First time q?

[gt25]

I am curious to know if the first time (guys) hurts? I have been attracted to tgirls for the past 8 or so years, and really want to try. I watch vids, look at pics and I just have no other erotic fantasy (get off on the daily sometimes twice). Now I have tried a dildo and that kinda hurt, is there any suggestions for the first time?
thanks

[snoodle]

I suggest you use alot of vaseline ! Haha

[bottomguyusually]

actually

vaseline is a bad suggestion, use something like KY, no comparison. Start with something smaller like her finger, work your way up to the dildo or dick.

[the_conqueror]

I've been with a few different girls and got it in the rear end each time and I've never felt what I would call pain. It's more of an uncomfortable feeling. I find that I have to stop myself from squeezing my butt muscles together. As long as I do that and keep myself relaxed down there I find it very enjoyable.
And lots of lube helps.

[bottomguyusually]

So

Why do it if it is uncomfortable?

[eddie73]

First time

Make sure she touches you first with her fingers. Ask her to use her fingers in you first. You will feel yourself relax. Also, try a small dildo. It does not have to be big to feel good. And use lots of lube. going in and out quickly when you relax with something small really helps too. Good luck. Let us know what happens. Also, read these forums and ind the girl that others say are good with first timers.

eddie

I am curious to know if the first time (guys) hurts? I have been attractred to tgirls for the past 8 or so years, and really want to try. I watch vids, look at pics and I just have no other erotic fantasy (get off on the daily sometimes twice). Now I have tried a dildo and that kinda hurt, is there any suggestions for the first time?
thanks

[capitus]

Yeah, it hurts. Kind of a pressure hurt. Be ready for it, and if it doesn't hurt then great! And the up side is there is a happy ending. Start slow, see the right lady, practice. If all that fails then Top.

[daisuki888]

if u want to feel pleasure first u got to have in pain. sure it will be alright in some point of time. try to start with a small one.

[merelypink]

lots of lube!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[bottomguyusually]

no pain no gain

[TSd8]

Just do it....what city are you in

Remember that, although it does hurt at first, .... once you get past the pain, comes the most incredible pleasure, and, most importantly, the best orgasm of your life. You never forget our first. There is a huge difference between cumming, and having an ORGASM. Trust me, you'll be hooked.... BTW where do you live, so we may suggest, awesome providers that will rock your world?

[Rockheart]

Some people just never like being bottoms.
I have tried it like 2-3 times.
Everytime i just hope it is over soon.

[Lou King]

Valium + lube + cock in ass = classic first time