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    Does anyone have a good story about dating a trans girl? I'm thinking of a more serious relationship with a trans girl. Has anyone got any experience with coming out as loving trans to friends or a partner? thanks

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    It was horrible! She was a top and I had to beat her off my ass with a stick!

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    • #3
      If you know where to meet trans girls let me know.
      ive looked online for reliable dating sites but they all seem to be dead ends. And I’m pretty sure the working girls enjoy their freedom.

      please let me know if there’s a good way to meet relationship minded girls
      Last edited by Cbr954rr; 01-10-2021, 12:19 PM.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by mrtrunt6785556 View Post
        Does anyone have a good story about dating a trans girl? I'm thinking of a more serious relationship with a trans girl. Has anyone got any experience with coming out as loving trans to friends or a partner? thanks
        Always. Who do you have to worry about condemning you? Strangers, who cares. Family? Same old story if they can't accept your sexual identity are they worth worrying about? Friends? Get new ones if they have an issue with it.

        First time I dated a trans woman I was still in that "I worry what people will think" insecurity part of my life. Took the leap to not let it get in the way and I found out that it didn't matter one fucking bit with the people who cared about me and loved me.

        So you know, it's a lot to do about nothing . If you care about her and want it to be a real life partnership that includes friends and family, then take the leap no matter how nervous you are. Most people who care about you may resist or bug you but that will go away. If they want to trash you for it, they are not good enough for you and your life.

        Once you do get through that fear, your dating life forever will be far more relaxed. Whether you go out with a CIS girl, Trans girl, non binary, etc you will just enjoy being you and know that the people who care about you will accept you and the shitheads are long gone from your life. So, I can talk to and go out with CIS or Trans and it's all on an equal playing field for me and that is a very chill place to be and not have to worry about all that external shit. Everyone who knows me knows I will eat a pussy or suck a dick and that is ok :P

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        • #5
          I've dated a trans and tried to keep it secret from family and co-workers. Sometimes what others think actually can / does have a very big impact on your life. It's for each individual to decide what is right path for them. If my "sexual identity" is something else like being a Dom in an S&M scene the same rule applies - I may not want my family , friends or boss / co-workers to know that. Also its none of their business.
          Basically if you find a nice girl that you want to share a fwb experience with.... just like with many cis fwb.... it becomes complicated eventually. Sooner or later feelings by one party or both will develop and then you're going to be expected to do all the public things that any couple does and if you're not comfortable doing that.... then its just hurt and pain for both parties from there.
          So yeah.... if you're not ready to be "out" as attracted to trans then just stick to the high priced ts escorts for your bedroom fun. I really think that the taboo / stigma (or whatever you wanna call it) is often part of the attraction. Of course dick is nice too. Everyone should enjoy some dick in their lives. But the very reason society views something as taboo is the same reason -(for some) - that it's exciting and different. Just my 2 cents .

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          • #6
            Well said!
            Originally posted by justvisiting2016 View Post

            Always. Who do you have to worry about condemning you? Strangers, who cares. Family? Same old story if they can't accept your sexual identity are they worth worrying about? Friends? Get new ones if they have an issue with it.

            First time I dated a trans woman I was still in that "I worry what people will think" insecurity part of my life. Took the leap to not let it get in the way and I found out that it didn't matter one fucking bit with the people who cared about me and loved me.

            So you know, it's a lot to do about nothing . If you care about her and want it to be a real life partnership that includes friends and family, then take the leap no matter how nervous you are. Most people who care about you may resist or bug you but that will go away. If they want to trash you for it, they are not good enough for you and your life.

            Once you do get through that fear, your dating life forever will be far more relaxed. Whether you go out with a CIS girl, Trans girl, non binary, etc you will just enjoy being you and know that the people who care about you will accept you and the shitheads are long gone from your life. So, I can talk to and go out with CIS or Trans and it's all on an equal playing field for me and that is a very chill place to be and not have to worry about all that external shit. Everyone who knows me knows I will eat a pussy or suck a dick and that is ok :P
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            • #7
              Originally posted by mrtrunt6785556 View Post
              Does anyone have a good story about dating a trans girl? I'm thinking of a more serious relationship with a trans girl. Has anyone got any experience with coming out as loving trans to friends or a partner? thanks
              My 0.02$: I've dated tgirls for years openly. One aspect of doing so is that the girls very were passable, which makes going out & meet/greets easy. Yes, sometimes the girl gets "read", sometimes people are staring at us: I don't care.

              One of the keys to happiness is : worry less about what others think about you.
              SINcerely, Lora-Lana

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              • #8
                That’s why you are the man Barb!
                "Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than
                Standing in a garage makes you a car."

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                • #9
                  I had a LTR /live-in relationship with a gorgeous Tgirl, my mother really liked her, my kids did not, but mostly it was the age diff they hated ,Loved her to bits but she couldnt kick the booze habit & it eventually destroyed the relationship

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                  • #10
                    I've dated 2. Never made a big deal of it. Some of my friends suspected they were trans but never really cared.
                    Family would be the bigger issue but we never get to meeting family.

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                    • #11
                      I dated a trans woman from Montreal for about a year and a half. Sadly, not living in the same city was too much for us. She was wonderful. We were sometimes starred at in public, but I think it was mostly because she was so beautiful.

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                        Last edited by Locomotion; 03-18-2021, 12:16 AM.

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