How honest should I be? An insecure escorts dilemma...

[MimiLove]

Im a stupid bitch

[Jpcarter]

Go with what you have been told by guys therefore it is not a lie and you cant feel guilty about something that?s true. You?ve been told you are sexy, nice tits etc etc go with that

[MimiLove]

Im a stupid bitch

[Hondo]

Well maybe those guys have bad taste. You know I dreamed of being a xxx actress since I was very young , but I would never watch a porno with me in it!

How about "Im told I'm pretty , I will let you be the judge , just please dont judge me to harshly im very sensitive"

or

"Im a sexy in some peoples opinion shy ts with very small breasts and soft coconut oiled skin....."

If you need to tell the truth, which in itself is an admirable quality lacking in most people these days, go with the positive and what you know to be true. " I'm a cockslut whore with small natural breasts, nice legs, a tight ass and an appetite for cock that can never be satisfied". What about "I am you're submissive fantasy TS with small natural breasts, soft skin and an insatiable appetite for men. I am yours to do with as you please and fantasize. Your wish is my command." And about your breasts, I always found that what couldn't fit in a man's hand or mouth was excess anyway.

[Ana_Jolie]

Well maybe those guys have bad taste. You know I dreamed of being a xxx actress since I was very young , but I would never watch a porno with me in it!

Funny you say that... Jenna Jameson has never watched a single one of her movies. Most girls trans and genetic are insecure about their looks. Make the best with what you have. You don?t need to make your ad sound like you?re some self obsessed person Emphasize what matters in an escort ad don?t make it sound like a project for a therapy session. If someone is going to come see you it is first and foremost based on looks.

[MimiLove]

Im a stupid bitch

[MimiLove]

Im a stupid bitch

[tao1kiku]

Self confidence is a state of mind that comes from within, and does take time. It is also borne from a sense of self worth and self respect. We can be our own worst enemy when looking in a mirror.

One can be a total submissive, but still be confident. And remember, in any power exchange scenario, it really is the submissive who controls the scene, a dominant should always respect the sub's limitations. Safe, sane and consensual.
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[MimiLove]

Im a stupid bitch

[Ana_Jolie]

Thank you so much for taking the time to answer sweetie. If I was Jenna Jameson I would surely watch myself though :P

Everyone is right. Confidence comes with time. It took me being 300 pounds and losing the weight to finally appreciate myself and get some self worth. Be kind to yourself and understand you are not perfect and shouldn?t aim to be it will never happen. Appreciate what you got and what you like about yourself and go with that.

[MimiLove]

Im a stupid bitch

[Nyles]

There could be some wisdom in contacting astteq (http://www.astteq.org/aboutus.html) and the lady we both know.

They may be able to provide you with some foundational assistance that would help you master or learn how to deal with problems that still may exist after your fantasies are fulfilled.

[MimiLove]

Im a stupid bitch

[alex99]

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[Pat]

J'ai des nouvelles pour vous

I feel bad when I write that Im sexy or pretty in my adds. Sometimes people say I'm pretty and other times I get insulted or mean looks, idk, i have lots of self image issues. People say i should try to show confidence because thats what attracts people but I hate feeling like I'm untruthful.

But when I say Im sexy i feel guilty. In my fetlife profile Im more open about my body image issues but as an escort i haven't found a way to say it that wouldn't be a total turnoff. I kind of like the words i found for my escort adds though ( Im a sexy shy feminine trans ,i have very small natural breasts ,long silky smooth legs and a nice round ass to please you with. I'm "bottom" only and submissive , and I'm ready and willing to serve you with my soft sexy body and hot hot lips...)

I must say my legs really are very silky smooth , thanks to hormones and coconut oil , but my add doesn't mention how i don't like my upper arms , i have a scar on one of them , i don't like my shoulders , hands , feet , hips , ass , etc etc

The only things i find ok are my eyes , but their getting signs of aging beneath them. Some guys seem to like my ass and even my tiny breasts (which have been on a growing spurt lately thank god) but to me it will never be good enough , feminine enough.

I often feel like just saying everything I don't like about myself so guys don't expect to much , I'm always scared people will be disappointed because in my pics you dont see the scar on my arm and stuff like that , i try to take them from angles that advantage me and i often end up very depressed when i try to take pics because just to get one nice one it takes me so many tries , like 49 horribly ugly pics for one ok

On my fetlife i've posted writings and such that talk about these things, and it makes me feel better , I even made a song about it not so long ago , its called body image issues

https://soundcloud.com/melissalove_m...y-image-issues

People have told me I should show confidence because thats what people are attracted to , but I feel like I would be faking , i usually end up telling ppl that tell me Im sexy , "ya but i have tiny breasts and im tall and im not 20 yrs old so i have signs of aging and i dont like my body and I have a scar and i'm not passable and....." One guy told me that guys don't see the same way as I do , but I sure see these things and its hard to pretend I'm some sexy confident girl when I really not.

Lately I started putting Milf in my adds so people will expect a few wrinkles and fine lines (omg so scary) and since last week I stopped stuffing my bra , whatever i have tiny breast , now I feel better just being my small breasted self.

I guess my question is should I pretend I'm sexy, or should I just advertise as a so so looking ts with lots of flaws and self esteem issues.

Any ideas of how to say this and still not scare everyone off? I'm sure you'll probably say I shouldn't be an escort if I have such issues , but Im quite dysfunctional and don't really know what else I can do at the moment.

I would appreciate any input you may have , and at least I already feel a little better having posted this because it will lower expectations, im scared of clients that have too high of standards , im not a pornstar or one of those elite escorts , they say i give good deepthroat and that i drool alot and that my ass is very tight , and that im submissive, i guess those are my qualities

I just think honesty is always the best way , im just not sure how to say Im ugly in a sexy way

The sexiest part of a woman's anatomy is her brain and that true beauty comes from within. Stick with that belief and you will be just fine. Pat Bonne Chance