Meeting TGirl for serious relation

[BillyBottom96]

Hey all,

I've posted about this in the past but damn, I'm still at a loss. I have been searching for a serious relationship with a Tgirl for a while now. I have tried a few apps with little luck. Any advice? I'm not just looking for sex, but rather a girlfriend to spend time with and grow with. I have had a longterm relation with a genetic girl but at this point a GG isn't compatible for me in the bedroom

[justvisiting2016]

its a challenge because most trans women who are not escorts want to have (or already have had) SRS. So if you need a dick in order to have a long term relationship it does narrow the pool of available women out there. THere are non-op women who will keep their cock for ever, but small in number. I have dated a few who wanted to stay with the penis, but I live in a city with a lot of trans women. Not so easy in a lot of places.

"civilian" trans women do like everyone else does and look for love on eharmony, match, POF. Hookup apps like tinder and so forth won't get you very far if you want to find love.

its easier if you live in a major city as there will be a much larger population of LGBT people in the city. You can just go out socially and meet and talk to people like you would anyone else. a lot of transgender women still go to gay bars and LGBT friendly events because they have long time friends there and face less discrimination So those are good places to get out and approach nice people and talk and get their number and take them out on a nice date. Going old school i still the best for meeting anyone in my opinion. Get out, socialize, shake hands, get to know people and someone will come in your path if you are open and putting yourself out there. Dealing with online apps and so forth is frustrating to say the least. Nothing beats that in person conversation, exchange of numbers, and a good conventional date.

[Kylie Storm]

If I where you I would give up on that idea .....most trans women that are keeping the cock are SP and in order to give up the job and get into s monogamous relationship you better have a lot of money .... so your options are to date a SP that continues to dabble in the business or like I said you better have a lot of money also keep in mind the most trans women are really not interested in a relationship they like to keep it casual I know that for me, that?s how it is and for most of my friends that are trans women and providers that?s how they like to keep it as well, so I think that you have quite a challenge in front of you .

[Locomotion]

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Hey all,

I've posted about this in the past but damn, I'm still at a loss. I have been searching for a serious relationship with a Tgirl for a while now. I have tried a few apps with little luck. Any advice? I'm not just looking for sex, but rather a girlfriend to spend time with and grow with. I have had a longterm relation with a genetic girl but at this point a GG isn't compatible for me in the bedroom

If you're looking for a serious relationship, posting in an escort site would be the wrong place to look. You'll just end up being used.

I agree with justvisiting, try hanging out in a gay bar, socializing, asking a girl to dance.

If you're too shy to do this, another way is to set up an Instagram account with the sole purpose of meeting "civilian" trans girls, not escorts.

Follow one, then another, then another. If they like your posts, they will follow you back. Begin communicating with ones you like. Speak to them like you would a GG ... with respect, sincerity and honesty. i.e., NO dick pics. (unless she requests one of course)

There are a lot out there who haven't joined the escort life, especially in this day and age.

Regular trans girls who just basically want to be accepted as they are, and loved like the rest of us, where money is not an issue. I know they're out there because I've met some.

"If you want a fresh apple, don't choose from the barrel, pluck it fresh from the tree."
- The Untouchables

[Alexis]

Hey all,

I've posted about this in the past but damn, I'm still at a loss. I have been searching for a serious relationship with a Tgirl for a while now. I have tried a few apps with little luck. Any advice? I'm not just looking for sex, but rather a girlfriend to spend time with and grow with. I have had a longterm relation with a genetic girl but at this point a GG isn't compatible for me in the bedroom

If you're a bottom that want's dick your chances are next to none..

If you were a top that wanted ass.. your chances would be a lot better but still pretty slim..

99% of civilian tgirls are bottoms..

[BillyBottom96]

It definitely seems to me like it might be hopeless finding a nice tgirls who can top but it's still looking for a serious relationship. I will definitely try the Instagram idea though, and I feel like I have enough courage to visit a few bars and try and meet people in person. Thanks for the advice everyone

[tgirlnova]

I've been a civilizian tgirl for a while and I definitely agree that a lot are either bottoms regardless of being post or pre op. A lot are also trans lesbians who only want other women.

With that said, you're not gonna get any luckier even though you stumble upon a top/vers trans girl who wants a serious relationship because if them topping you is a deal breaker, then you'd be just labeled as a chaser and a lot of girls definitely don't want someone who sees them for what they bring into the bedroom. They want someone who will appreciate them as a person regardless of their sexual capabilities.

[BillyBottom96]

With that said, you're not gonna get any luckier even though you stumble upon a top/vers trans girl who wants a serious relationship because if them topping you is a deal breaker, then you'd be just labeled as a chaser and a lot of girls definitely don't want someone who sees them for what they bring into the bedroom. They want someone who will appreciate them as a person regardless of their sexual capabilities.

Yeah it seems like a tricky spectrum. I dunno I've been more interested in receiving as opposed to giving, but am just not someone who finds guys attractive, hence me looking into this possibility of a relationship with a trans girl. I can totally understand that most T-Girls would see bottom guys as chasers but I really don't think that's all I'm after. Behavior and roles in the bedroom is obviously super important but in the grand scheme of things, compatibility relies far more on people's personality than their genitals.

Anyways seems to me my search will remain pretty hopeless... If anyone knows a trans top looking for a regular 22y/o dude to date LMK lol

[Jim S]

I've been a civilizian tgirl for a while and I definitely agree that a lot are either bottoms regardless of being post or pre op. A lot are also trans lesbians who only want other women.

With that said, you're not gonna get any luckier even though you stumble upon a top/vers trans girl who wants a serious relationship because if them topping you is a deal breaker, then you'd be just labeled as a chaser and a lot of girls definitely don't want someone who sees them for what they bring into the bedroom. They want someone who will appreciate them as a person regardless of their sexual capabilities.

For me beauty is found between the ears..... not between the legs

[kyliekarma]

For me beauty is found between the ears..... not between the legs

Thats why you’re a gentleman!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Jim S]

Thats why you?re a gentleman!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Thanks you are very kind and sweet 💕

[ladyluv]

Hey all,

I've posted about this in the past but damn, I'm still at a loss. I have been searching for a serious relationship with a Tgirl for a while now. I have tried a few apps with little luck. Any advice? I'm not just looking for sex, but rather a girlfriend to spend time with and grow with. I have had a longterm relation with a genetic girl but at this point a GG isn't compatible for me in the bedroom

Depends on where you live. In Toronto, I found it pretty easy to meet and go on dates.

[Funlester]

Depends on where you live. In Toronto, I found it pretty easy to meet and go on dates.

Where do you find them ?