How to find men

[Kendrasummers740]

So I'm a crossdresser waiting to transition but what should I do to find men? There aren't any gay bars here in circleville oh

[bigmtsl]

If I were you I would move out of Circleville to a larger city where you can meet men and transition with less judgement about you. Living in a small city of about 13,000 would be difficult to transition in without judgement.

[Kisa]

So I'm a crossdresser waiting to transition but what should I do to find men? There aren't any gay bars here in circleville oh

guuuurl, first of all if you are waiting your hrt you are not CD you are a trans girl. Just be patient, pretty soon u will have zero problem to find a good guy. i doubt you will have luck in gay bars tho. tgirls go there for opposite, just to have relaxed fun knowing nobody would try to pick us up. Also not every gay bar is friendly to trans girls. Canada 2019 yeah haha sure sure. Use insta or dunno some apps maybe.
Stay safe! Play safe!

[bigmtsl]

Not every gay bar is friendly to trans? Are you being serious, Kisa? That sounds like an episode from Pose where Blanca got tossed out of a gay bar, and that was set in the 80s.

[Kisa]

Not every gay bar is friendly to trans? Are you being serious, Kisa? That sounds like an episode from Pose where Blanca got tossed out of a gay bar, and that was set in the 80s.

Unfortunately yeah, not from staff but from people. They wouldn't say it to your face of course, we have laws after all. For me personally, since English is not my first language, when people talk around me it's just white noise but we had situations. I wish a few of my friends were on this forum but let me ask them if they would share stories.
Well some places or events for gay guys only and you can find articles about it. Places like bathhouses, events held at any bars and strip clubs. Not like I care really, I visit only Oasis once in a blue moon for bars I prefer ... it's a secret haha.

it's good that you have mentioned my fave tv show: just wonder, how 80s 90s or even 2000s are different from our times in the LGBTQ community, in terms of critical issues?
Also, Toronto is not all Canada. New York not all the States. One of our provinces canceled Pride while in some other people even not trying to organize something.