Non-Escorts

[torontoblondeblue34]

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hahah i dont even know where to start with this one.,. yes.. kudos to all them smart ones charging for sex.. ruining the chance for other tgirls to be viewed as respectable people too.


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Hey buddy,

In answer to your question, yes there are tgirls in Toronto (as in other cities) who are not in the sex trade; although they maybe hard to find because they are rare and most of them are stealth and want to remain unnamed. But yes there certainly are. I have seen and met some already.

I would be careful though to hastily equate "respectable" with "non escort t-girls" since there are also t-girl escorts out there who are very respectable and are in the profession due to immediate need. Some of them actually are obligated to support their families in their motherland like the asian tgirls I know or have a goal to further their transition and pay for their surgeries. I have also heard that some tgirls get out of the sex trade as soon as they do not feel the need for it or as soon as they have reached their goals and move on to better themselves by going back to school to finish a degree or land a regular job.

Bottomline is you would know a person is respectable once youve actually met them and gotten to know them. In the case of tgirls, you would see one who is classy or respectable by the way she talks, the intrinsic values she has and generally the way she carries herself. It has no relation to what what she does for the moment, what brand of clothing or purse she wears, or how much money she has.

Oh and whether people on here agree with me or not, I think if everyone had a better choice, no one would want to prostitute him/herself..... moreover, I think all of us just want to find that ONE special someone we could share our bodies and the rest of our lives with.

Enough said.

[shy_girl]

Re: Non-Escorts

hahah i dont even know where to start with this one.,. yes.. kudos to all them smart ones charging for sex.. ruining the chance for other tgirls to be viewed as respectable people too.

Hey buddy,

In answer to your question, yes there are tgirls in Toronto (as in other cities) who are not in the sex trade; although they maybe hard to find because they are rare and most of them are stealth and want to remain unnamed. But yes there certainly are. I have seen and met some already.

I would be careful though to hastily equate "respectable" with "non escort t-girls" since there are also t-girl escorts out there who are very respectable and are in the profession due to immediate need. Some of them actually are obligated to support their families in their motherland like the asian tgirls I know or have a goal to further their transition and pay for their surgeries. I have also heard that some tgirls get out of the sex trade as soon as they do not feel the need for it or as soon as they have reached their goals and move on to better themselves by going back to school to finish a degree or land a regular job.

Bottomline is you would know a person is respectable once youve actually met them and gotten to know them. In the case of tgirls, you would see one who is classy or respectable by the way she talks, the intrinsic values she has and generally the way she carries herself. It has no relation to what what she does for the moment, what brand of clothing or purse she wears, or how much money she has.

Oh and whether people on here agree with me or not, I think if everyone had a better choice, no one would want to prostitute him/herself..... moreover, I think all of us just want to find that ONE special someone we could share our bodies and the rest of our lives with.

Enough said.




[/quote]Well said Torontoblondblue. It is nice to see someone like you with such intelligence talked about tgirls in such a dignified way. Only a gentleman would look at the transgendered world with your perspective ie equal and unbiased. Most men expressed hatred with escorts like the guy you quoted. From my experienced as a fulltime tgirl who have also escorted in the past, these men are usually the bitter ones who are maybe trapped in a miserable relationships with women or someone attached and wants to get it for "free". It is nice to see someone with such class for a change. Thank you.

[Andrew69]

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If you're looking for a non-working girl, then they won't be jumping into bed with any guy who asks. if they're having sex with everyone, they might as well charge. Most of the time the guys asking for free sex are the ones who don't want to date the girl, or be seen with her in public.

I agree with you 200%. those men are better off paying escorts. What a shame....most men love sucking cocks behind close doors but are scared to be seen with a tgirl in public. Tgirls are a lot smarter now especially the escorts who are not gonna let some cock sucking faggot take advantage. Thanks girls....keep up the good job...make them pay...all escorts deserve all the money they get.....Kepp up the good work!

I agree with Rose's statement 100% as well. However your post comes across as inflammatory and implies that you are bitter.

[youngboy4ts]

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There are many special girls in Toronto that are Non escorts.
Why are you looking for non escorts because you don?t want pay is that what you mean then you forget we are living in 20 century nothing is free everything cost money.

There is nothing wrong with dating Escorts special girls. Escorts are a Human as well so they should treated the same way that other gets.

Respect!!!

[shy_girl]

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If you're looking for a non-working girl, then they won't be jumping into bed with any guy who asks. if they're having sex with everyone, they might as well charge. Most of the time the guys asking for free sex are the ones who don't want to date the girl, or be seen with her in public.

I agree with you 200%. those men are better off paying escorts. What a shame....most men love sucking cocks behind close doors but are scared to be seen with a tgirl in public. Tgirls are a lot smarter now especially the escorts who are not gonna let some cock sucking faggot take advantage. Thanks girls....keep up the good job...make them pay...all escorts deserve all the money they get.....Kepp up the good work!

I agree with Rose's statement 100% as well. However your post comes across as inflammatory and implies that you are bitter.

It only comes across as bitter to those who are getting hit right where it should be.

[Andrew69]

Re: Non-Escorts

If you're looking for a non-working girl, then they won't be jumping into bed with any guy who asks. if they're having sex with everyone, they might as well charge. Most of the time the guys asking for free sex are the ones who don't want to date the girl, or be seen with her in public.

I agree with you 200%. those men are better off paying escorts. What a shame....most men love sucking cocks behind close doors but are scared to be seen with a tgirl in public. Tgirls are a lot smarter now especially the escorts who are not gonna let some cock sucking faggot take advantage. Thanks girls....keep up the good job...make them pay...all escorts deserve all the money they get.....Kepp up the good work!

I agree with Rose's statement 100% as well. However your post comes across as inflammatory and implies that you are bitter.

It only comes across as bitter to those who are getting hit right where it should be.

I think your statement reads the same no matter who reads it. Are all men who like tgirls cock sucking faggots? or only the ones who don't want to pay?

[torontoblondeblue34]

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Well said Torontoblondblue. It is nice to see someone like you with such intelligence talked about tgirls in such a dignified way. Only a gentleman would look at the transgendered world with your perspective ie equal and unbiased. Most men expressed hatred with escorts like the guy you quoted. From my experienced as a fulltime tgirl who have also escorted in the past, these men are usually the bitter ones who are maybe trapped in a miserable relationships with women or someone attached and wants to get it for "free". It is nice to see someone with such class for a change. Thank you.

Hello Shy Girl,

Thank you for your sentiments. I have always been a firm believer that our chosen professions do not make up our persons. Behind every lawyer, doctor, educator, artist, sex trade worker, actor, model, information technology professional etc is the real person. Ergo we should never be judged solely by what we do.

However for the record, I just want to state that I do not condone escorting. I say this because I would never encourage or push any friend, loved one or relative, woman or man to do it. I may support them and continue to love them if they happen to be doing it for valid reasons but at the same time will encourage them to get out of it as soon as they can.

I have been witness to brilliant minded and beautiful ts women who, after years of being in the sex trade industry, become jaded in life and love; confident tgirls who were once outspoken become unreasonably insecure and have gone from bad to worse in their social skills; smart tgirls whose minds have been twisted to think that: it is an elevated status to be paid for sex compared to the "poor" non-sex trade working people who get it or give it for free. They have become blinded to the fact that outside of the sex trade world, people take risks everyday when it comes to their quest of finding that one person who could be their soulmate; where some fail and some, after picking themselves up and trying again, eventually succeed.

I feel for ts women and their walk. I have loved one who, although she has never been an escort, would constantly battle and work hard to be passable just to gain acceptance in the non-sex trade world she was living in.
And I was there to encourage her and tell her that deep inside every person is that same need to be accepted, man woman or ts, and that all she needed to do was to be her beautiful self and accept the fact that she doesn't have to please everyone. The point I'm driving at is that it is already extremely difficult for these men and women to be TS; given the challenge they face in being the gender they want to be in, let alone be a sex trade worker.

And lets face it there are trashy, crass and simply crude t-girls out there just like there are undesirable men and women. Reading on this forum alone tells you which ones belong to this category. And yet there are the ones who, because of their beauty, class and character (be it escort or non-escort), leave a trademark that you will never forget.

To them I give my highest regard, respect and best.

[shy_girl]

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Well said Torontoblondblue. It is nice to see someone like you with such intelligence talked about tgirls in such a dignified way. Only a gentleman would look at the transgendered world with your perspective ie equal and unbiased. Most men expressed hatred with escorts like the guy you quoted. From my experienced as a fulltime tgirl who have also escorted in the past, these men are usually the bitter ones who are maybe trapped in a miserable relationships with women or someone attached and wants to get it for "free". It is nice to see someone with such class for a change. Thank you.

Hello Shy Girl,

Thank you for your sentiments. I have always been a firm believer that our chosen professions do not make up our persons. Behind every lawyer, doctor, educator, artist, sex trade worker, actor, model, information technology professional etc is the real person. Ergo we should never be judged solely by what we do.

However for the record, I just want to state that I do not condone escorting. I say this because I would never encourage or push any friend, loved one or relative, woman or man to do it. I may support them and continue to love them if they happen to be doing it for valid reasons but at the same time will encourage them to get out of it as soon as they can.

I have been witness to brilliant minded and beautiful ts women who, after years of being in the sex trade industry, become jaded in life and love; confident tgirls who were once outspoken become unreasonably insecure and have gone from bad to worse in their social skills; smart tgirls whose minds have been twisted to think that: it is an elevated status to be paid for sex compared to the "poor" non-sex trade working people who get it or give it for free. They have become blinded to the fact that outside of the sex trade world, people take risks everyday when it comes to their quest of finding that one person who could be their soulmate; where some fail and some, after picking themselves up and trying again, eventually succeed.

I feel for ts women and their walk. I have loved one who, although she has never been an escort, would constantly battle and work hard to be passable just to gain acceptance in the non-sex trade world she was living in.
And I was there to encourage her and tell her that deep inside every person is that same need to be accepted, man woman or ts, and that all she needed to do was to be her beautiful self and accept the fact that she doesn't have to please everyone. The point I'm driving at is that it is already extremely difficult for these men and women to be TS; given the challenge they face in being the gender they want to be in, let alone be a sex trade worker.

And lets face it there are trashy, crass and simply crude t-girls out there just like there are undesirable men and women. Reading on this forum alone tells you which ones belong to this category. And yet there are the ones who, because of their beauty, class and character (be it escort or non-escort), leave a trademark that you will never forget.

To them I give my highest regard, respect and best.

Your girlfriend is one lucky girl. Wish i live closer maybe there's a chance. Kidding aside, I agree with what you just stated. I respect escorts as much as I respect other professions. I used to be one and I know what its like. Respect to all my sisters out there. Like I said, the guys who complain abpout escorts are the ones who wants it for free. Too bad....tgirls are not easy.

[Lani]

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Well said Torontoblondblue. It is nice to see someone like you with such intelligence talked about tgirls in such a dignified way. Only a gentleman would look at the transgendered world with your perspective ie equal and unbiased. Most men expressed hatred with escorts like the guy you quoted. From my experienced as a fulltime tgirl who have also escorted in the past, these men are usually the bitter ones who are maybe trapped in a miserable relationships with women or someone attached and wants to get it for "free". It is nice to see someone with such class for a change. Thank you.

Hello Shy Girl,

Thank you for your sentiments. I have always been a firm believer that our chosen professions do not make up our persons. Behind every lawyer, doctor, educator, artist, sex trade worker, actor, model, information technology professional etc is the real person. Ergo we should never be judged solely by what we do.

However for the record, I just want to state that I do not condone escorting. I say this because I would never encourage or push any friend, loved one or relative, woman or man to do it. I may support them and continue to love them if they happen to be doing it for valid reasons but at the same time will encourage them to get out of it as soon as they can.

I have been witness to brilliant minded and beautiful ts women who, after years of being in the sex trade industry, become jaded in life and love; confident tgirls who were once outspoken become unreasonably insecure and have gone from bad to worse in their social skills; smart tgirls whose minds have been twisted to think that: it is an elevated status to be paid for sex compared to the "poor" non-sex trade working people who get it or give it for free. They have become blinded to the fact that outside of the sex trade world, people take risks everyday when it comes to their quest of finding that one person who could be their soulmate; where some fail and some, after picking themselves up and trying again, eventually succeed.

I feel for ts women and their walk. I have loved one who, although she has never been an escort, would constantly battle and work hard to be passable just to gain acceptance in the non-sex trade world she was living in.
And I was there to encourage her and tell her that deep inside every person is that same need to be accepted, man woman or ts, and that all she needed to do was to be her beautiful self and accept the fact that she doesn't have to please everyone. The point I'm driving at is that it is already extremely difficult for these men and women to be TS; given the challenge they face in being the gender they want to be in, let alone be a sex trade worker.

And lets face it there are trashy, crass and simply crude t-girls out there just like there are undesirable men and women. Reading on this forum alone tells you which ones belong to this category. And yet there are the ones who, because of their beauty, class and character (be it escort or non-escort), leave a trademark that you will never forget.

To them I give my highest regard, respect and best.

This is the most wonderful and heartfelt assessment and remarks that I have ever read in this forum.
Your carefully chosen words reflects everything that people have to know, without bashing someone or a particular group of people. I dont think anyone could take this post negatively. And your Membership here surely added to that much needed voice of reasons, along with many others who are here already like ( Toban ).
Your statements have proven that in a disagreements, we should fight fairly and No name calling. For people who registered and logged on here and wanting to meet someone ( even some claimed this is just a site primarily for sex),
They might also want or hoping to meet someone here and hoping it could grow to much more than just sex.
By now we all know that the Management here put up this site not only for people to hook up for sex, But also for us to mingle as a group and interact like common people.
Some members here referred other members to go to other website instead, for them to meet someone for dating and friendships, If It's just what they want. As a lot of people know by now that those sites
are now also use by working Girls and Boys to look for clients, and it's no longer just a site to find a date or for friendships.
As love is possible and can be found anywhere, Yes! even in this forum. Remember that great Love and Great achievements involve great risk. Never laughed at someones hopes and dreams even if it is about Love.
People who don't have hopes and dreams don't have much.

Again my Highest Regards and Respects goes to you; Torontoblondeblue34 for your Post.

[torontoblondeblue34]

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This puts a smile on my face. Thank you very much Jenllani.

If we actually just took the time to read the tenets of this website/forum, I think it is pretty clear that it doesn't just cater to shemale escorts and their fans but all tgirls and their admirers:
"Register and chat for free with shemales and shemale fans like yourself. get interactive on our shemale forum for transvestites, transsexuals, transgender, shemales and their fans. Get your answers to the questions that eat away at you like "are you gay for liking shemales?" Register and find out! Looking to chat up some of the hottest shemale girls we have some of the hottest shemales as members including Tasha Jones, Allanah Starr , Shemale lexi , Meghan Chavalier , TS Mona , Lisa Paradise , shemale lucy , Wendy Williams, and shemale karolina not to mention the hottest shemale reviews about escorts, video, dvds, pay sites and more!" .

I hope reminding the readers on here about this would stop the "reading comprehension-challenged" (for the lack of a better term) in discouraging non-escort tgirl admirers to search for the rare and evasive non-escort TS girlfriend in this website.

[Paco]

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Has anyone read the book "The man who would be queen" by J. Michael Bailey?

It's an excellent read, meticulously cited with personal anecdotes and insights that cement the scientific data pertaining to TS behaviour.

[Andrew69]

Re: Non-Escorts

If you're looking for a non-working girl, then they won't be jumping into bed with any guy who asks. if they're having sex with everyone, they might as well charge. Most of the time the guys asking for free sex are the ones who don't want to date the girl, or be seen with her in public.

I agree with you 200%. those men are better off paying escorts. What a shame....most men love sucking cocks behind close doors but are scared to be seen with a tgirl in public. Tgirls are a lot smarter now especially the escorts who are not gonna let some cock sucking faggot take advantage. Thanks girls....keep up the good job...make them pay...all escorts deserve all the money they get.....Kepp up the good work!

I agree with Rose's statement 100% as well. However your post comes across as inflammatory and implies that you are bitter.

It only comes across as bitter to those who are getting hit right where it should be.

I think your statement reads the same no matter who reads it. Are all men who like tgirls cock sucking faggots? or only the ones who don't want to pay?

I am reposting this to give Shy Girl another chance to respond to my post. Shy girl in the past you have taken umbrage with those who call transsexuals, shemales. Yet you have referred to men who like transsexuals as ?cock sucking faggots? . So I wanted to give you another chance to answer my question which was: Are all men who like transsexuals cock sucking faggots, or only the ones who don't want to pay?

[toronto737]

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I am reposting this to give Shy Girl another chance to respond to my post. Shy girl in the past you have taken umbrage with those who call transsexuals, shemales. Yet you have referred to men who like transsexuals as ?cock sucking faggots? . So I wanted to give you another chance to answer my question which was: Are all men who like transsexuals cock sucking faggots, or only the ones who don't want to pay?

ha. ouch

well anyways.. no idea this would stir up such lengthy posts.. and i never meant any offense to any escorts. was just asking if the girls here are all escorts or if its a board for all..

[Ana]

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I am reposting this to give Shy Girl another chance to respond to my post. Shy girl in the past you have taken umbrage with those who call transsexuals, shemales. Yet you have referred to men who like transsexuals as ?cock sucking faggots? . So I wanted to give you another chance to answer my question which was: Are all men who like transsexuals cock sucking faggots, or only the ones who don't want to pay?

ha. ouch

well anyways.. no idea this would stir up such lengthy posts.. and i never meant any offense to any escorts. was just asking if the girls here are all escorts or if its a board for all..

Well first and foremost this board was made for shemale escort reviews correct me if I am wrong admin... So yeh there is mostly escorts here and admirer's.

[kranberry]

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I am reposting this to give Shy Girl another chance to respond to my post. Shy girl in the past you have taken umbrage with those who call transsexuals, shemales. Yet you have referred to men who like transsexuals as ?cock sucking faggots? . So I wanted to give you another chance to answer my question which was: Are all men who like transsexuals cock sucking faggots, or only the ones who don't want to pay?

ha. ouch

well anyways.. no idea this would stir up such lengthy posts.. and i never meant any offense to any escorts. was just asking if the girls here are all escorts or if its a board for all..

Well first and foremost this board was made for shemale escort reviews correct me if I am wrong admin... So yeh there is mostly escorts here and admirer's.

I for one did not want to stir the pot, but from what I recall this forum is more than just for escort reviews. I also seem to recall, since I have been on the forum so long, that you have changed your name a few times.

I remember when I first saw you on this board, you claimed NOT to be an escort and here ONLY to socialize. Which is fine, you can escort or not, I'm not here to judge. So if you thought this board was made for escorts, why would you have joined a few years back to socialize and state that you are not an escort?