the community. But when I have something to say, or an opinion, I will state it.
My advice is to ignore these comments, because these types will always come up with something to say. The important thing is how you feel about yourself and who you are, and nobody can take that away from you.
We need to stop airing our dirty laundry on these message boards however, it just breeds more hate and hostility. And some of the "pretend" T-Girl lovers, and nasty Trans Girls are being entertained for free.
Don't let this get to you. My God! Have you heard the things they say about me? If I let it get to me, or believed any of it, I would be living under a bridge somewhere giving "gum jobs" for a living (but still counting out the millions of dollars I have made from these same Nasty Trans Ladies, that are attacking you). There are some amazing T-Girl admirers out their, and some wonderful Trans Women, just concentrate on them. It will keep you positive and confident, as you should be.
Mandy
P.S I would take inventory of the "Client" that told you this, maybe he should have just kept it to himself, obviously telling you about this only made you unhappy. Why would he want to make you unhappy? Knowing about it will not stop it from happening.
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The reason why it had caused such conflict between myself and this client is because he came at me like he was in a witch hunt. He was horrified thinking he had been with a man and not a tgirl... I wouldnt show this client my breast because I dont like them and he had said "All the pieces are falling togeather now...."... Obviously I was deeply offended because if I am not comftorble with something I am not comftorble with it end of story. So then I am sending him pictures of my breast (I have not seen him in 6 or 7 months so they have grown more and I feel more comftorble) he see's this and by this point I am really hurt by these accusations. When he told me who it was I felt so stupid beyond words because this is not the first time. I almost wanted to cry I have not gotten this far dressing up just for clients I live and breathe this is me who I am 150%. I felt like I was being robbed of this because some other girl has had a few nose jobs and a set of dd's. It's not how many times u go under the knife that makes you a tgirl just for the record there ladies and gentleman...
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Re: Two Faces To Every Tgirl
Originally posted by Shemale AmandaOriginally posted by LexiI recieved a very allarming msg from one of my very good regular clients via msn messenger today. I was informed by this client that a very well known tgirl from the GTA had informed he I was nothing but a cross dresser. Well it was broughten to my attention befor that this girl had been saying these mean mallicious things about me trying to basically ruin my career and I ignored it. I know everyone is going to be starting a flame war if I mention the ladies name, so I will not be I would like advice on how to deal with this? Oh and btw you know EXACTLY who you are...
Why someone would think calling you a crossdresser would hurt your career is beyond me. Some girls think that their business will increase, if they put down other girls. Take my work for it ladies, it does not work! It just makes you look more bitter than you are. T-Girl admirers will see someone if they want to see someone, that has been proven time and time again. I made more money when I was a drag queen, and was open about the fact.
I can totally attest to the fact that Lexi lives full time as a Trans Woman, so that does not classify her as a crossdresser.
And as every T-Girl knows by now, I do not have close personal ties to any T-Girls in the community. But when I have something to say, or an opinion, I will state it.
My advice is to ignore these comments, because these types will always come up with something to say. The important thing is how you feel about yourself and who you are, and nobody can take that away from you.
We need to stop airing our dirty laundry on these message boards however, it just breeds more hate and hostility. And some of the "pretend" T-Girl lovers, and nasty Trans Girls are being entertained for free.
Don't let this get to you. My God! Have you heard the things they say about me? If I let it get to me, or believed any of it, I would be living under a bridge somewhere giving "gum jobs" for a living (but still counting out the millions of dollars I have made from these same Nasty Trans Ladies, that are attacking you). There are some amazing T-Girl admirers out their, and some wonderful Trans Women, just concentrate on them. It will keep you positive and confident, as you should be.
Mandy
P.S I would take inventory of the "Client" that told you this, maybe he should have just kept it to himself, obviously telling you about this only made you unhappy. Why would he want to make you unhappy? Knowing about it will not stop it from happening.
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Originally posted by LexiOriginally posted by Shemale AmandaOriginally posted by LexiI recieved a very allarming msg from one of my very good regular clients via msn messenger today. I was informed by this client that a very well known tgirl from the GTA had informed he I was nothing but a cross dresser. Well it was broughten to my attention befor that this girl had been saying these mean mallicious things about me trying to basically ruin my career and I ignored it. I know everyone is going to be starting a flame war if I mention the ladies name, so I will not be I would like advice on how to deal with this? Oh and btw you know EXACTLY who you are...
Why someone would think calling you a crossdresser would hurt your career is beyond me. Some girls think that their business will increase, if they put down other girls. Take my work for it ladies, it does not work! It just makes you look more bitter than you are. T-Girl admirers will see someone if they want to see someone, that has been proven time and time again. I made more money when I was a drag queen, and was open about the fact.
I can totally attest to the fact that Lexi lives full time as a Trans Woman, so that does not classify her as a crossdresser.
And as every T-Girl knows by now, I do not have close personal ties to any T-Girls in the community. But when I have something to say, or an opinion, I will state it.
My advice is to ignore these comments, because these types will always come up with something to say. The important thing is how you feel about yourself and who you are, and nobody can take that away from you.
We need to stop airing our dirty laundry on these message boards however, it just breeds more hate and hostility. And some of the "pretend" T-Girl lovers, and nasty Trans Girls are being entertained for free.
Don't let this get to you. My God! Have you heard the things they say about me? If I let it get to me, or believed any of it, I would be living under a bridge somewhere giving "gum jobs" for a living (but still counting out the millions of dollars I have made from these same Nasty Trans Ladies, that are attacking you). There are some amazing T-Girl admirers out their, and some wonderful Trans Women, just concentrate on them. It will keep you positive and confident, as you should be.
Mandy
P.S I would take inventory of the "Client" that told you this, maybe he should have just kept it to himself, obviously telling you about this only made you unhappy. Why would he want to make you unhappy? Knowing about it will not stop it from happening.
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Hi lexi, I knowing you personally and being a friend found this very disturbing that it was brought to your attention. I guarantee you you r far from being a crossdresser not that there is anything wrong with crossdressers.You are a beautiful T-girl in my books darling! The importance is that you have the admiration of your friends and loved ones...XO AlyssaJust a fly on the wall
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Interesting topic...i guess all popular tgirls have experienced this drama.
Do NOT worry Lexy!
Amanda is right:
1. You are definitely a TGIRL NOT A CROSS DRESSER. IS HE BLIND OR WHAT...??
1.Those who try to ruin you career actually has started to ruin her career herself ( jealousy..a deadly toxic..that makes her grow old and jaded very soon). Nobody believes this gossip anyway, so it makes her look worse in front of clients' eyes.
2. Every client is mature enough to choose the right shemale for himself. they do NOT believe cheap gossips like that. However, if he believes it. He is simply NOT good enough for you.
3. Be NEUTRAL. I totally agree with you Amanda that you finally prefer NOT to have any special tie to other tgirls. It's better that way. I am doing the same thing right now.
4. Last but Not least. There is nothing wrong with crossdressing. Every TG started as TV right? Besides...crossdressing is fun for some people. I have some clients who are crossdressers. And Yes, it's merely a fetish for them. I am totally OK with that!
Other things:
The key of our success is NOT our reviews, BUT ourselves: our look, our service, our attitude and professionalism.
Most people do NOT read reviews anyway and they come to see us because our pics are good and we are their type.
And your pics look Great!
My 2 cents!
Tia
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I'm a HUGE tg admirer.... but i must say....
You mentioned your client was worried he might of been with a man(cd) instead of a TG.
Well many of us tg admirers like to think we don't engage in gay sex. Being with a tg is the same as being with a man. Granted we are not turned on in the slightest by a man. we enjoy a woman with a lil extra. she is still "technically" a MAN.
So next time remember when you say you like she-cock not gay cock. Most people will just see it that you like cock regardless.
A lil note to LEXI...... because of the lifestyle you have choosen, you and many other tg's are the champs at experiencing stares/nasty comments/discrimination etc.....So that being said you have already made the major hurdle. You have already proven your strength as a living trans woman.
KUDOS to you and all your sister for being strong enough to be yourselves. Being call a crossdresser.....not that there is anything wrong with it....should be water off a ducks back.
cheers to all the Tg's@tsmile004 on twitter
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Well Lexi is not a crossdresser, and i am pretty sure who put the guy up to it. (Gayphobia works wonders on guys)
Some shallow people think because one has no implants and loads of surgery, that they are not a TS, that is BS.
I have never thought of Lexi as anything other than a girl.
I have actually had a request to remove all crossdressers from my escort section of my website because they interfere with the "Real Trans(s)exuals". Well if the Real ones are so superior then they should not be worried about competition from "inferior" crossdressers. Even if i was to ban crossdresserswhere would I draw the line?
There is no way to draw the line. Mostly if you are living most or all the time as a woman, you are not a crossdresser, you are transgendered.
There is some TGs that truly want to be women and there are some that are just doing it for fun or money.
Regardless i see no real difference on the outside and it is pretty hard to see what is really in your head.
And if guys are really being "fooled" by these Crossdressers then you should be looking at the guys, not the girls.
As far as I am concerned there is enought business to go around for all and instead of whining that the crossdressers are keeping you down, maybe go out and promote yourself. Focus on your clients and give them an experience they can get no where else. Attacking others will just come back on you eventually.
Addtionally if you are having trouble with the competition, maybe you should check your own attitude. That is most likely the problem, not some CD you have a hate on for.
And you guys that do the bidding for these individuals and spy on the other girls for them, I say shame on you.
Toronto is the worst place i have seen for this kind of crap.
We should all just get along
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Originally posted by CraigybWell Lexi is not a crossdresser, and i am pretty sure who put the guy up to it. (Gayphobia works wonders on guys)
Some shallow people think because one has no implants and loads of surgery, that they are not a TS, that is BS.
I have never thought of Lexi as anything other than a girl.
I have actually had a request to remove all crossdressers from my escort section of my website because they interfere with the "Real Trans(s)exuals". Well if the Real ones are so superior then they should not be worried about competition from "inferior" crossdressers. Even if i was to ban crossdresserswhere would I draw the line?
There is no way to draw the line. Mostly if you are living most or all the time as a woman, you are not a crossdresser, you are transgendered.
There is some TGs that truly want to be women and there are some that are just doing it for fun or money.
Regardless i see no real difference on the outside and it is pretty hard to see what is really in your head.
And if guys are really being "fooled" by these Crossdressers then you should be looking at the guys, not the girls.
As far as I am concerned there is enought business to go around for all and instead of whining that the crossdressers are keeping you down, maybe go out and promote yourself. Focus on your clients and give them an experience they can get no where else. Attacking others will just come back on you eventually.
Addtionally if you are having trouble with the competition, maybe you should check your own attitude. That is most likely the problem, not some CD you have a hate on for.
And you guys that do the bidding for these individuals and spy on the other girls for them, I say shame on you.
Toronto is the worst place i have seen for this kind of crap.
We should all just get along
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What gives ANYONE the right to talk smack about another person especially if its to lower that persons rep and good name?
Can we say SLANDER?? Which by the way is a serious offence.
The girls that posted here dig Lexi. I've never talked with her or spoke with her or met her but from what I've read I dig her too. So....like what....does that make me a follower or something? No. It means that no matter who you are, if you've been wronged ...seriously wronged.... I'm going to back you up cuz that's the right thing to do.
I'm FUCKING serious about that too.
With everything happening in the world today you'd think people would at least TRY and get along especially those in the t woman community. I can just imagine the ups and downs these ladies have.
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