A Boyfriend Would Be Nice

[TSJASMINE]

💘found

[Markdev1221]

Move to Winnipeg. Ill put a ring on that finger

[tao1kiku]

From what experience I've had both dating and marriage with Trans women....

If you are looking for a romantic relationship, dating should be that, in that you are both taking time to go out, being seen together, getting to know each other first. Communication, trust, shared values, compatibility and reliability/keeping his word count for far more than finding someone who is hot.

Make dates going out to places, doing things (could be a day in a park with a picnic lunch or checking out art galleries or whatever). Just make sure the dates are going out, not a "date" at his place or your place.

Especially when at a restaurant together, see how he treats the restaurant staff. It sounds strange, but how he treats restaurant staff will be a reflection of how he treats you.

Have nights out where it is you two as a couple along with some of your trusted friends (be they trans, gay or straight). They can help you see things about him that you may have missed, and especially when out with trans friends, see if he is hitting on your friends. True trusted friends will watch your back and will give you honest feedback.

If dating romantically, make it at least 3-4 weeks before you get to the bedroom stage. Not only does it build the anticipation, it weeds out a number of guys who are dating just for a quick lay.

DO NOT IGNORE any red flags you see or feel.

And while I've said it before, it is worth saying again. Communication and reliability/keeping their word is so so important. If a guy is going to be late, he should let you know and not keep you waiting. Flaking out on anything from a date or them saying "Yes I will do ......" especially in the early stages of dating gives you a vision of things to come. If they flake out on the little things, you can't rely on them for the important things.

But just remember, these rules/guidelines would apply equally to you as well.

Just my two cents worth.

[wgp14]

If you were in Winnipeg I’d love to take you on a date.

[traplvr]

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[TSJASMINE]

Thank you everyone 🥰 I wish I could find a date in Montreal or at least Toronto

[youngboy4ts]

From what experience I've had both dating and marriage with Trans women....

If you are looking for a romantic relationship, dating should be that, in that you are both taking time to go out, being seen together, getting to know each other first. Communication, trust, shared values, compatibility and reliability/keeping his word count for far more than finding someone who is hot.

Make dates going out to places, doing things (could be a day in a park with a picnic lunch or checking out art galleries or whatever). Just make sure the dates are going out, not a "date" at his place or your place.

Especially when at a restaurant together, see how he treats the restaurant staff. It sounds strange, but how he treats restaurant staff will be a reflection of how he treats you.

Have nights out where it is you two as a couple along with some of your trusted friends (be they trans, gay or straight). They can help you see things about him that you may have missed, and especially when out with trans friends, see if he is hitting on your friends. True trusted friends will watch your back and will give you honest feedback.

If dating romantically, make it at least 3-4 weeks before you get to the bedroom stage. Not only does it build the anticipation, it weeds out a number of guys who are dating just for a quick lay.

DO NOT IGNORE any red flags you see or feel.

And while I've said it before, it is worth saying again. Communication and reliability/keeping their word is so so important. If a guy is going to be late, he should let you know and not keep you waiting. Flaking out on anything from a date or them saying "Yes I will do ......" especially in the early stages of dating gives you a vision of things to come. If they flake out on the little things, you can't rely on them for the important things.

But just remember, these rules/guidelines would apply equally to you as well.

Just my two cents worth.

You nailed it. Very good reply.. I have given those same advice to many people when they talk about dating and being with special girl or girl being with man for long term.

Respect!!!

[StrokeShow69]

That will be a lucky guy!

I'll say!