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Ladies and gents give me 2 days .... you know I've done this before and always post when I plan too. Its going to be a long read.
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Only one more sleep after today!
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I read and read and read and am always happy to see what is written here with of course a few exceptions but with everything we should all take it in stride ...to a certain point.
Does this sound like a sermon? Maybe but at least I'm stepping up and drawing the line and saying I"VE F***ING HAD ENOUGH!!
Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. Like a kid calming down after a fit hold your tears (or anger) back and begin to look at the world through a new perspective. It's time to stop hoping and START MAKING A CHANGE DAMN IT. The fact of the matter is that in the real world there aren't always happy endings or beginnings and that any guarantee of either must start with you.
Please understand everyone that you and no one else either is perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are...and that's OK. Thats how it always is. THAT'S LIFE. I'm a testament to that. For over 20 years I had a condition thats finally been rid of but over those 2 decades I was the subject of much humiliation and yes a few fights. You know what though? Everyone is entitled to their own views and opinions but at least learn the importance of loving and championing yourself and in the process find a new confidence and learn to at least love yourself. STOP COMPLAINING and BLAMING other people for the things they did or didn't do for you and learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected. Pick yourself up carry on and for the love of Pete STOP judging and pointing fingers and accept people as they are. We are all vulnerable and don't you bloody forget that.
Can you take a few minutes out of your daily routine and see whats been pounded into your mind? I'm telling you that if you spare yourself the time to find out how you've been grown and taught about what you should eat , what you should wear, how you should act, etc etc and realise the junk that got you to believe that way and rid yourself of the silliness it'll do you a world of good. Hell, you just may find yourself doing things on instinct ... being spontaneous .... be the person you really wanted to be. Hah. Look at me as a prime example. I finally got the nerve to be in the company of t women. Thats just one of many examples. How often have I said to be honest and even more to be FAIR? Be FAIR to yourself and to others. I don't know anyone as of yet that didn't want to hear the truth and those that say there is nothing wrong with a little white lie wouldn't be able to give you a straight answer to the question what is 2 plus 2? Be responsible. Don't be afraid to say NO but know there are some boundaries to things also.
As people read this its understandable some will approve some will not approve some will just laugh and others will just roll their eyes into the back of their head and have that "whatever" look on their face and be tempted to write something or perhaps reply with some derogatory remark or a statement of approval . That's humanity though its not necessarily "the human" speaking. I'm pointing at everyone here ... whether it be a t woman or nervous admirer or lifelong adorer how easy is it for you to talk to someone that's out of their element? Then ask yourself how good is YOUR composure when you are out of your "comfort zone" and people are grilling YOU constantly?
At least understand that with anything that you do that yes respect yourself and others and accept the short comings we all have but TRY to go one step further. Not too suggest going mad crazy and buy that lavish candle light dinner for a complete stranger but how hard would it be to at least open a door , tell a joke, chat for a few moments or just say please, thank you and even more important "I'm sorry." when the situation calls for it? No one has the answers to life except you. The more you change for the positive more than likely others are likely to change as well.
Little side notes
- Thanks to toban for his replies to my posts
- Thanks to bubblee for teaching me to use the word t woman
- Thanks to KC for getting me to be a little wilder
- Thanks to admin for everything
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That was a very awesome read,tx for sharing with us and taking the time to post from your heart and soul,im glad you found the courage to be around a tgirl for the most part were not at all different then a genetic,some of us have normal lives away from the spot light, we raise our kids and give them all we can and more just as a genetic would exept our kids show no prejudism just mutual unconditional love.we have to do groceries,shop get the car into the dealership for the oil changes do the laundry and attend our pta monthly meetings so we are not that different we just get hit on more than a genetic thats all so tx again for the posts your a great guy and i wish you happiness in whatever road you travell ttys,love lisa.lisaparadise
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Rantsalot
You've put your thoughts to paper and that's exactly one reason why these forums are in place. While your theme admonishes those who find it difficult to live with difficulty, you offer plausible avenues to lessen personal pain. You got it off your chest and you feel better for it. Good ....Mission accomplished.
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I post this for everyone's benefit. Maybe some will learn and some won't care and consider the whole thing a bunch of garbage. I mean there's the old cliche.
A person is a logical, rational and kind human being but put them into a clique and they become followers , panicky and mean spirited and will go along with the crowd for the sake of saving face.
Don't I know it especially with actions taken onto me over the past few days.
Don't mistake this for me being a push over though and that I'm always going to be rosy and forgive everything and act like one of the Brady Bunch kids either ..... oh no ... not anymore. As I said. Change. If I can do it any body here can do it.
How's this relate to t women too? That's another story for another day in the near future.Comment
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Like I said....another story in the near future....
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This thread isn't dead. Not by a long shot. Just jotting down some thoughts as to how this relates to t women. Don't know when the response will be but it'll come. In the mean time
thanks to shy girl 2 for trying to get to know me a little
thanks to Paco...yes Paco for his bluntness
thanks to markerverse for his timely and insightful opinions
thanks to sensual lover for his impartial attitude
thanks to jenllani for her wittiness
thanks to TGirl Nikki for keeping us informed on the picture at large
thanks to capitus for respectfully accepting my tastes
thanks to snoodle for always replying
thanks to the dude for keeping things real
and there is more ... lots more...in time. Think whatever you want of this. At least I've got the cojones to express myself about guys and t women and unlike most I do practise what I preach.Comment
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it had better not be dead youve neglegted to thank me buddy lol most post by a shemale most popular by the readers hmmmmmm lolOriginally posted by Rantsalot View Post
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thanks to lisa for picking me up when I'm down
thanks to prettyboy for his insight
thanks to youngboy4ts for his respect
thanks to Shelby Wylde for always being colorful (plus having dynamite pics)
O.k. Well. Again. More to come but it's going to take time.
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Yes Thanks! Rantzy
For diligently making sure that it's a correct spelling, 'WITTINES' (means cleverly humorous) 'coz, I have a one time admirer who sent me a card describing me as that, but he mis-spelled and I mis-understood 'coz, he wrote WET'TINESS (means so horny and with dripping fluid LOL!) so I called off the wedding.Originally posted by Rantsalot View Post
LOL!
" To the world you maybe just one person, but to one person you maybe the world ."
"Never lie to someone who trusts you, and never trust someone who lies to you."
"Never wrestle with pigs. You both get dirty and the pig likes it."
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Was someone a "witness" to that??
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I was about to turn into a jackass and begin berating peoples tastes, like, "WHAT! You mean you like THAT? ewwww, gross!" and blatant misplaced homophobia... but your kind words have swayed me.Originally posted by Rantsalot View Post
Rock on Sir Rantsalot.
and Thank you for Ranting, a lot.
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