Dating and Relationships

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So I was hoping some people could shed some light on this topic for me.

I am attracted to all women, but there’s something about a woman with something extra that drives me off the wall.

The extent of my experience has been with service providers, which is okay, I don’t mind paying for a sexual relationship at all, but I’m seeking more than just a business transaction.

Transexual women are women, I understand that, and I go on dates with beautiful women all the time. I hope when we get back to my place, she has a surprise for me. Lmao.

I hope this doesn’t sound ignorant or insensitive but how can one meet a beautiful transsexual woman who’s not a service provider, or if they are, one who is seeking more than just a pay for play relationship?

I know you’re out there, mysterious stranger, and I am looking for you. Someone enlighten me, please and thank you.

[Guest]

There are transgender women on both Tinder and Grindr seeking relationships. I found my Filipina girlfriend on a site called Pinalove.

[Jake163]

She’s beautiful! Lucky you

[Guest]

Thank you. She’s a beautiful human being. More like her there in the Philippines and Thailand.

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I understand that if I were to travel overseas, I could have a girlfriend while on vacation, then make it work long distance, and visit again. If things got serious, yes okay progress is made BUT I mean is that the ONLY option?

Come on, we are all human, and there have to be some local options...I don’t think the only or best option is a plane ticket across the entire world, to find a part time, long distance relationship...

Grindr is a no go, the girls I see on there ask for payment, unfortunately. Tinder I’ve deleted, but when I was on it, all cis women. I think. 🤔. Could be wrong, perhaps they did not advertise.

And obviously seeing as we are all human, it just depends on chance of meeting someone, which I understand...maybe I’ll get lucky and cross paths in a local cafe, but what are the chances?

Are there any TGirl dating apps from Toronto?

If not, Asia, here I come... 🙄

[Guest]

I am pretty sure there are a lot of transgender women on Tinder. They will usually mention it in their profile since I don’t think the app is really set up for them. I know many transgender women in the Philippines use it but I don’t know about Canada.

A long distance relationship is not ideal especially now but my girlfriend and I have been together for two years. She is worth waiting for.

[tao1kiku]

I have found with both transgender and genetic women in North America the shopping list syndrome.

The shopping list for a relationship with GG's is typically what kind of job and career path do you have, do you rent or own, what neighborhood do you live in, what kind of car do you drive, how well do you dress, etc etc. For Trans women it is are you hot, how tight is your bod, how hung are you, how much experience with trans women do you have (too little or too much can both be detrimental), how often do you go out to bars, clubs, restaurants.

I've found with Latin and Asian/South Asian trans women living outside of North America, their requirements are, are you a good person, do you have a job (doesn't matter what kind, as long as you are working), do you have any drug or alcohol problems.

So with Latin and Asian/South Asian trans women living outside of North America, their criteria for dating is typically based on you being a decent person with a good work ethic. North American tastes are based on materialism.

[Guest]

A lot of truth in the above post. My girl is 34 and even though she looks younger, she always laments how old she is and how she needs to settle down. Of course I am almost twice her age so it’s hard to take her comments on her age seriously. Still I think 34 is probably old for a woman there in the Philippines without a partner.

[Kylie Storm]

I keep it simple I just don't date ....lol

[AmbreVamos]

I understand that if I were to travel overseas, I could have a girlfriend while on vacation, then make it work long distance, and visit again. If things got serious, yes okay progress is made BUT I mean is that the ONLY option?

Come on, we are all human, and there have to be some local options...I don’t think the only or best option is a plane ticket across the entire world, to find a part time, long distance relationship...

Grindr is a no go, the girls I see on there ask for payment, unfortunately. Tinder I’ve deleted, but when I was on it, all cis women. I think. 🤔. Could be wrong, perhaps they did not advertise.

And obviously seeing as we are all human, it just depends on chance of meeting someone, which I understand...maybe I’ll get lucky and cross paths in a local cafe, but what are the chances?

Are there any TGirl dating apps from Toronto?

If not, Asia, here I come... 🙄

Transsexual women are like other women. You shouldn't generalize what you see. They are not all escorts and many of them are looking for a serious relationship.
It is just necessary to look at the good place

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I agree. But also, I disagree.
Yes, transsexual women are like other women.
But even with cis women, for example, if I want to meet someone who likes to exercise, odds are I’ll meet her at the gym. Someone who likes to read, book store or library. All women are different, whether cis or trans. I have no trouble meeting women, but 100% of them are cis...
Thanks for your input, but you still fail to answer my question. Where do I meet a TS to have the opportunity to ask for a date? All at the same spots yes, because we’re all human but how do I specifically find a TS. I assume it’s harder to just date, because some men aren’t down for the extra surprise. Some are. Do you just gamble it on a date, like surprise and I hope you’re down for it? I’m a man who IS down for it, so where do I go? If you say all the same spots, then honestly it’s like winning the lottery. Let me just pick up and date women I meet , and maybe the thousandth one will be a TS beauty.

[Guest]

I agree. But also, I disagree.
Yes, transsexual women are like other women.
But even with cis women, for example, if I want to meet someone who likes to exercise, odds are I’ll meet her at the gym. Someone who likes to read, book store or library. All women are different, whether cis or trans. I have no trouble meeting women, but 100% of them are cis...
Thanks for your input, but you still fail to answer my question. Where do I meet a TS to have the opportunity to ask for a date? All at the same spots yes, because we’re all human but how do I specifically find a TS. I assume it’s harder to just date, because some men aren’t down for the extra surprise. Some are. Do you just gamble it on a date, like surprise and I hope you’re down for it? I’m a man who IS down for it, so where do I go? If you say all the same spots, then honestly it’s like winning the lottery. Let me just pick up and date women I meet , and maybe the thousandth one will be a TS beauty.

The chances of meeting a transgender woman in your normal activities is close to zero unless you frequent places where one might be found like gay bars etc. Even then the odds are not good.

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Yeah thanks for validating that for me. FML lmao haha it is what it is, I guess. 🤷🏽♂️

[justvisiting2016]

The chances of meeting a transgender woman in your normal activities is close to zero unless you frequent places where one might be found like gay bars etc. Even then the odds are not good.

Not so true. I mean, I asked out a bank teller last year who was trans, and a server at an earls restaurant who was trans, and a server at a cactus club restaurant who was trans. There are plenty of trans women who are not escorts and are just living regular lives with regular jobs. You just have to talk to people like anywhere else.

[Guest]

Not so true. I mean, I asked out a bank teller last year who was trans, and a server at an earls restaurant who was trans, and a server at a cactus club restaurant who was trans. There are plenty of trans women who are not escorts and are just living regular lives with regular jobs. You just have to talk to people like anywhere else.

I am dumbfounded. To my knowledge I have never seen a transgender woman in the US.