Is there a easier way?

[truck]

Im curious and got a question for everyone on the board who is experienced and has had alot of anal pleasure..

Now im new to this and have never had anal sex..
The only thing close was I let a woman lick my ass, you know rimming..
But never had anal intercourse. Never bottomed and never topped..

Ok there is nothing into topping, i mean you just get lube and push it in slow i assume...
But with bottom how does that work?..I mean everyone is different and obviously ive tried with objects like a banana or my finger and to tell you the truth it is painful..

How some of you find it pleasurable i will never know..I was thinking about trying it but if just using my finger hurts i hate to feel what a penis will feel like..

Is there a special way to do it so you dont feel discomfort?..

Im new and would like some input,...Only shemale experience Iva had was from Kim...and it was only oral..shes Very GOOD.. makes you feel like you came without actually cumming..pretty nice..

[Modulus]

Re: Is there a easier way?

At least you got balls and can admit it hurts you....most guys wouldn't do that and screw themselves up by doing it wrong and just moan with tears running out of the sides of their eyes and say they enjoy it.

This bud's for you

[Modulus]

Re: Is there a easier way?

Ok listen, you are having that sharp intense pain right when you insert it in a little bit...I mean it's very very sharp.....you almost need to moan or groan yes? Then you pull back whatever object out and the pain goes crazy for a couple of seconds more right?

[truck]

Re: Is there a easier way?

Ok listen, you are having that sharp intense pain right when you insert it in a little bit...I mean it's very very sharp.....you almost need to moan or groan yes? Then you pull back whatever object out and the pain goes crazy for a couple of seconds more right?

yes,
no matter what taht pain is always there...i mean i cant understand how some people enjoy that...

unless you really work your anus till its really loos like a vagina...
but even so im sure it still goes back tight right?..

[bottomguyusually]

Re: Is there a easier way?

may sound odd, but push out as you are trying to push in, and start with small things

[truck]

Re: Is there a easier way?

may sound odd, but push out as you are trying to push in, and start with small things

very odd...when anybody pushes out its usually when there taking a shit...

how am i gonna push out while im trying to push something in?
doesnt work for me...

i will stay on top, thats where i belong...that bottom thing is not for me at all..

[Modulus]

Re: Is there a easier way?

Ok dude

what you have to do is use a real toy I recommend a smooth dildo ....they are those vibrating ones but you don't need to use the vibrating funtion lol.

I'm saying one of those because so many dildos you buy now a days are VERY SOFT....these are no good you have no control....you need a firm one like maybe plastic or metal ones with this shape



then get some real lube like WET lube

WET original



- Go to the bathroom...push out....even if you don't have to go....just go

- jerk off and get hard

- then after... how you do this is you put the dildo on the floor(hold it with your hand and sqwat down onto it or get down on one kneee so it goes straight in and you have control. So when it gets past your Sphincter muscle you are getting these "spasms" so when it spasms.....pull it out......it's going to pain when you pull it out...give it like 30 seconds or so put some more lube on then try again.....and you should be OK....the muscle should be relaxed now.


And bananas are no good they have a very sharp edge even if you put it in a condom it's going to hurt.

Here is a image of the rectum and you can see the area that is causing you pain...once that is relaxed there is nothing past that to cause discomfort.

http://z.about.com/f/p/440/graphics/images/en/19312.jpg


Let us know.


but if it's not your thing then....it's not your thing....and nothing wrong with that

[truck]

Re: Is there a easier way?

nope not my thing

[aguyoutthere1]

Re: Is there a easier way?

This one is interesting as you have been with Kim and she certainly has a huge member. I realize she did not top you. I wrote a review on Kim and have to admit (once I got past her nerves and quirkiness, rudeness) she was the most careful considerate top I have had. She got that monster all the way in me. The trick for her was to lube me up real good. She rimmed me like crazy and fingered me slowly and lubed me up. It was awesome and trust me, I know what you mean about the pain. I had a threesome with Lucy and Suzy and Suzy is probably a bit bigger than Kim. I felt assaulted and raped. She seemed to love me squeeling like a little girl. So take it slow. I have to admit, once it is in, and you loosen up, it is a phenomenal experience and when you shoot a load while being ridden, you can hit the ceiling. ANother thing I like to do it I have a soft rubber butt plug about 4 inches and I'll sit on that for a while before I go to see a top. It certainly helps.


KC