Burned Again.....

[randrand60]

After reading some reviews on here I decided to call a very good reviewed girl - yesterday called her
on the phone, we spoke somewhat at length, and decided to book an appointment for 8 pm.

However, I got the usual - and dreaded - "call me from a payphone" at this time etc etc.

I drove all the way to Toronto in the freezing cold last night - a good 45k one way - got at
the interesection at the designated time - and voila - made my calls and all I received was
the answering machine at repeated calls.

Enough is enough - at least be professional and courtesy girls - I don't know how many times
I've ruined an evening - time and expense only to receive no answer, or the answering machine.

Out of courtesy Ive left the girls name out, although still debating that....

[vedderguy]

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If I was to guess I would say Kelly

[ribbit]

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Why do you feel the need to be courteous after she treated you like that?
If she did it to you she will do it to others.
If she hasn't offered up a good explanation within 24hrs, post her name so others won't get burnt.

R

[bubba7]

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Regardless of your experience(s), that still does not excuse HER behaviour. 

By the way, I too once used the "I forgot my wallet" excuse.
That was simply trying to be polite to the girl (and I use that term loosely
in my situation)

That occured when I got the person's home that the photo they
posted was so different and doctored as opposed to the person who
opened the door - who in a polite way - looked like a male wrestler
with serious substance abuse problems. I had to leave, and that
was the only yet poor excuse/alternative for me. Suffice to say I was
attacked and vowed never to see a TS for a very long time,
until this board came up and regular reviews were posted
so people did not have to be put into situations that
were uncalled for.

[Modulus]

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How did you post as a guest randrand60?

[ordinaryguy]

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It's happened to me when I book an appointment with a tgirl that she isn't picking up her phone. I just call another one and go right over. You guys who are always crying about getting stood up just cant seem to understand how it works. Blonde Tgirl has some good points. I know what the girls go through cause I have dated a few of them before. The girls have to take a guy if he calls. She can't wait to see if you show up. That's reality. If you don't like it - tough. If a tgirl isn't there go see another.

[Dr Strangelove]

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This sounds like the work of Nina/nikki/catherine. She pulled the same stunt om me two times. ( Man I'm a sucker for a nice cock)

[bubba7]

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First of all no one is crying, rather it's called being professional.
I didn't drive in the dead of night in the cold to then after not getting
answered, to now look through the eye magazine to try to find another
T-Girl who I didn't want to be in the first place.

My time is valuable, and I dont like it being wasted.  

Yes, it's "part of the business", however, if she wants my money
next time, it's not going to happen, and personally, I don't care
if 100 other guys didn't show up, hence her demeanor.

That is why boards like this serve a purpose - you rip me off,
waste my time, or deceive that others will know about it.
And the contrary runs true as well - if youre good, deliver
professional services and courteous people will know.

The last I need is some one to attempt to rationalize
rude and unprofessional behavior. No more commentary
will be posted by me.
       

[TonyDTiger]

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Tgirlblondie made some great points I can see how they take who comes first I guess the girls do deal with some A holes.

I always call when I leave and when I'm about 10min away I find it assures them that I am coming for sure.

[MattTheAxe]

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tgirblondiel, if you're having those problems with guys, solve them. Get their phone numbers if need be, and tell them you're calling them 2 hours before the date (or an hour; u choose the time) and confirming it. Tell them if they don't answer, and u get another date with person B, you're cancelling the first date. Live and learn, hunny. In this day and age, most people have cell phones so calling them shouldn't be an issue. Rise above the losers, and don't lose your professionalism.

I agree with bubba too. While I have never called an escort, I have gone up close to some tgirls who were good from far yet far from good. A picture is highly optimizable in the hands of a professional.

It still doesnt excuse the behavior of some men though. Myself, I just say the truth. For example, at the last shemale club night in october, I shared a cab home with one tgirl (like randrand, I'll protect her dignity). She turned out to be really weird and I was completely turned off. To make a long story short, after we got outta the cab, she invited me in. I said "I don't want to". When she realized I wasn't joking, she was like "alright, bye" and I left. It's not really that hard.

If you're a guy and u see an escort you don't like, just be honest. "Sorry, I'd rather f**k a mule" is my standard remark

[TonyDTiger]

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If you're a guy and u see an escort you don't like, just be honest. "Sorry, I'd rather f**k a mule" is my standard remark

Why would you say that?? That shows about zero respect for yourself and the girl.

[MattTheAxe]

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someone forgot to take his sarcasm pills this morning

[weswo]

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Ha ha ha do I have a story for you guys!!!

Really wanted to check out Paris but I thought about it for awhile and $200 was too pricey for me this time around. I decided on "Blond Bombshell" in eye magazine. boy o boy o boooooy!

Appears somewhat older, goodsize boobies appeared a little "not alllll there" if u know what i mean!

Her donation was $100 which lured me to her. When I got to her motel room I was unsettled at her repeatedly demanding the money as soon as I first entered her room. I was figuring to see men in uniforms soon to shake me down. So before I gave her her donation, I kindly requested to use her washroom as "I really have to go" . Nope no one in the washroom....

so the donation was given, she put me on her bed ...and I began sucking on her boobies. She asked me what I wanted to get into I said I wanted to give and receive (for the first time) anal. She said there was to be a $50 charge if i gave her anal (huuuuuh).

Bamboozled!!!

So i said on principal nooooo! but i decided to let her top me. here's the really really good part

she lubed me up, actually she poured oil in me crack, put a hat on and attempted to shove her "thing a ling" in me. I screamed ...not afraid to admit it,i did say "it really hurts...it hurts soooo bad..stop" my hole didn't comply with the forceful demand. Her reply was so out of the blue "that was difficult to get hard....you're my 11th client today....wow I've been busy...do u like Zsa Zsa Gabore? I love her and her media one liners"

Huuuuuuh?

Sooooo fellas moral of the story..cheaper aint always the median and determine the itinery before the cruise!

[Lacey]

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This is perhaps one of the most interesting topics I've seen on this discussion board and had to put my two cents in.  There are definitely some compelling arguments on both sides of the fence, as far as "etiquette" goes.  Randrand, you definitely deserve better.  I totally agree with you - especially if she knows that you're coming in to see her from that far and you gave her no indication that you were going to be a no-show.  It's unprofessional and it's rude.  Hopefully, your experience is the exception and not the rule.  And on the other side of the fence, tgirlblondie...we could probably write a book on the number of different ways people make excuses for cancelling or not showing at all.  In fact, it happened to me last night.  I had set up a date last night for 3:00am (yes, 3:00 in the morning)  I stayed up for our date and set everything up as he requested in his emails.  He called me several times that day and evening to confirm.  At 3:00am he pulled up to my parking lot and called me again.  He called me from his car and said he was too nervous for this and couldn't go through with it and drove away.  I don't have a problem with him being nervous and cancelling - that's understandable.  I do have a problem with him calling and emailing me several times to confirm and then cancelling at literally the last minute.  He never indicated any type of apprehension in his previous communications with me.  And that's just one example.  I've experienced (as I'm sure every other escort has experienced) everything tgirlblondie mentioned.  I think it all comes down to being respectful and courteous - from both sides.  Everyone's time is valuable, whether you're the client or the escort - everyone's time should be valued and respected. 

Maybe I should write a book on "Escort Etiquette!" 

I don't know if this posting will change the way people behave towards one another, but it sure felt good to let out!             

[Pat]

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There seems to be an opportunity here on this forum to possibly create some good will on behalf of the Gals and their Clients.

I thought the suggestion of Escort Etiquette was a brilliant idea. It seems to be a function of the times generally that there is far less courtsey

towards one another be it on the road or even something as simple as a "thank you" when one purchases an item in a store.

Common courtesy  towards one another in our society seems to be  becoming extinct.

Maybe  some mutual  dialogue here, would go along way towards making everyone's experience better.

I know my own skills in divinity are extremely limited, I can only deal with what I know not with  what I don't know.

So, rather that everybody getting irritated why not let each other know our expectations?

In my opinion we all might be surprised by the results.